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Prolonged and strong relationships are always the work of both partners. When it is mutual and important for each of them, the most important decision appears on the horizon of life - to get married and be together forever.

But sometimes we strive for this, blindly in love with my partner that I do not notice, it would seem, obvious things that clearly signal one thing - he will not be married for sure. Call 5 signs that this is confirmed.

He does not introduce you to their loved ones and friends

This is one of the most important and first features that your relationship is unlikely to have a serious character. Especially when you encounter quite a long time, but an invitation to dinner in his friends' circle you still have not received.

It is worth understanding that for most men, it is what his parents and friends think about him, because it is a status in society for him - an important department. Their opinion matters, but in order to get it - the guy should introduce you to people who trust. If this does not happen - it looks like it is not as important as for you.

He reluctantly discussing plans for a common future

Schedule a joint trip, to buy housing, to indicate and assist parents - topics that are honestly and completely discussed between partners that seek to combine their lives with each other.

When you raise one of them, starting the discussion of something with the prefix "And we plan we?", And immediately you receive an offer in response to changing the topic - it's another "bell" that something is wrong with the relationship.

It doesn't make any romantic deeds

It's ok when the boy frankly admits that he is not romantic and can not make original romantic surprises. Instead, he will still do something pleasant: will try to prepare dinner, will give flowers or directly asks for your wishes. And it happens so that the guy does not show any initiative for a long time and does not support such an idea when it is, for example, do you. Saday, but it's another reason to frankly view your relationship.

He devalues ​​the manifestations of your feelings

In any relationship it is important to be yourself and know that you support you, perceive and love exactly your individuality. This means that it makes no sense to be afraid to show their feelings: frankly talking about what worries about this moment, or what you want right now with a beloved person. To give gifts, make pleasant surprises, kiss and hug it when this souls or body seeks. And though they say that love is about "to give, not anxious to get anything instead" - in healthy partners, it is important to receive Fidbec from each other. At least minimal.

Yes, there are moments when your boyfriend is tired or upset, and therefore not ready right now kissing you in response or listen to your stories about something special to you. Sometimes it's just not that moment. However, if such a scenario occurs almost every time you manifest your feelings - we advise you well once again about your relationship.

He frankly recognizes that a wedding is not his story

One of the simplest ways to understand that the guy will not marry you, - to hear it personally from him. So, in the world there are people who do not want to marry, give birth to children and else to do anything from generally accepted things that they are not very interesting in this life. And these are absolute rights and their own choice, which should not be condemned. At such a moment it is important to understand only one thing - does you have a choice to associate your life with such a person?

Joint values ​​are a fundamental detail in any partner relationship. For someone it's own career, material goals or travel. Someone closer to family values: marriage, children, a large dog with dog and cats. And this is very cool when your values ​​in life at least a bit coincide, because they subsequently become the basis of the future common life. If it's not that - you should think well. Remember the most important thing - the choice in your life is always, and you only do it.