40 lies that you have to stop saying you
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The world is filled with liars and the biggest isyou. Hey, hey, calm down, we do not want to say that as a personal attack. Nobody accuses you of lying to your friends or family or (Heaven prohibit us) the IRS. We are talking about these lies that you say only one person: yourself. Yes, for any reason when it comes to your internal monologue, it is difficult to be fully truthful. What is weird, because you think we could recognize our own Balion. And yet, most of us continue to believe our own false news, even if we should certainly know better.
It's good again for a while, but sometimes the lies we tell ourselves in sabotage. Here are the most common. It is time to stop the abuse cycle before inflicting durable damage. And for more hilarious lies, see theDoes everyone more than 40 years old say.
1 "I go to the gymnasium next week."
Because you will feel more motivated next week? Or the gym will be somehow feeling like magic of your home? Or you will not speak yet with a ridiculous number of reasons? If you continue to exercise until next week, it will never happen. And for ways to make you motivate, check the100 weight loss tips The best motivation.
2 "It's the fault of my parents!"
It's really not. Even if you have the worst parents of the world, they are not responsible for your happiness. This excuse can work when you are a teenager, but an adult adult is able to accept that mom and dad had only a lot of control over their lives.
3 "I will have more free time when (fill the holes) come."
Whether it's a big project at work or an important task at school, we create all these mythical obstacles that are the only thing standing between us and without limits. Well guess what? There is just another work project, another school task, anotherno matter This will appear tomorrow and still monopolize your time. And if you find yourself in this particularly vicious cycle, be sure to ominate on the25 ways of Genius to conquer a professional exhaustion.
4 "Nobody cares about what I think."
Too often, we are looking for big reactions from others. If our opinion is not met, "Oh my God, it's the most spectacular thing that anyone hasnever said, "We think we are ignored or rejected. Peopleare Listening to you and worry about what you think, even if they do not go out of their way of spreading it.
5 "I'm going to catch up this weekend."
What are you, a bear? You can go a whole week without sleeping, then "hibernate" with a lot of power in the weekend? Sorry, but that's not like that our bodies work, my friend. And for more information on the impact of skipping your night eight hours, learn the15 things happening to your body when you do not sleep enough.
6 "I can change it."
Spoiler alert: You probably can not. Do you save the problem and enter a relationship with someone you likeas if. If you really think that their personality just requires some modifications, you (and they) would probably behappier with someone else.
7 "The work is supposed to be a trail. That's why it's called the job."
This is the most depressing definition of the work we have ever heard. You look like a character in aArthur Miller to play. We do not know what you do in life, but one thing is obvious: you should leave your job immediately and find something else to do for a career that does not make you so miserable. For ideas on a new career, learn the25 home work with high wages.
8 "I'm going to talk to someone again at the party and not just the people I already know."
Of course, you are. Just after saying a "fast hello" to your friends, who evolves: "Hey, I almost forgot to tell you ..." who gets gradually "," Oops, the party is over! "Well, maybe the next time you will come to someone again.
9 "I do not deserve (fill the holes) "
Why is it so hard to accept when good things happen to us? It's like we constantly waited for the other shoe falls. Whether it's a partner who loves us unconditionally or a job we can not believe, we make so satisfactory, we assume that it was probably an office error and it will be removed from us possibly.
10 "Only cowards are scared."
We like to be our own exercise sergeant, thinking that the best way to motivate you is intimidation. Well cut it. Everyone is scared, and if you do not have at least afraid a little time, you do not pay attention or stupid.
11 "Everyone is chatting on me behind my back."
They are really not. Everyone has more important things to worry, as if you and your friends you cuddle aboutthem.
12 "If I had more money, I would be happier."
We do not say that possessing a mansion and a bailing boat and your own private jet would not be cool. We simply say that even with all expensive toys, it will not change who you are under your skin. And if you hated before having money, well, so now you're just arich person who hates you.
13 "I'm fine."
This is the kind of thing you only say when you really are, reallynot fine. You do not believe it when other people say it, so why believe it when you say these same words to yourself? If you are well, then you would not need to reassure you with "I'm fine".
14 "I can do it alone."
This can be true, but refuse a careful hand because you want the world to know that you are strong enough to go alone is simply stubborn. If you refuse people help too often, they will stop offering.
15 "It will work himself."
Occasionally things. But count on that to arriveEverytime Trust too much in the universe to solve your problems. Sometimes things work alone and sometimes things are only royally spoiled and you to repair them.
16 "I will do it tomorrow."
Here is something you start to take charge if you have been alive for long enough: tomorrow looks pretty much like today. You will not be smarter tomorrow ormore energy, or less distract or bored. Do not trust too much tomorrow.
17 "Just another episode ..."
You do not laugh anyone. We all know you will end up looking at the frenzyGame Of Thrones until 16:00
18 "Just another drink ..."
Make sure you mention it to yourself tomorrow morning, when your head looks like it is in a vice-adhesion and your mouth has tasted like a cat litter.
