Good Lifestyle

The breaks are. Not only for those who are dropped, but also for those who have to queue courage to be the one who initiates a break. It is an important and difficult decision to do. After all, you mainly contemplate a major change in your life and you are also hyper conscious that you will hurt the person you love / loved by doing this. Nobody really wants to cause damage to those we organize darling, but sometimes it's the right thing to do and the end it will be for the better. Life is weird like that.
In order to help you determine if you just cross a rough patch or if it's really time to finish things, we found a lot of questions that you should ask you before breaking up with him. This will probably always harm the same thing, but at least you will be sure of your knowledge that you are going the right thing.

1. Is there a mutual respect?
Respect is one of the most important things in a relationship. If you do not respect it, there is really no reason to be with him. So take a step back and ask yourself if you observe it and do you want to respect you.

2. Do you feel safe?
The fact that you should feel safe is a warning. And we do not just want security in a physical sense, but also on an emotional level. Do you feel safe to share your thoughts, opinions, worries and life goals with him, or are you coming back to the fear of being judged?


3. Does this relationship come out the best in you?
Nobody is perfect and we are not always our best. But think about your time together and determine if it brings out your best qualities. Do you feel like a nice person when you are with him or turn off maybe the negative sides of your personality you prefer to stay hidden and forgotten?

4. Do you like to have a conversation with him?
Communication is the basis of any relationship. If you have nothing to talk about that, you do not really connect to a basic level. Do you like to talk to him? Or do you usually write your brain for a topic of conversation? When you talk, is it nice, or do you finish yourself quite chatting and fighting all the time?


5. Do you fight in the same way?
Speaking of fighting, these are also important enough. Do not worry, everyone fights once for a while, it's normal and not a cause for concern. Only one way to understand problems and solve problems. However, do you fight in the same way? Some people need to raise voices and scream things, others just prefer to forget and move on. Some tend to go out and get away because they need space to understand things, others have to discuss everything in detail in order to pass the past. If your fight styles are very different, it could be a source of a lot of frustration.

6. Do you have a sense of similar humor?
Life is not always sunny and rainbow and a sense of humor is what prevents us from going when the thing becomes difficult. So he makes you laugh? Can he brighten up your mood when you fail? Do you make fun of the same things and share a sense of similar humor? Because we are pretty sure everyone has a sense of humor, but his puree with yours?


7. Does he make your life more interesting?
Now, do not deceive you, it is not supposed to be your source of entertainment, it would be ridiculous. But does it make a little more interesting your daily life? Do you feel that even do worldly tasks is not so bad when you do them together? Or maybe watching a movie is always better when it's right next to you?

8. Do you feel encouraged to grow up?
You want to surround yourself with people who wish the best for you and who encourages you to grow as a person, emotionally, intellectually and otherwise. Does he encourage you to work on your job, learn about things and explore the world or feeling complacent and stuck?


9. Do you like him or the idea of ​​him?
Basically, it's really what you want in real life or maybe someone you think you're great for you? Is it in fact what you need or is it simply adapted to some coches that you created for him? We tend to idealize our partners and once the honeymoon scene has realities can be far from perfect.

10. Why do you want to break?
This is the most obvious question you should ask you. Which makes you want to end this relationship. Is there any particular reason or maybe an entire list? Write down, find what you bother the most and think about it.


11.Do you tried to talk to him?
Once you have understood these reasons, think if you have known them. Did you bring this before? Did you have any conversations about things that make you unhappy or you would like to change. Is it something he is ready to work?

12. Will it make you happy?
This one is hard. If it were easy, you would not even think about it. This will probably not jump with joy the second you break, but try to think about the implications of this in the long run. Do you feel a feeling of ease when you no longer think with him? When you think about your future - do you see it in your life or not?

Hope you are wondering that these questions helped you clarify some things. In the end, you are the one who has to make the decision and you know what suits you best.