Good Lifestyle

"The city was filled with the former" - singing the Hardkiss group and, undoubtedly, is right. To a certain age, in most people, there is already a solid luggage, which did not survive. And this is absolutely normal. We are growing, we change, we are learning your own, invaluable experience. It should be noted that each couple and every relationship - special, so we do not in any case you are trying to bring everyone under a single denominator. But when life brings to the turn, which directs your attraction to the old, passed the track, then it is worth thinking: whether there is a truly track, and not great rakes? Let the following items become an unnecessary reason for you to analyze the situation once again that further choice was only to you in favor.

1. Your ex bezer

There will be no pluralism of thoughts that all options are good. If your former partner has committed any violence: physical, psychological, economic or sexual, in no way return to this relationship. Remember that Abseras never change. Appreciate yourself, love and protect yourself from such situations, because nobody deserves and should not be a victim.

2. Check Pulse Trust

The question is it alive or dead? And this is very important to understand this before opening the former door. People diverge for various reasons, as well as have different mental capabilities to forgive and forget. So, honestly analyze the specific feelings. The lack of confidence in a partner is absolutely fierce you side. It is not worthwhile to meet yourself in vain hopes that you will overcome it. If you do not believe it more, then do not open those doors.

3. A frank dialogue with you

Are you going to return to the former relationships that? Good over that think. Maybe you just want to close this step some of your gap? You are tired of loneliness, you are bored, you want financial benefits or moral support, or just a photo in Instagram, which I have a boyfriend. Understand that healthy relationships do not have a "famine" in some of the areas, they are exited only when both filled and ready to share, not use. Imagine that you already have something that is currently lacking. Log in to this state and ask the question or now you are interesting to you. If so then this person is sincerely important to you and it's worth listening to your feelings.

4. "Closed Gedalt"

Sometimes a relationship ends unexpected and ambiguously, with many open issues. It happens that people do not understand how this happened, but too proud for a detailed clarification. Then it causes psychological discomfort, because there is no clarity, but instead there are only guesses. If you are your story, then it is worth using this chance and frankly talks everything that bothered you in the past. Maybe you are all find out and this story will have a happy continuation. Otherwise, simply slide the dots above "and" that this gestalt never bothered.

5. Aftercaste of a cocktail

If in front of the door is the former then mention your relationship well. Paint and think if it was an alcoholic cocktail or drink that would it be? High period after the rupture will be a conditional morning after a party. Analyze your sensations. It's a bit sad that everything ended up, but it was pleasant, easy and delicious, and you may have tried yet. Or it was, as Americans "Party Hard" say, after which it was hard and tightly hanging, and most of all you would prefer forever forget. That is, it is important that the impression was left by a man and whether you want you again with this drink on this party.

6.Ghostly hopes

The appearance of the former on the horizon is definitely intriguing. And before the second time, enter this river, focus and think where you are and who are you at this moment. You have undergone a difficult path, developed and improved, reached a certain, new level. Of course, the circumstances are still different than they were once. So, it is worth sure to make sure that this piece of past need you in the future that you will not lose something valuable right now for the sake of ghostly hopes. Try not to make a decision at moments of nostalgia, because it can play an evil joke.

7. Don't look for tips

And do not translate responsibility. After all, nobody nor relatives nor joint friends that you would have been close to you, do not know the true history of your relationship with all its subtleties and features. Yes, and, in the end, do not live with it. It is about your future and the most valuable man has time. So, decide on your own and always place your own psychological comfort.