11 signs that you are leaving with a controller personnel

If you feel that your boyfriend is too meddling and literally knows everything about where you are going, who you are talking to and how you spend your free time that does not include it, well, there is a great chance that you are going out with a crazy controller and things alone They will get worse. Here are the 11 main signals to take into account.


We all like to have control of things, at least to some extent. However, when it comes to a relationship, it is much harder to develop control, distrust and observe each movement of your partner. If you feel that your boyfriend is too meddling and literally knows everything about where you are going, who you are talking to and how you spend your free time that does not include it, well, there is a great chance that you are going out with a crazy controller and things alone They will get worse. Here are the 11 main signals to take into account.

Think that it's okay to review your phone
Now, this is a very delicious sign if we have ever seen one. If a boy thinks he is totally well (or that he has the right to do it) reviewing your things, the history of phone calls and messages, then he is a crazy 100% controller with great trusted problems. If you say he is not right and he does not stop doing this, say goodbye.

He tells you what to put you
If you start to feel like you are losing your style with your complaints and endless advice that he gives you to dress and what do not wear when you leave, then you definitely say it is too much.


He is the one who does all the plans
Not having to decide where to go and what to do could have been fun at first, but now the point has come when he decides all your social interactions for you. Maybe you wanted to go out with your friends this weekend, but you have already planned an own event and you are part of him. Not negociable.

He is telling you what to eat
Your diet is something personal and intimate. If you want to eat some junk food or take a cup of extra large coffee, it's your decision and it's not he who has to say it! We are what we eat and if He tries to tell you what to eat, this means that he is trying to control all your life.


He is jealous of other men
Actually no matter what men, he will be equally jealous of your best friend you have known for years and a colleague with whom you meet for lunch. He is insecure of himself and he does not want me to talk with other men.

He does not want you to meet friends
He can be one of those guys who wants all your time for himself. This may seem romantic and exciting at first, but then you end up spending less and less time with your friends and family, ruining some of the most important links in your life. Do not let your boyfriend do that and he spends so much time with your friends as you want!


Do not care your dreams
Whether your profession or an ambitious travel plan for the world, you will never feel that your boyfriend supports him goals in life. He focuses mainly on the ambitions of him and he wants you to do the same. He is afraid that you are too independent and you have so much confidence when you reach your goals, so he is not doing anything to support you. That way it is easier to control you!

He is following you through GPS
Okay, this is a strange one, but it really happens in real life. It is possible to use the GPS to follow each step through certain applications of smartphones. If you notice that something like this happens, then this is a great control alert.


Hate when you do something without consulting it
A crazy controller as he will not tolerate that you take your own decisions, whether or not. He always knows what is best for you and he will tell you on every occasion. If he is criticizing every step, decision or purchase, it is a sure sign that you are dating crazy controller.

Think that he can do everything
Whether it is a pipe with leakage of what he does not know anything, learn a new language or repair a car, he believes that he can do anything and that it is not necessary to call a professional. He is too proud to admit that there is something that he does not know or can not do alone. If I need to say it, these situations always end without being in favor of it.


He has a regime that will never break
A spontaneous vacation, an unplanned visit from your friends, an unexpected work opportunity that requires you lived in another city? At all, he will not tolerate any of those things. A crazy controller as he has his own regime that works for him and will never change it, neither for you, nor by anyone else.


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