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When living together, one of the first underground agreements between couples is the "lying on the bed". Perhaps you are surprised to think that this problem is quite funny and a bit "childish". However, it is likely that many couples are arguing for this!

Whether or not the "rules" of the couples are lying?

Although no one publicly acknowledges the existence of a clear regulation on the position lying in bed, an interesting fact is that couples often form a habit of lying on one side. Right from the first day of the house, this happened almost naturally, silently, so much so that it created an unconscious habit. Even, whether in different sleeping spaces such as private houses, hotels or when staying at relatives, couples have instinctive to find a familiar bed. Gradually, the "left" and "right" have gradually become the "bed territory" of each person. In unconscious, "underground agreement" about the position of lying in the beds of couples also began to form.

Some studies have shown that men tend to sleep on the right because they want to become a guard, and women like to sleep on the left because they feel safe. Some people choose to sleep based on other factors such as near power sockets, near windows, near doors, or may be away from toilets.

Why do couples like to "reserve"?

Whether it is natural instincts or hobbies, "reserving" in bed becomes "underground law" for many reasons.

Firstly, when you maintain a familiar sleeping position, your sleep quality will be better. The reason is that your brain often has some familiar environmental links, so your body often reacts with familiar "signals" to signal rest time. The familiar feeling from the direction of lying, the pillow, the typical scent of the bedroom, even the breeze from the window can also activate the brain to relax, helping the body easily fall asleep.

Second, the division of beds will help both of you can maintain the feeling of independence and own a separate "territory" on the same bed. In other words, despite being really connected on a bed, you and your partner can still feel mutual respect thanks to your own small space.

Should couples change position in bed?

Maintaining a fixed sleeping position in bed is a common habit in many couples, but this is not a mandatory rule. Tiktoker Angelina Murphy was noticeable when revealing that she and her husband often chose the bed instead of fixing a position. "We did not agree on sleep, we just randomly chose one side when lying down. The night I slept the other side and then I slept here again."

Talking about the case of Angelina Murphy, a psychologist, said that changing places can bring a new feeling in the relationship of couples. This can help you observe the "other half" from a different angle, or even feel their feelings when lying in that position in the previous nights.

However, you should not force the opponent to change the position of sleeping because for some people, changing sleep habits can cause discomfort, even insomnia. Also for this reason, Angelina Murphy received many controversial opinions because of her flexible sleep. Under the vibrant comment in Angelina's video, some netizens joked that even when they were single, they still possessed a fixed bed. Another account said: "I am really surprised when you two are fine with this."

According to ABC News, of more than 8,800 comments below the video of female Tiktoker, less than 1% agrees with the couple's sleeping arrangement. "Angelina Murphy himself admitted:" Whenever we talk about choosing a random sleep with friends, they all think it is the crazy thing they have ever heard. "

It can be seen that sharing a bed sounds simple but an important part of the couple's common home. Whether there is a fixed or flexible sleeping place, understanding and respecting each other in bed will be one of the factors that help you keep the fire lasting happiness.