5 signs your friend finds you secretly attractive, dating coach says

Going from friends to lovers is not always easy, which is why you will want to look for these clues.


Ross and Rachel may have set the bar for the Ami-Amateurs trope (although we prefer to avoid the sadly famous scenario "we were in break"), but in reality, it can be much more difficult to take a relationship of Platonic to Romantic. Before taking a step on your best bud, you will want to be confident The feelings are mutual - What is the meeting coach Jacob Lucas' Advice comes into play. In a recent video, he shared the five signs that your friend finds you secretly attractive. Pay attention to these clues, and your friendship may soon have new advantages.

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1
You catch them to steal eyes on it.

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In His Tiktok video , Lucas begins by saying that if a friend or a work colleague does one of these five things, "they find you hot."

The first clue he says to monitor is if you "always catch this person looking at you when they think You do not look them . ""

Of course, they will want to steal eyes because they are attracted to you, but they could also try to measure when a good time is to take a conversation or if someone else flirts with you.

2
They only like photos of you when you are alone in them.

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Published a photo of you on social networks looking for chummy with another friend or your current partner? There is a good chance that they do not like it. Posted a selfie? They will probably be the first to give him a heart or a boost, says Lucas.

Even if he is subconscious, your friend prefers to imagine himself on these photos with you that other possible romantic interest.

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They "married" around you.

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A hair turn, reading their tie, adjusting their shirt - if your friend does one of these subtle behaviors around you, it is likely that they are attracted to you.

"You always catch them to prepare around you, even when it is only you and them, because they want to seem to you," explains Lucas.

4
They were distanting themselves when you are in a relationship.

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If you fear that your friend does not like your new partner, you may want to consider that he is in confrontation because he is attracted to you. AE0FCC31AE342FD3A1346EBB1F342FCB

"Whenever you enter a new relationship with someone, they always put a distance between you and themselves, because they are in fact jealous", shares Lucas.

If you are single, this jealousy could manifest in them by constantly asking you questions about your love life because they "want to see if they have a romantic competition with someone else you are talking about", he Explain in another video .

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5
They touch you subtly.

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Maybe it's a hand on your back when they allow you first to cross the door, or maybe it's a hand with your hand when they exceed you a plate.

If your friend finds you secretly attractive, "he will break this contact barrier with you on any occasion," explains Lucas.

Even if they do not reach so far as to touch, they could also position themselves to face or make sure they catch the seat next to you. "This is called proximity," notes Lucas in a separate video On attraction.


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