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An overly common dramatic in the movies involves a wife or groom at the wedding day, often to pursue the person they really wanted. But as anyone knows that more than one wedding knows, this classic Rom-com device rarely seems to happen in real life. (Fortunately, since he is cute heart for the spilled person.)

But according to an exclusive investigation by specialized diamond buyersWP Diamonds,Which has written 1,000 people aged 20 to 60 between the United States, it occurs more often than people could realize, but not necessarily the altar. According to their conclusions, a gross20 percent Of all the commitments are called before marriage.

The answersPeople's reddit thread who broke the commitments have put light on the phenomenon and indicate that, often the decision stems from something apparently small that happened during the weeks leading to the big day, something that pointed out to them as He was just not right.

Some realized that their partner was more in love with the idea of ​​marriage than of them. Others got the ax of someone who had hired red phobia flags from the beginning. Sometimes, however, the reasons for calling things are not clear enough.

Whatever the reasons for breaking, it seems that most people feel very well about their choices. According to the survey, 82.7% of people do not regret breaking and only 7.6% of people are blamed for a stranded relationship. About 40% stated that it was the fault of other people and the same number of people think that both parties are to blame.

Of those who have broken, however, one in four people believe that a willingness to compromisewould have saved the relationship. Other factors that people have said would have helpedBest communication, greater self-awareness, more time together and less societal pressureSo these are good things to keep in mind. To hear some of the worst blunt stories, the Reddit Courtesy, read below. And to find out if your romance is doomed, check20 signs of relationship warning Intelligent couples never do not know.

"Apparently out of the blue, my best friend tells me" guy, I'm not going to come between you and your fiancée. I will not give an opinion. Just the next time someone asks you to get married most eagerly waiting to compare his answers to yours, ""A user wrote. "I did not have it, but of course a few weeks later, someone from the family function asked me. I said" I love it and I can not wait to have the security of knowing that for the rest of my life it will be with me. A little while after later, I heard someone ask and listen to the conversation: "I can not wait to have a husband, I'm going to have a new ring, we will have a house, I'll have some children , Maybe a puppy ... a beautiful court .... nothing about me. Nothing of love, partnership, share our lives together. My best friend told me that's what it was observed too. Several times. It was never on me. I called marriage and broke things with her. We put home that we have just bought - but never moved into the market. She met a guy a few days on a dating website. Two days after the house sold, they committed themselves (it was only 4.5 months after we separated) She now has a husband, a house, three children and his new ring. I have my happiness. "To make sure you never find yourself in this situation, learn the15 signs that your partner is the wedding equipment (or not).

"We met through the work. I had known him for about a year before gathering,"A user wrote. "I should have known in advance that it was a bad idea because it had been engaged in a few months of gathering and broke it apparently without reason. We spent 4 1/2 years together, during the course. from which I was honestly, the happiest I have ever been. He asked me to marry him while we spent a huge dinner with a group of friends - wrote a poem, me Given the ring, with a necklace and earrings. It was nice to feel well liked and share the moment with all our friends and family. The last month of our relationship (about 6 months after commitment), A new girl started at work. It was a manager and was the one who was assigned to give him the ropes. She was beautiful - and many like me, in almost every way. I noticed that he would come back at home feel like a perfume. He was constantly talking about the "amazing" she was "and how he thought he could be"Greatfriends.' I left for a vacation with my family a month after his approach. I was gone for a week. Three days in my trip, I receive a text that he does not know if he can be with me more. He was confused. ' I spent the rest of my trip to try to call or interact with him, in vain. He did not want to talk to me. He would answer and tell me if. He left me the day I returned from vacation-vacation shown at home, asked his stuff (and the ring) and left. Three months later, I fell on the girl with whom he worked with the mall. She came to me, apologized to get in the way, then showed the "incredible ring [he] bought for her." You guessed it. My engagement ring. In the end, he left it for someone else too. Probably recycled the ring again. "And for more horrible break stories, do not miss the20 the most stupid ways men have been broken cheating.

"It was a difficult choice. We seemed so perfect for each other"A user wrote. "The fact was that I had advanced my life and she was putting there where she had become a harm. I felt like she would be a leech on my finances, even though I care deeply for her. I tried to encourage him to continue moving forward, but in the end, she only saw me like a nag. It was the hardest thing I've done - and I always wonder if J 'made the right choice. "

"I sold almost everything I owned, leaves my two jobs and I released a loan to move my fiancée in New York Florida,"A user wrote. "It was his dream. And I loved him, so I had it happened. I did not like Florida, but I did the best of that. I was released with a friend for a baccalaureate party We all drank to the strip-tease club. Well, twenty minutes later, ladies and sweet [men], please welcome Lilly on the scene. Only Lilly was not just a girl named Lilly. Lilly Was my fiancée. Lilly was Fouly because of the tattooing of her favorite flower of the reads - that I paid. I absolutely lost it. Fortunately, some of my sober friends are removed from the club. She Lied and told me that she was working nights in a bar, which I knew she did it, but I guess it was part-time. I stayed with a friend for a few days. I told him once. She admitted to being a cleaner for a moment. Needless to say, I was done. My father came to Florida, slid a credit card for a rental truck, Picked my business and returned to New York three days later. "

"We have already lived together for three years"A user wrote. "His proposal was something like:" I guess you want to get married? "And he acted like he would do something special after that, but he never did. There were a lot of things that went wrong and we fought more than ever. He cheated as he worked out of the state. He finally moved. He was really difficult, despite a very good thing, but I knew he would be married in a year. And he was. A woman was stupid enough to get married and have children With him, and he is always a drunk who blows his pay check at the bar every week. I'm just happy that it's no longer my problem. "

"I thought of what it would be to our wedding - how it would look like, his drift for me and how I would feel - a little feeling of comfort because of the familiar for me, but especially a feeling of Resignation Gral, "A user wrote. "Not," Oh, how happy I am to marry that person, but it is the decision I made. "I think if the wife was the right thing to do, I would have felt excited and happy about it." If you feel the same about your partner, check15 signs that you should certainly be single.

"I caught her telling another woman he thought to break with me after having a long passionate sex night"A user wrote. For more things about how to see the infidelity train to come to you, checkWhy men cheat.

"I decided to well before we really broke up commitment. It was a bit like a rabbit hole"A user wrote. "We talked about moving together. We went to watch an apartment. We received a copy of the lease. Then, in one way or another, it has just arrived. We signed a lease the week Next. We may have talked maybe watching rings, then he was on a knee. We were already living together-how could I possibly say no? I said yes. Then I realized that it was not not what I wanted. I never wanted it. It was practical. It was right here in front of me. I called it. Now I live with a man I hope to have the privilege of a Day getting married. If you fear it's not good enough, enough to really start a fire in your heart, it's not good enough. "

"I engaged in my pregnant girlfriend. Four months before the wedding, she called him, saying that she does not feel love anymore"A user wrote. "A week after that, I went home early in my second job to surprise her and I see if we can work things, and I found her in bed with the guy who would have been my best man. Stops, They were skilling for six months and she planned to leave me as soon as he broke things with his wife (who had to be his bridesmaid). I decided to speed up the process by telling his wife That I found and say that, instead of leaving it, the guy congratulates my fiancée to try to save his wedding. "For more information on the perspective of infidelity, readWhy women cheat.

"My best friend stopped getting married. Using his penis"A user wrote.

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