How long get married to avoid divorcing?
Can the age of the two partners influence the duration of the wedding? According to studies, partly yes: although not the only factor that determines the success or failure of the relationship, the years can be more important than one might think. And the most critical age is precisely the one that goes beyond 32 years ...
We know, there is no more unpredictable science than love: chemistry, alchemy and fortune that reiterate beliefs, past and entire relationships. If, on the one hand, it is obvious that love is not an exact science, on the other hand the statistics carry on the evidence that cannot be considered. One of these examines the age of the two partners as it could influence the duration of the marriage. Will it be true? According to studies, partly yes: although not the only factor that determines the success or failure of the relationship, the years can be more important than one might think. And the most critical age is precisely the one that goes beyond 32 years ...
Prerequisites and scientific studies in comparison
It is tended to think that, later we get married, minors are the chances of divorcing. To testify to what has been said so far there is a 2016 study by Psychology TODAY that supports the following: compared to a twenty -five year old, one twenty -year -olds are more likely to divorce. If on the one hand, said in a nutshell, it would seem that a mature person is more patient and more inclined to tolerate the partner, on the other hand the truth is not so linear ...
The theory of gold curls
According to Carrie Krawiec, double and family therapist of the Birmingham Maple Clinic of the city of Troy, in Michigan, the right age to get married with the least risk of divorce in the first five years falls over 28-32 years. This assumption is nicknamed by the specialist as "gold curl theory": at this age, according to Krawiec, people are neither too young nor too old and therefore more prone to a firm wedding.
What age to have to avoid divorce?
Studies conducted by the Sociology teacher of the Utah University, Professor Nicholas H. Wolfinger, are also useful for the investigation. According to his research, based on a large champion of boyfriends between 2006 and 2010, one couple out of five girlfriends between 20 and 24 years old or after 35 years of age, while those who had between 28 and 32 years old saw his marriage last over time.
The turning point of 32 years
Research has shown that there is an age group between 28 and 32 years old in which marriages are the highest chances of success than other ages. As you go beyond 32, the probability of success of the marriage decrease and the risk of divorce increases by 5%every year. Here too there are several factors to increase this risk: multiple important relationships had in the past, financial issues, career, working dynamics and free time. And all this is even more threatening if it involves both partners.
Updated data
It must be said that Italy, as well as our neighboring European countries, does not fall within the states with the highest rate of divorces, for this reason the statistics and studies come most from overseas: according to what reported by the Wilkinson's law firm & Finkbeiner, in the United States every 42 seconds there is a divorce and 60% of the individuals who have divorced are between 25 and 39 years old, reaching 67% of probability that the wedding stops in a period of 40 years. Age is a factor that always comes back but ...
... can it ever be all here?
The question arises: is it enough to be more than 32 years old and not less than 28 to have a fairytale wedding? Maybe it was so simple! Rather, the secret lies in the strength and light -heartedness of youth with the right mix of maturity of those who live the years that go between 20 and 30. It is necessary to be open to compromise and mediation, focusing the relationship with your partner on the harmony, communication and the right times. Remember: love always wins!
