This mother did not attend the ceremony of the delivery of her daughter and the reason behind her is weird
Being a mother never comes easy. To be rather a woman herself is difficult. The trip of an innocent girl to a growing teenager, then to a responsible woman
Being a mother never comes easy. To be rather a woman herself is difficult. The trip from an innocent girl to a growing teenager, then a responsible woman and finally followed by a dedicated and selfless mother is full of ups and downs. At each stage, a woman faces life at her best and at the worst. But when it comes to parenting, things are totally different. You have to put their children before them.
To be present in the memories of your children tomorrow, you have to be part of their today. When everyone follows this golden rule of parenthood, Kristen Hewitt who is a public figurine had a different word on this one. She decides to skip the ceremony of his daughter only because of an incredible reason. The reason is something that many people appreciate.
The reason
The one who fell on this story, the majority of them had the same said. "What could have been more important than attending his daughter's handing ceremony?" When parents still prefer to stand right next to their children and feel proud of their achievements, this mother decides to jump a great day in her daughter's life. Why?
Unacceptable
People called this mother say something "unacceptable". She gives her side of the excuse for not attending her daughter's awards ceremony in a Facebook position. And his reason was very condemned. It was strange that people showed such disapproval about it. Everyone says one thing: "How could it miss an important date in the life of his child who also because of a reason like this". What did she do?
Woman's power
Kristen Hewitt, 41 years old is a public figure residing in Florida. She is a winner twice from Emmy as a television reporter. This independent woman is also the producer for Sun Sports, The Miami Heat and Fox Sports Florida. It has been in this occupation for over a decade now. This entrepreneur is also a craze among the "mothers". Ask why?
Blogger
This renowned T.V journalist is also known for his blog skills. She is the blogger of the page, "Mom in the sport". This blogging page has also been awarded as the "best blog for moms" by the new times of Miami in 2014. While its maternity and sports page was widely appreciated, one of its parenting decisions will turn into a question unexpected.
A mother
Kristen is a mother with two beautiful girls just as beautiful. It accepts completely that parenting is a difficult challenge, something that needs dedication and time. And when we are a woman who works, the management of her home as well as her work, multiple multiple. There are times when some difficult calls must be taken, always, it has not anticipated that one of its decisions will become a platform for discussion.
THE BACKLASH
Kristen has decided to share a decision to skip the function of sentence of his daughter as one of his parental choices. However, she thought like her other work and her blogs are appreciated, this one too would be. Well, when he did not seem to go as thought, the amount of reaction he received was something she was not prepared. A decision and things have changed in moment.
To have to
After having known the number of success, Kristen had tasted in his life, one can easily distinguish the career focused on his career. But when she came to know her pregnancy, she knew what was more important for her. She gave a break to her work and decided to devote this time this time.
My babies
In his words, one of the best feelings in the world is to be a mother. The feeling of movement inside you is happiness. When she realized that she expects her, she kept her work aside and gave birth to her daughters. But soon only she returned to her work and things were from there.
Part-time work
Kristen covered Miami Heat Head Head games. It involved a lot of trips on his part. So when she turned into a mother, she started working part time and cover with home games. In addition, as she did not have paid maternity leaves, she returned to work only three works after giving birth to her younger girl Lila.
Super occupied mom
Kristen is doing well now. She could handle her children and work. But as his children grew up, his responsibilities as a mother collector. She had to be sure of their meals, their education, their sleep schedule. Although her husband helps her in parenthood, there are some responsibilities she has to support alone.
Exhausted
She has always had a hectic schedule, but December became exceptionally tiring for her. Thanksgiving party followed by Christmas and New Year's celebration, she had a lot to cross. Things could have been a little smooth but as her husband went on a business trip, her work has exhausted her. And this exhaustion cost it a lot.
Health problems
Kristen had swollen eyes, a blown face and dark circles. His work and family took his health. As it also reached the quarantine of endurance for obvious reasons reduced. But she always did her best until she called left the function of attribution of lila because of an unacceptable reason.
Excited girl
One day, Lila said in Kristine about a ceremony of awards at his school. Lila told him that she had to attend a men's ceremony in parallel, as it was awarded. Lila was very excited about it and wanted to make the most of the moment having his mother at his side. Unfortunately, the wish of the little girl remained dissatisfied.
Can not attend
Kristine told Lila that she would not be able to do at her award ceremony due to reasons. Lila's face dropped. She felt sad because it was a great day for her and she wanted her mother to stand up and applaud it, rent it. Lila asked her for reason, but instead, Kristine said ...
Family members
Kristine instead of telling his daughter the reason, she is consistent with saying that if it will not be present there, but his father and grandmother would be. Lila for a while, but she then acclaimed the fact that other members of her family would be there. However, the next day at school, Kristine had to answer others.
A lie
Kristine had a lot through her head other than hurting the feelings of Lila. The next day, when she went to school to drop her daughter, other parents who were friends with Kristine asked her why did not she attend the award ceremony the previous day. Kristine had to answer the question now. But she lied. She told them that she had work commitments. What was the reason she was hiding from everyone?
Guilt
Kristine at that moment says a lie, but later, return home, guilt hit her. She knew she had said a clear white lie on her absence at her daughter's award ceremony. She felt ashamed of herself. First, she missed the Lila ceremony and lied to everyone. His inner conscience forced him to do something.
Confession
Kristine has decided to tell everyone the real reason for she misses the ceremony of his daughter. She did not believe much about how people and all they reachaged after meeting the truth. She with a beating heart took to Facebook and made a confession.
The truth
Kristine wrote a post and shared it on his calendar on Facebook. In his position, she said, "So I did something that some people may think it's selfish recently, but I really needed it. I missed the meeting of my daughter's honor So that I can work. "These words have come shocking for many.
Perhaps selfish
She tried to make people understand her decision by her even knew it that it could sound that she is selfishly. A mother means being selfless, but at the same time, it also means taking care of yourself like their family.
Stress and anxiety
She says that as she was exhausted with her work and more and more work commitments worried her, she needed "myself" and therefore preferred to work rather than attending this ceremony of awards . At his post, there were so many contrasting comments.
Divided public
There were all types of comments on this post. While some women could understand his decision, the majority was on the opposite side. One thing that has been established with this was that for each parent, parenthood comes differently. Everyone has their unique way to handle it.
Appreciated
There were some women who appreciated her for the bravery she presented by telling and admitting that she did it because she had the impression of working. A comment has read: "It's a necessity to be the mother and wife that your family deserves to have and happy and happy wife that you deserve to be!" Yet there was one more.
Love for the girl
There was another commentator who rented it for the way Kristine was his daughter's mother. This comment has read: "I like the lesson that you have learned to your daughter: that you like it and you care deeply, but that you will not always be there, and that it goes." However, other comments were not as good as these.