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Like a 42-year-old virgin, I am often askedWhat life is like without sex. My answer is usually, "Ask any couple who has beenMarried over 20 years. "And if you were asking, no, you do not" lose "if you do not use it. I can certainly assure everyone that your parts of your man do not fall if you decide to wait.

It's not difficult for me toto joke About my abstinence because I'm very comfortable with my decision to hold back to the wedding for sex, a choice I did when I was young based on myReligious education. I grew up attending several Christian churches of various denominations, but their message was always the same: when it comes to sex, it is best to wait.

So that's exactly what I did. Of course, being a virginIn your 40s is not always easy. I have been subjected to many jokes and rude reviews of people who simply can not seem to understand my choice of life and there are definitely days when Ifeeling lonely.

When an article on my virginity was posted onMad In 2018, I started reading the comments, but finally had to close the browser. I do not judge anyone for their choices and do not think I should be judged, shameful or pressed because of mine.

However, I can take the rib of good nature from friends and family, who all accept my decision. (Although the cap has decreased as and when this time, the jokes become expired.) And for the most part, I can handle the cruelty of others, especially after the resistance of thebullying I endured during my young years.

As a person who grew up in a neighboring agricultural community and transferred second year schools, I was initially tasted by the children of the city for bringing glasses, without having the last styles of clothing, and possibly, for My intelligent mouth when I decided to get up for myself. Most of the college days until the 10th year, I was beaten.

If there were girls who loved me at the time, they certainly did not get home and risk being intimidated. Even my classmates of men did not really associate with me. I have always been chosen for the last time in class of gym or not at all, which strangely teachers let drag and have always hated missions where we were supposed to work in pairs because I knew I would be the strange man unless the teacher forced someone to work with me. But this ostracism did not make me more independent and autonomous - and frankly, I think I'm better for that.

As a second year in high school, I decided to move from public school to a Christian school outside the city. I was very active in the church during these years - and the combination of my religious teachings and the virtue of being constantly held on sexual presses at the bay.

Then, instead of continuing toUniversity or a university, I went directly to the high school workforce, working in theCall Center Industry. I have also been taquinated at work, but in a good way, like most employees, there was much older than me. When you are the fresh face teenager working with most women 20 and 30 years old, your senior, they are expected to start commenting on your youth and relative inexperience. It was a very busy environment normally, but during slow times, we were going to talk about our lives and our families. While my colleagues knew that I was single and probably virgin, I never had the impression of looking at me.

Finally, I found myself in a job I liked, taking calls for roadside assistance. Ishit myself in my work, accumulating overtime as much as I could until I could have been dismissed 18 months later, when things slow. I managed to find work in another call center right away, but the atmosphere was very different. The work was stressful and I did some knowledge, there was no socialization with the outside of work.

I did not understand many conversations with my colleagues because there was not much time to talk between calls. I'm sure everyone knew I wasSingleBut - with the exception of a woman who came a little too strong for my taste - I did not have a lot of close relationship with the majority of people who worked there.

Eight years in this job, the complications of LASIK surgery ended my career and forced me on disability benefits. The first year was an approximate adjustment period. I certainly spent a lot of time and money at the local bar and did aLittle friendshipsbut nothing more than that.

I also started managing the sports teams of the youth, which I continued for the last 12 seasons and I developed an interest in the amateur photography of that too. In a way, this facilitates the pressure ofhave children From myself since I can enjoy the great things about having them with few responsibilities that accompany it.

Despite what people often assume, as I am elderly,remain single did not have any difficulty. The company today places so little value on sex, constantly uses it for the sale of American goods or making it a commodity in itself, only the solidification of my decision. That does not mean that I am not interested in having sex, I just want to know that it is in the right situation if I do it.

I watchedApps like Bumble and Tinder From time to time, but in addition to the false profiles and security concerns inherent in the online foreigner meeting, I find that most of the users of these services are interested only by aquick connectionso I never really havearranged to meet. In fact, I am rarely elaborated the courage to make even correspond to women. The only time I really look at these applications, it's when we are absent from hockey tournaments, when the chances of meeting are extremely unlikely. I guess you might call it sabotage auto-sabotage or a sign that I may not really be ready tocome into a relationship Again.

The chastity belt is therefore firmly in place? Time will tell us. I certainly thought that I would like me to want children at some point, but for now, I will wait for the good person to come. If nothing happens, I'm in peace knowing that I live my best life. And for more unique life after 40 years, here is40 things that nobody tells you to be single more than 40 years old.

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