According to Reddit users, red flags must always ignore, according to Reddit users
These can arouse suspicion, but they do not deal with circuit breakers.
When you come to enter a new relationship, it is important to look for red flags. However, one of the disadvantages of thecommitment-phobic culture that we live today Do people give up a little too easily. The minute you tell your friends one thing that the other person misunderstood, their answer is: "Ditch him. It's the worst."
The reality is that no one is perfect, and sometimes it is worth getting to know someone a bit and to determine the motivation behind some of their problems in order to determine whether it is a draping of the case or something you can work. Do not mention sometimes opposites reallyto do Attract, and your strength can support some of their weaknesses.
That said, a Redditor recently asked people to share red flags on their spouses and partners they are happy that they did not know - and their answers were very illuminating. Read about some of the most convincing answers. And for red flags that you have definitivelyshould not Ignore, check what20 people learned after a failed relationship.
1 Anxiety problems
"She was worried about the smallest thing,",A reddit user wrote. "Everything that went wrong (dentist, food coming out, traffic, do not have enough time to wash his hair) would send him in a panic and put the mood of mood that can last hours. I am completely opposite . Completely relaxed. If the dentist does not have good news, I will accept it and do not worry, if the food goes out, I'll go down the shops and grab a little more and if we are late Because of the traffic. Go. I thought his moods would be the thing to put an end, to prove slowly my patience at a point where I would stop trying to comfort, reassure and calm down. I had wrong. Reader, I have never been happier. And we are good for each other. I can calm her and she can do me take care of things I'm not used to thinking was a big deal but finally. We work so well together. "
2 A curious sense of humor
"My wife [has a] sense of very strange and unusual humor"A reddit user wrote. "I was afraid he was mentally unstable. He caught strange animated drawings, voices and manners of the people of people (scary of the skin) and tell the craziest stories. It turns out he is Just hilarious and he usually keeps me with a belly once a week. "
3 "He's a loser"
"When I met him, my husband had just closed his cartoon shop"A reddit user wrote. "I had some people who did not know him to tell me that he was a loser because he had a comic book and" type "never done well in life. I knew his closed store for Reasons for his control (the trading partner had cancer, sold the store to pay for treatment) and that he was seriously depressed on that. No one else seemed to see the man I did and I felt like I stole it. Legit the most generous, the most funny, the most intelligent guy I have ever met. I'm happy to ignore them because I doubt that I could find a Best partner of life. There was a lot of [stuff] threw to us, but we marked it together. I love it and despite how much the rest of my life fears, my marriage is resilient and healthy. "