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When you're in love , you can sometimes have the impression that you and your partner are the only people in the world. For better or for worse, this is simply not the case, however, and you do not want to be blind to those outside your bubble. If you are not careful, you can put your other Relations in danger. Speaking to the experts, we have gathered an overview of the behavior that you and your partner may want to reconsider. Read more to discover five things you could do that other uncomfortable people.

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When you enter an exclusive relationship, you and your partner are not just the promise of loyalty to each other. This commitment is also something that other people are probably also considering - and breaking it in public can cause serious confusion.

Nancy Landrum , Ma, author, Related coach , and creator of the Millionaire Marriage Club, says Better life It is uncomfortable for others to see a person they know is in a relationship flirting with someone who is not their significant other.

"It's annoying for your partner, but worse still, a public demonstration of bad integrity," she said. "Whether just a bad habit of nourishing your ego or a deliberate way to come back to your partner for a slight flirt at any time with a person other than your beloved compromises the strength of your love."

Of course, people want you and your partner doing well. But there is a thin line between sharing your happiness with others and throwing your relationship on their faces.

Jennifer Kelman , LCSW, a mental health expert and approved psychotherapist On Justanswer, advises couples to avoid continuing again and again on their lives together, because it can easily boast.

"Admittedly, share wonderful things, but do not leave it is the thing that monopolizes all the conversations," she said. "Be mutual in your interest in other members of the couple or the family and be sensitive to the way others receive information or how things are for them in their lives."

It also applies too much to boast of your children! Couples who can only talk about their children's achievements and nothing else "can not be a brake to be there", according to Kelman. And even if you don't have one yet, you should always be aware of your conversations.

"Discuss plans on children or your future as a couple can make other uncomfortable people," warns Kevin Mimms , LMFT, a therapist in private practice Work with the choice of therapy.

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We have all probably heard our just part of romantic quarrels outside. But emotionally high disagreements are "not suitable for public display", according to Landrum. AE0FCC31AE342FD3A1346EBB1F342FCB

"If a disagreement is about to become ugly, accept it until you are alone," she advises. "And if fighting is a frequent experience in your relationship, get effective help to acquire better skills in communication and conflict management."

It's even more embarrassing if you fight with your partner in front of your friends, warns Kelman.

"People want to come together with other couples and enjoy good times and don't have to hear about difficult things or play the referee," she said. "Leave the grievances at home and work on things at a different time and certainly do not put your friends in a position where they are invited to offer a view of who is wrong."

However, you don't need to fight with your loved one to cause discomfort.

"Similar to arguing in front of the others, depositing your partner, even if it is a" joke ", is not funny and not the thing to do in front of the others," shares Kelman. "It can surely put all the holidays in a discomfort, and you do not look like the right guy by spending your partner in front of friends or family members."

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This may seem more obvious, but many couples always end up making their public manifestations too much about affection - otherwise known as PDA. Being "too in love" with your partner can easily make you unbearable to be there, according to Kelman.

"It could make people uncomfortable because they may think that it should be more deprived and not exposed for the world to look," she explains. "It can also make people uncomfortable because it could draw from their own insecurity and feelings from their own relationship and their lack of intimacy."