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If your wife says she wants to boycott the Valentine's Day, one of the two things happening: she is bored with your Valentine's Day routine (card, dinner, chocolates and mandatory sex), or she is against the notion that The celebration of romance requires a special day. Anyway, you must respect his wishes and at the same time, plan something extraordinary anyway.

Here's what to say: "If you really want to say it, I will respect your decision to skip Valentine's Day. It's not the day that counts as much time to appreciate what we have. And if we put aside another night just for us? "

Then have some ideas for your loan: Call his favorite restaurant and ask the head to pay a call at home; Sign up for a wine tasting class; Or whip it on a weekend ski-and-spa trip. (For inspiration, consult our list of the20 cities that you must see before dying.)

One last tip: When February 14 rolls around, write "I love you" on a post-it note and paste it with the mirror of the bathroom before it wakes up.

According to my experience, even if a woman believes that Valentine's Valentine is a valentine's simulacrum invented by the greeting card sector to compel an extra penny of whipped men, she will always appreciate a recognition of this day -the. You will show them that you respect your choice, but you have not forgotten. Yes, we are complicated, but as I'm sure you understood, the reward is worth the headaches. For more advice, do not miss our ranking of theBest dating apps if you are over 40 years old.

Herbenick is an educator for sexuality and relationships at the Kinsey Institute of Indiana University. Discover its website, mysexprofessor.com.