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The first dates can be intimidating enough. They are very important and the impression that you do certainly will certainly affect your second date or if there will be one. It is a bit like a hiring interview, but for your personal love life, which makes it even more stressful. We all want to make the best impression and come off like the best version of ourselves, while appearing cold and natural and easy to live. We have to stay on this thin line between coming too hard and look indifferent, we have to keep the conversation, but always listen to what they have to say, we want to be ourselves, but also be charming and funny and elegant at the same time. How do you do all this? Well, to be honest, we do not know. But what we know is that there are some simple tips you can follow to make a good impression of your first appointment and make the whole smoother go thing.

1. IT OUT PLAN
If you are the kind of person who becomes very nervous when there is a lull in a conversation - do not leave randomly. Plan some things you can talk about or better - offer date ideas. If you are going to see a movie, you can discuss it later and that gives you something to talk. Even with museums, art exhibitions, theaters, concerts, so suggest something like that like a date, instead of going to a coffee and look at each other.

2. Arrive on time
If your date look for you - be ready earlier, so when it comes up, you can leave right away instead of keeping it on hold while you finish your lipstick. If you are some part of meeting - arrive in time. You really do not want to be at first, because you will give you more time to worry and panic, so just the time well and be there when you agreed. Everyone appreciates when their punctuality dates from is¬¬¬.


3. Wear memorable clothes
Wear something that your date will remember. It could be easy to dress up all in black and hide your insecurities, but if you want to make an impression that you have to make some efforts. We do not suggest that you all go out and carry something more or something you are not comfortable. Just add a detail that will stand out. Like a nice bright accessory, whether it's a hat, bright shoes or a red-red bag is always memorable.

4. Use perfume
Not many people know how many perfume things with regard to the first impressions. We rarely think about it, but the fact is, our perfume is very strong, and often different odors can bring memories in our mind. So put on a spritz of your favorite perfume for your date. In this way, his memory will be not only visual, but more rounded and in three dimensions. But do not go overboard. One or two spritz will do, no need to take a shower in your scent, you do not want your date to suffune.


5. Be a good listener
Although taking is an important part of a date, listening is even more important. So actually list your date. Few people are good listeners, so if you are, use your advantage and make your date feel special. If she does not come to you naturally - make an effort, it will be worth it.

6. Ask questions
Do you know what makes a person feel good and evaluated? Ask for questions. If you see that they are really excited to talk about something to ask questions about the subject. This is also an excellent technique if there is a lull in a conversation and you can not think of something to say - just ask them questions about themselves, their hopes, dreams, aspirations. You seem interested and he will keep them talking.


7. It is a date, not a therapy session
Do not enter your family problems, traumatic experiences or relationships on the first date. Nobody really wants the drama right away. It's going to share a fun anecdote about your past experiences, but do not immerse yourself in your questions and insecurities as soon as you meet someone. It's never a good idea.

8. Do not address heavy topics
Same thing for heavy topics like religion and politics. Everyone knows that it is bad taste to discuss it in public, so just not. If everything goes well, you will have the chance to discuss your opinions and opinions on this issue later the line. However, your first date is not the time or place for that.


9. Say their name
People like to hear their name, so try to pan in your conversation. Instead of saying "Hey, you" or immediately use pet names, simply use their real name. It will give you a chance to get used to the way it moves from your tongue, they will have a chance to love how their name sounds when you say it and right away, it's a good idea to ensure you You remember your name name.

10. Do not forget to breathe
As stressful as it could feel, remember to breathe. Breathe slowly in and outside. It will relax a little and make you seem less stressed. We know it's sometimes easy to forget to breathe in stressful situations, then we rushed and a kind of severe. Do not forget to relax, breathe and relax. You have all the time in the world.


11. Compliment them
A lot of time, we do not remember exactly what people tell us to the first appointment, because everything seems as if such a blur, but we remember how we felt. So pay them some compliments, make them feel good and special. In this way, they will remember that you made them feel good at the date.

12. Do not play games
Chances are that you are not the only one to be stressed on the date, so it's not necessary to complicate the situation by playing games, dropping clues and confounding everyone. Be honest and simple, if you like it - tell it just. Who would not want to hear that you had a good time and you would like to do that again?