Good Lifestyle

The upbringing of children is not easy. It takes a lot of time, requires a lot of attention and patience, and to appreciate this work in act only in years. All moms just want to better for their own children. They want children to grew by be happy, educated, cultural, obedient, learned well, were attentive and tidy. But in this time, perfectionism is easy to overcome. So let's talk about signs of bad mom.

1. Be always in the first place

Sometimes moms are so wanting their children to be the best in everything forgetting that children are not working. If a mum constantly requires a child of the best results it may already be a sign of a bad mama. To take a child and wish her success normally, but to demand victories on competitions, competitions or competitions, the highest grades in school are no longer OK. If at the same time, mom perceives victories for granted, and quarrels and humiliates for losers or mistakes are an example of toxic education.

2. Find friends without leaving home

There are mums that do not allow their children to walk on the street or in the yard with friends, constantly find them at home, or additional tutorials and hobbies, and then rebel that there are no real friends. Sounds like a sign of bad mama.

3. Be independent but I know better

Your mom constantly says that it's time to travel and be independent, but it does not give you the opportunity to act independently, make decisions and does not give your mind at all? We have bad news for you. Such moms want to have total control over your life and believe that they know how better, but actually act absolutely illogical.

4. Don't leave me

Of course, all moms want their children always remained with them, but there are smart boundaries. If, for example, when introducing into the institute, even if it is in the same city, the child decided to live separately, you do not have to rebate it that it leaves home. The child just becomes an adult and an independent person, but she is not going to strade parents from his life.

5. Don't like - go to all four sides

One of the signs of bad mother are the threatening external "While you live in my apartment - live by my rules. Do not like - find another home. " Such threats are not best influenced by the psychological state of the child at any age.

6. Train as an adult, but on the rights of a child

The child demands to behave as an adult, understand the problems of parents and help them decide. But at the same time, the child does not have the right to vote in the family and nobody pays attention to her opinion. Sounds unfair.