Good Lifestyle

No matter how deep your feelings are, there are always limits that both should not touch.

Freedom

Love is always associated with care and care but the limit between "caring" and "control" is almost fragile. Excessive concern for all activities, behaviors and interests of "the other half" will make them feel stuffy and frustrated in their relationship.

Therefore, consider personal freedom as the leading boundary that you should not overcome in a serious love. When in love, whether it is just starting or "sticking like sam", including you or "that person" has the right to enjoy your own space and time. However, this does not mean that you will "abandon" or indifferent to the other half, but respect the opponent's freedom at a limit.

Inferiority

For you, even though the mouths seem simple as "I'm too fat", "I'm too lazy", "The aesthetic is too poor" that you say as a fun joke, but "that person" will be Get the feeling of embarrassment, inferiority. Not only is a bad catalyst for the relationship of both, these small jokes also make the opponent think that you do not trust, respect and care about the feelings of the "other half".

A good relationship will help both develop, sublimate and make you feel comfortable, not will make you disappointed and hurt. If you are in behavior that makes "the other half" disappointed and stop asking questions about their own values, that's when you touched the opponent's inferiority and also the relationship of the whole. The two are on the edge of the abyss.

Personality

Before starting a relationship, you and your "person" learn and consider the individuality of both. Therefore, the personality of "that person" is the next boundary that you must not break when going deep into a relationship.

You cannot remove your personality aside or change it to become a completely new person when entering a relationship. On the contrary, you can not ask "the other half" to change everything according to your own will. Instead, you and your lover should learn how to compromise with each other's personality, unifying that the opponent is forced to change as you like. At the same time, learn how to explore the unique and new personality of the opponent, maybe you will love the personalities you don't have!

faith

For many people, faith or religion has a tremendous spiritual significance, has a positive impact on maintaining the direction and value of their lives. When entering a serious relationship, the spiritual belief of the lover is one of the boundaries you are not touched.

Whether "the other half" and whether you have the same virtue, faith or not, learn how to respect your lifestyle and think about your spiritual value, as long as it does not go against moral values or law. Respecting each other's faith will make you two find positive energy from each other, thereby bringing peace and satisfaction with the emotional value of both.

Relationships

Jealousy, worried when "the other half" spends a lot of time, the interest for others is obvious. However, this should not become an excuse for you to overcome the boundaries of trust.

A healthy relationship requires mutual understanding and trust from both sides. If you and "that person" are not trusted enough, you will doubt all relationships around him, including relationships with your ex, close friends or even close friends. gender. If you constantly complain about the relationship of "the other half" with others, it may be the starting point for endless conflicts and a fire that burns the relationship of both.