19 "Life is not fair!"
Not necessarily a lie - As many of us will be able to testify, life is indeed unfair - but it becomes a lie when it is pronounced as a complaint. What exactly did you expect? Life is not like baseball. No referee guarantees that everyone follows the rules. When life treats you unfairly, you get up, push yourself and boost yourself in the game.
20 "I can draw a toddle and be totally good."
If by "totally fine", you mean to look likeCharles Bukowski After getting up in a garbage bucket after drinking all night in a rainstorm, so sure, maybe.
21 "Calories do not count on weekends."
So you have one of thesemetabolism It sleeps all week and wakes up Friday night, ready to party?
22 "I leave Facebook!"
No matter. Until tomorrow! Or in a few hours! However long, you can stay away beforedriving you crazy not to know What everyone speaks on Facebook.
23 "I will start putting half of my pay check in savings."
It's actually a good instinct to get a little side of each paycheck, but get realistic about what you can afford to lose. When your funds available for the month are suddenlyhalfWhat you expect, your savings account will eventually become exhausted quite quickly. If you have trouble in this department, make sure to learn the40 ways to seriously stimulate your savings after 40.
24 "I'm sure he did not mean."
No good can come to apologize for the naughty people of your life. If it looks like a fool and speaks like a fool and acts like a fool, so it's probably a fool.
25 "The mimosas are made with orange juice, which have a lot of vitamin C, so it's basically a health food."
It's like saying that ice is the best way to get your daily source of calcium and vitamin D.
26 "My vote does not matter."
Listen, we're not going to tell you who vote for. That's your business. But do not be one of those "voting no matter". ThisIs question. Please do not explain how mathematics works.
27 "My boss will respect me if I work weekends and holidays and I never take a vacation."
In fact, just the opposite. The employee without borders who will take an additional workload, as unreasonable, and without any clearly defined financial advantage, confirms only his boss they are just a man yes that will probably burn exhaustion possibly. How "yes man" promoted "?
28 "It's absolutely the last time I eat junk food."
Unless it's your last meal on the planet, youknow It's just a matter of time before you return to Dunkin 'Drive-Thru.
29 "A fourth cup of coffee should pick me up."
If you do not feel perky by the third cup, you do not make any favors by drinking more. It happens a time with caffeine where you basically beat a dead horse.
30 "I just do not have enough time."
Twenty-four hours a day ago. Remove sleeping, it always leaves you with at least sixteen years. If you do not have enough time to do everything you want to accomplish in one day in sixteen hours, you have one) overcome yourself, or B) really, really terrible to time management. If you need more time in your life, learn the60 ways to buy 60 minutes more every day.
31 "I do not care what others think."
The problem here is not the feeling, it's sufficient certainty. SameMahatma Gandhi neat what others think. Why not just change it to something credible like ", I try to take care of a little less than others think, especially the stupid?" This is at least a feasible goal.
32 "I'm too old to do that."
Unless you talk about trailing Kegger College's festivals, no, you're in no way "too old" to do anything.
33 "I'm too tired to think about it now."
It's just another way to say "this subject is too scary or complicated or emotionally painful, so I'm going to feign fatigue and I dissipate it from my mind until tomorrow." Not convinced? Okay, we will prove it to you. Has anyone already said, "I'm too tired to think about it now," When asked, "Who wants a chocolate cake?" Or, "Can I get to interest you in hundreds of cash dollars?"
34 "Surprise pants count like pants."
No. And the same goes for leggings. None of these things are trousers. Wearing them in public announces the world ", I decided to stop trying."
35 "I did not go to the right school, then my career options are limited."
We are all for college, but we are not carried away. Your life does not depend on your degree. There are many, many,numerous Successful people in this world who did not go to an Ivy league school.Tina Fey was rejected by Princeton,Steven Spielberg was refused by USC and UCLA, andBarack Obama Never took his first choice: Swethmore. The best and most brilliant are not always those with Brag school diplomas.
36 "I will never exchange them!"
A fully credible statement, if you plan to immerse your phone in a large body of water in the immediate future.
37 "I'm just also placed in my manners."
It's a good way to say "I'm a stubborn fool!" Do not be able to compromise or adapt to different circumstances is not an adorable odd personality. You can absolutely change if you wish. You just do not want to.
38 "All is well!" or "everything is terrible!"
The world does not exist in absolute. Nothing is everall large orallawful. It seems to me just like that. But the emotion is ephemeral. Trust us. Give it a few days or a few weeks, no matter what it takes to leave your anger or life of an element and that life will not seem white and white.
39 "No need to write it, I will remember that."
If only our brain worked like that. So much confidence that you can have in yourphotographic memory, You will probably forget everything you've been responsible for remembering, probably in a few seconds. Just invest in a pen and save yourself grief.
40 "I'm just going to have a salad."
Good luck with that. But we all know that when 2h00 results, your pans of hunger will have convinced you to drop a hot pocket scarcely defrosted.
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