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Biological mother

Howard had loving parents. However, the feeling of being adopted has never disappeared. Even if everything seemed to be in his life, he felt something missing. He wanted to know about his biological mother and why did she leave it? There must be a reason. He tried to discover but what he really had was something he had never imagined existed.

Faded away

Howard explained, "You just want to miss something, I just do not know what it was. You can not touch it. You can not feel it. Something was there. "What happened, he would soon discover.

Curiousity

Although he was eager to know his mother of birth, he never asked his adoptive parents as he did not want to harm their feelings. It was not that he was not satisfied with his adoptive parents, he was just curious to know his mother of birth.

Time passed

The past years and the baby Howard came into adulthood. Everything had changed except that feeling. He always felt like something was missing. So when he was 35 years old, he decided to follow his intuition. He knew he had been adopted by Louise Wise Service, then he turned to the agency to find his birth actions.

Stick to oneself

Growing up with this feeling was very difficult for him. There were times when he would talk anyone and would remain to himself. But now, at his 35th birthday, he decided to unravel this mystery of his life. He decided to discover his mother of birth.

Call the agency

He hoped that with the documents he could also get details about his mother of birth. The man called the agency. A man with a heavy voice picked up his call. He asked her her birth actions. The man told him it's available.

A shocking discovery

Unfortunately, he could not get details about his mother of birth. But he continued to urge, for he still could not believe that the agency did not know anything about his mother. Perhaps the agency was not willing to disclose details about his mother.

An information

However, the agency told him something amazing his family. Well, this information broke his life. And then he realized why he used to think that there was something missing in his life.

Kept in the darkness

After placing the phone, he immediately called his adoptive mother and asked him if the agency was true or not. Surprisingly, his mother had no idea. She too was kept in the night. You have to ask yourself what it was told by the agency that created Chaos among his family?

Identical twins

The man had an identical twin brother. They were separated at the time of adoption. How could he not know that he has an identical twin? Why was it guarded from him and his adoptive family? And especially where was his identical twin?

The twin brother

Now everything started to make sense. Why he always used to feel like something was missing from his life. It was his twin brother. Where was he? Does he know that he has a twin brother? He needed to know. Howard asked the agency of his location.

The search begins

Unfortunately, the adoption agency did not reveal its current address nor gave it no record of sound. "I spent about two years, every day, thinking of that. He never left, "Howard explained.

Find it

"It was quite disturbing. I mean, it was just a stranger. It's like, how can I find that person? Will I ever find that person? Is this person alive? "" Continued Howard.

2 years later…

The man spent his two years looking for his brother. However, he could not have any idea of ​​him. There was not a single day he did not think of his lost brother for a long time. Many times, he wondered if he would never be able to find it.

Closing

Just when he abandoned, fate played his match. In 2000, Louise Wise Services was about to close and one of his employees had just learned that she was diagnosed with terminal cancer. You have to wonder why we say that.

Secretly

The woman of the heavy heart had learned her destiny and so she decided to bring secrets to light. She decided to tell some of the children who were adopted from the agency of their separate twin. His decision would create chaos in the world.

The phone call

One of the children she called was Doug Rausch. Doug the cited, "It's okay, I'm not supposed to do that. I can have a lot of problems, but I'll do it anyway." So I appreciate that. "" She said, "Well, I ' have news for you. You have a twin brother identical. 'And I was like, I literally almost traveled the road. It's not something you will ever expect. "

Twin lost for a long time

The name of Howard's lost brother was Doug. Doug had allowed the agency to disclose his contact information and name about Howard. Howard recalled, "I finally called it and we talked for a while and it was, you know, as if I knew that person all my life. It was amazing. "

Brought together

Howard and Doug had their first conversation on the phone. At first, they could not understand what to say. Both had fallen out of words. But they overcome their hesitation and decided to meet.

Meeting

Both have decided to meet in a Columbus airport, Ohio. Doug describes: "I'm not really nervous easy or attached and I still remember that I still remember on this plane dripping sweat and just being so nervous, you know, meet that person who looked like me, that I had no connection with. "

An instant obligation

The two were very nervous. What will they talk about? They had nothing in common with the exception of their past. "It was just the funniest thing I had ever seen because it was literally like looking in my reflection, but the reflection would move and did something that I did not do. ... I do not know how Describe this and I do not think most people can tell it, but it was a very strange strange feeling, "said Doug.

