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Some stories in life simply seem too good to be true - as if they were looted in the intrigue of romantic comedies. This is certainly the case when it comes to Jessica and his family.

Twelve years ago, she and she then-wife lived in Midwest and decided that they wanted to have a child. They went to a sperm bank and took the difficult task of choosing a donor.

"Because I write a doctoral thesis at home, I would wear the first baby," wrote Jessica in a try forThe BBC. "We have matched the donor to my partner - who was now my wife - choosing someone of average size and weight that had studied literature, had corrugated brown hair and loved sport. The donor listed his profession as a profession. than writer, musician and taxi driver. My wife and I imagined Romanically, he refused to get a job of office, but collecting the stories of those he took in his cabin, to divert to write the great novel American. "

Seven months later, Alice was born.

"We have little thought to the donor that we assumed that we would never meet," she wrote. "My wife has been particularly hostile to the idea of ​​never letting our children know - she felt that love did a family, and I accepted. But we paid tribute to his literary genes reading thousands books at our bookstore gestures. "

Their daughter Alice was so beloved that they decided to re-order more spermatozoa of the same donor so that she could have a biological brother, this time worn by Jessica's wife. Eighteen months later, she was born and "it became a fun game to choose characteristics that shared girls. They were extraordinarily high, not of average size, because the donor claimed to be, had long thin mouths, small nose, electric eyes and impeccable vocabularies. "

Unfortunately, three years later, Jessica's wife decided to end marriage.

"There was no conflict in our family, so I was shocked and broken heart. She said she did not want to talk about it and I could not do anything to repair our marriage. I have Continued the parenthood of the sisters five days a week for a few years. But when Alice was 10 years old, my ex-partner blocked Alice on his phone, cut all contact with her and refused to return his younger sister as a vacation suite. This remains the case today. "

As Alice grew up, she became more interested in her ancestry and asked for a DNA test kit for Christmas when she was 11 years old. The results indicated that his biological father was named Aaron Long and had a half-brother named Bryce.

Jessica sought Aaron Online and finally came to a man who matched the details she remembered him: corrugated brown hair, medium weight and height, writer and musician. When she found her photos from the school, the resemblance to her children was undeniable. "My girls make this stupid face," she writes.

Jessica wrote to Aaron to tell him who she was, and he answered immediately, writing a "50 pages long life story", which she "devoured". She also wrote in Bryce, who had just graduated from a college and has already found more than half-brothers and sisters, including a 19-year-old person named Mada. A few months later, Jessica, Alice and Madi flew to Seattle for an unusual but comforting family meeting.

It went to the sea. "We visited the local sculpture garden, I played a" nature or nourished "game that illuminated some shocking similarities and took a trip on the road in an arts festival."

At the time, Jessica was in a long-term relationship with another man, who was, with coincidence, also named Aaron. But when this relationship ended, she found herself think of the biological father of her daughter.

"When my relationship with Old Aaron ended, I found myself asking if the person of my children could also be my person, and if Seattle was a place where we disembied while we understood. Aaron's. The kindness and continued the connection with his exes convinced me that it would be prudent to give him a chance. "

The answer was yes. They came back again and it felt right.

"I already knew that he was as if the people I love more than anyone in the world. He was already family in any way that this smile and color are those of my youngest girl. His empathy and socialism? My elder."

Jessica and Alice moved with Aaron to the summer of 2017 and last spring, Madi joined them. Since then, they have found another half-brother and have joined a girl scout troop with her.

"I quickly discovered that like a mother," writes Jessica. "I would like to gladly take one of our new half-brothers and sisters inside, do their lunch, make their clothes and take care of them forever ... By making a family of all these new ways Throughout the years, I learned more about what means of the family that anyone who would like. DNA has become much more important than when I chose a donor from a page. Yet he does not have Replaced truism that families are built on love, not genes. To be open to this love This is finally a family. Everyone can be welcomed and stay in the fold. There is room for many types of relationships. "

She does not know how many organic children of Aaron are there. "It is felt that there could be up to 67 years," she wrote. "The building can possibly stop welcoming all, but I have the sandwiches and the door open."

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