Good Lifestyle

Let's be a right thing from the beginning. Nobody really wants to be a harass girlfriend, seriously, it's just not one thing. We all want to be cool and collected and have just a perfect relationship where our partners immediately do that we say right away and we do not have to swim at all. But the world is not a perfect place and men that hell are not perfect beings, no matter how much we want them to be. And that, in turn, makes us act a little weird. But if you notice that you become that person who constantly swims on his partner and that you think "Nah-ah, it's not me, I do not want to be like that," Here are some things you might want to take into consideration.

1.Que to tell him what to do

If you are constantly saying to your partner what it should and should not - stop. We are about course that it is an adult and can determine this world alone. That it concerns housework, food options or the output of the food, it's not really important. Let it just be for a while and stop wasting your precious time about it. Instead, focus on yourself and what you would like to do. You are not his mother, you do not really have to take care of him. Let it come to you for advice when it is inevitably in a situation that requires your help.

2. Consider the tone

This could be a hard pill to swallow, but at some point we all forget that our partner really owes us anything. So, if you started harassing it for things, simply consider reforming what you want and put it as a polished demand instead. You will be surprised how much politeness and ways can change his view on the situation and you will always get what you want.

3. Do not disaster the situation

If you are annoyed that your partner continues to do something you complain about several times, try to assess the situation in a rational way. Is it a big deal or just a small disadvantage. If he continues to leave wet towels on the floor of the bathroom, do not try to do it seems to be a sign of his lack of respect for you. It is likely that almost 100% it does not try to send you messages or get out "I have no respect for you" with wet towels. It is just lazy and do not legitimately think about that at all. Let it just go and leave its towels alone. We are pretty sure that in a few days of lack of dry and clean towels, it will understand alone.

4. Do not do things you do not want

We know that some things in life just have to be done even if they are not fun. But that does not mean they must be done by you. If your partner never takes the trash or does not have any dishes or other housework, it does not mean that it is automatically your responsibility. Do not take too much, then complain that you are around the house and you catch it to help you. Just do what you want and leave the rest, possibly, it will miss clean clothes or clean dishes or something else and do the thing that asks you. This is a perfect opportunity to emphasize that he could do it himself or hire a maid.

5. Find a compromise

If you have already been in a situation where you feel as if you have brought it for days to do something - it does not work clearly. He has tuning. Try to have a reasonable conversation and find a compromise. A lot of time if you can come to a solution that benefits both of you - it will be solved more quickly.

6. Give him a taste of his own medicine

It's not the most beautiful thing to do but good, if nothing else works you have to do it. If your partner continues to ignore your requests, try ignoring some of his sound. For example, if you asked him to do the dishes and it was hours and it's almost time for dinner - well it's his fault that he does not dine. After all, you have nothing to cook. Alternatively, next time, he asks you to do something for him, let's say you will do it and do not do it. It is certainly passive-aggressive, but clearly, it is not a gift from God to the world either.