Good Lifestyle

You would not want to go out with someone without a sense of humor, is not it? Looks, clothes, strength - everything is important, but a good sense of humor will always be more important than these superficial qualities. Humor is what rings forever, while it seems to disappear. But why humor? Well, it seems like a person with a good sense of humor knows when telling a joke and when acting seriously. They also know when to say the punchline and when add more backstory to a joke to make it funny. The most important part to avoid transforming the positive qualities into deactivation is to know when to stop. Here are some of the greatest excessive women present to men, unconsciously.

1. Be too childish
Act as a child is cute. The names of domestic animals are cute, the baby discussion can sometimes be cute and that the bands seem to be all anyone talking about in recent weeks. However, there is a time and place for everything. If you spend on the top with a child's behavior, you can go quickly to be cute to be incredibly boring. Sometimes situations call for a serious attitude and behavior similar to the child will only cause the worse situation instead of neutralizing it.

2. Being clumsy
In combination with the previous article, awkwardly turns socialization in babysitting. It's always nice when people have tissues and towels when you need it the most, but there is a difference between needing them once in a while and make each espionage exit , with bags full of wet wipes, dry towels, spots, and dressings (in case of cuts). And all this does not even start to cover the embarrassment of an opportunity to be around a clumsy person.

3. Do not make a decision
Sometimes you just have to take charge of a situation and be affirmed of what you want. This applies to everything - the simplest decisions (like what to have for dinner) to the big (like deciding between a small gathering and a destination wedding). Too often, people fall in the habit of avoiding choosing. We understood. There is the pressure to make mistakes, the pressure to choose something from your other significant will not, and more. However, from time to time it is important to make bold and confident choices. If all the rest fails, no one has ever said no to the pizza for dinner!


4. Potins
As with all the rest, there is a threshold for the amount of gossip that a person can listen before starting to doubt the integrity and trust of a chat. Of course, it is always interesting to know what's going on in scenes with friends or colleagues at work, but there is a difference between "spill tea" and become a human equivalent of "TMZ on boring people" .

5. Clean and hygiene
Should we even mention this one? Nobody wants to live in a laboratory environment and spend several hours every day cleaning, but nobody wants to live in chaos either. Of course, having a relaxing evening, take away, watch from Netflix, then go to bed is a good time. However, it is equally important to take a little time the next day to throw the boxes, the dust of the table, suck the floor, wash the dishes, take a shower and slap on a face mask.


6. Surrearing
Although most men behave as if they want their girlfriend to be her mother, they do not want a miracin girlfriend. Of course, far too many men can legitimately fend away, but at some point, the pressure of a dominant girlfriend will give them to them, and that care and attention will be considered outbuilding behavior.

7. Play mute
Nobody is perfect for everything. Even rocket scenologists have problems with basic questions, sometimes. Sherlock Holmes did not know the solar system. We all have our strengths and weaknesses. The problem comes when people are gathering on the goal of making people around them feel better. Nobody benefits from that. It is one thing to ask for advice, reminders or clarifications, and another thing to pretend to be stupid to receive sympathy and attention.


8. PREENTING OF INTEREST
Communication takes its work. It is easy to find things to discuss during this "honeymoon period" of a relationship, but it is much more difficult to light real debate and discussions down along the line. Sometimes the simplest option seems to be claiming to be interested in what your other significant says, but it can quickly become noticeable and makes the problem worse. The only thing worse than explicitly say that you do not care to pretend to heal - it is embarrassing and discouraging at the same time. Communication takes its work, but not that kind of work.

9. Whatever interim, but yourself
In the vein to "play stupid" and too "like children", acting like something other than yourself in a relationship is a defined exit suspender. I am all of us enjoying role plays to a certain extent, but it is better to leave your skills acting for the bedroom. If you want a real relationship, you must be real with your other significant.


10. Last time of respect
Balancing work, personal recreation and personal health is quite difficult because it is. Adding another person to the equation makes things even more difficult. It is important to remember this on yourself and your other significant. Obviously, it goes in both directions - do not miss them with respect the time you need to take care of yourself, but also be aware of their needs and do not affect their "personal time" Just because you want to draw attention.

11. Feeling entitled
As my grandfather liked to say, "The only thing I have to do is pay taxes and die. Although it is a little morbid way to look at life, it is a kind of right. There is nothing you are entitled to a relationship - not your weather, not their friends, their money, their pets, or their property. It is one thing to clearly communicate your needs in an authoritarian way, and a completely different thing to act as you are entitled.

12. Emotional handling
Emotional manipulation is never acceptable. Although women are much more common than women to be at the reception end of emotional manipulation, it is important to pay attention to the signs and red flags of this kind of behavior. Always make sure that guilt is not the driving factor to constrain anyone.

13. Communication issues
Good communication is a solid foundation for any relationship. This means that both parties must be good listeners, and they need to be able to communicate their own needs and desires of their partner well. Here, good listening capability are more important for both partners. Being able to filter the useful information about your partner separately from their emotions will help you considerably show that you understand the root of the problem. Recognizing that your other significant has feelings and needs that might be different from yours is certainly an exit shoulder strap.