Just more of the same

Howard said, "I mean, it's like you look yourself in the mirror and, I think we hit it, you know, right away and you know, instant connection. I felt like I knew Doug my life. "

Parallel lives

The twins have shared everything with others from their childhood to their current lives. And for the first time in life, Howard felt like he had everything. Nothing was missed now. Doug too was extremely happy and surprised by the similarity they share. He expressed: "We have lived parallel lives essentially."

Things in common

They had a lot in common, for example, they both knotted the node in 1992 and condiments despised. Surprisingly, the children of both of them had an interest in hockey and they played the coach to their children, although they never played before.

Reaction

They wondered how their family would react to her. "They will probably become angry with me if they hear that, but I think they are more similar than me and Howie," Doug talked about his wives and women. How are they so similar?

To success

Doug explained: "They were both runners. They both succeeded in their fields and they are both enough guys - a personality. I do not know, I think they are similar in many ways. And you can only imagine it's probably because what we have been attracted to both ... "

Troubling memories

Howie and Doug could not stop talking. There was a lot to catch up. Both have also talked about strange visitors than what would come at home to shoot them, review them and ask them questions.

Guarded

They also learned that the agency had held adoptive parents of both dark. None of them had been informed of the twin brother of their child.

The research study

David and Howard's parents were informed that this routine turning and tests were made because their child was a research subject to see the progress of adoptive children under the care of their adoptive parents. Unfortunately, their parent has bought who lie.

Everything was a lie

Lori Shinseki explained: "They decided to separate these twins and triplets, place them in different families and never told the families they had adopted half of a twin set or a third of a set of Triplet. " She is a documentary that helped Howard and Douglas and many other sets of triple and twins who were to undergo a separation by Louise Wise Services.

Nature vs. To feed

Shinseki explained: "What they did was that they told families that this baby is in an adoption study. "If you want the baby, we would like to continue studying the child." And of course, families would do anything. "

Responses

The filmmaker made a documentary named "the twinning reaction". The film is to help the twins to get their responses from the agency. The twins once separated tell their story about how they felt after being separated.

Fight for answers

All information extracted from the study is kept at the University of Yale and are sealed for the next 40 years. But Howard and Doug were locked up to have their answers in order to hire a lawyer.

Separated for good

The result showed that both remained together for six months after birth. However, both have been adopted at different families leading to their separation. Signs of distress resulting were observed in both. Unfortunately, that was not that.

Consequences

What worse than their engine dexterity has decreased too much. Obviously, Doug and Howard both suffered anxiety of separation. Their parents who had no idea what was happening was very stressed by their inexplicable behavior.

Repercussions

Their anxiety has not been limited to it. They even started to rock. Erazzling, one of them beat his head until he turned around. Their condition has only been worsened under this study "Nature Vs Nourie".

Upsetting

Doug condemns the study "do what they decided to do". "It's just wrong. What they did was really, really wrong. The more I read, the more it seems like it seems and the more it is upsetting."

Child monitoring

The adopted father of Doug also had something to say about the question: "They gave us Douglas and said," We will let you have that child, but we will monitor it. "Their parents agreed that they could also understand why was it if necessary.

Compulsion

"So it was a question of if I say no, they will not give me the child. I think there was some constraint to our study, "said Rausch. Now they know why.

A warning tale

Doug, Howard with other separate twins appeared in Shinseki's documentary. The documentary has been designed to help separate twins together and get answers to their questions. "Humans are not data ... Persons to pay attention to what you can really affect someone's life, so that you did not even want to say," Shinseki said.

Psychology tests

Mr. Buriack remembered how visitors would do them, all kinds of tests and psychology drawings. I was always a kind of shy child and you had people asking you questions and asking you to do things. It was a bit horrible. "

Not look back

Howard explained: "It would have been great to grow together, but I think we were both lucky and not looking back." What happened in the past is water under the bridge now and now, they want to focus on their current lives. They spend as much time together as possible.

Not the only case

Like Doug and Howard, there were many other twins and triplets who separated from each other because of this study. Fortunately for Doug and Howard, although after spending so much stress and anxiety, they never thought of committing to commit suicide. There were children who continued to commit suicide.

Twisted

It's amazing how a phone call has faced Howard the greatest truth of his life. He could never have imagined that he has a twin brother. His desire to know more about his mother's mother brought him so far. How did you like this story?