5 simple ways to see a bad relationship in a positive light
We all had our share of bad relations ...
We all had our share of bad relationships. Whether you had one or a few of those who have been eager, it is always difficult to pass them in front. They let us feel sad, angry and drained most of the time. We can try to forget them, but it's easier than to do. Even if we manage to go before them, they often stick in the back of our head and appear at the tip of the first moment, when we try to build something new. They go jades and cautious, unlikely to skip carelessly about what could become a great and a great adventure with a new person. So, what would you say, instead of trying to forget them, we just try to see them in a positive light? We can learn from them and use the experience to illuminate our future instead of draping our present. Here are some tips on how to do that.
1. When a door closes another one opens
Sometimes things just need to end so that others, better things start. Everything happens for a reason, and this break you continue to think that you could actually be the first step to meet the love of your life. Now that you are free, you are open to new people and new relationships and it's great!
2. You were not right for each other
Everyone continues to say that relationships are not easy, that they require hard work and work. So, often we do our best to do something work, even if it's not supposed to work. You have to entertain the possibility that you are twice wanted to be together, you are just not compatible with the other and it's good.
3. You learn from your mistakes
It's easy to stay on the negativity left out of break, but there is a way to see it as positive. After all, you learn from your mistakes. You might think that the last two months or years were a loss of colossal time, but really, you learned a lot about yourself and how you act in various situations and you learned about the types of people you are not not compatible.
4. Bad experiences shape you as a person
All that happens to you has an effect on you. The good and bad experiences shape you as a person and make you who you are. See it as a learning curve. You have learned new things yourself, you learned how you act under pressure or in stressful situations. You are upgraded, you'd better now.
5. What does not kill you makes you stronger
Of course, it fears that you had to go through this bad relationship, but now that you are not out of it - you are stronger. You went out the other end with knowledge and experience, you are more difficult and smarter. You are also much more likely to see early red flags, before getting involved with someone who does not go for you. In addition, you now know how resilient you are and that you will be able to better deal with similar situations in the future.