It's the best way to terr your child
You will need to play the part of a hostage negotiator.
When I take care of an armed person holding three people at the Areignonnie in a store, I sometimes remember what it is to lift three teenagers. I have to pay attention in both situations, because what I say in high stress times can be critical. My 31 years with the Sacramento Police Department were a valuable training to guide a time resolution at a peaceful resolution. Here's what I learned, thanks to my boys, Christopher, Taylor and Dylan, and all the armed and desperate people I dealt with in northern California. And for more indispensable parenting, be sure to checkThe best way to raise emotionally healthy children.
1 Always preserve the dignity of the subject.
The minute you told them they are a non-stituted life and have no power in the situation, you lost them.
2 Never impose anything, but let the subject be part of the decision-making process.
The whole negotiator can do is options put on the table and encourage the other party to do the right thing. For example, let's say something like: "You really have a choice on how you want it to go out. You can do that better or you can do that worse."
3 Listen to ranting and hiking.
He or she discharges stress and could transmit some key information.
4 Do not try to negotiate when the subject is upset.
Wait until it returns to what we call "a normal operating level".
5 Be firm when you encounter punishment, but secretly double the quantity, then trading down.
When you decide for a grounding period, for example, propose a period of two weeks and let your child speak to a week (what you wanted, of course), and you would have given them a feeling to control on their destiny. And for more sterling parenting tips, learnThe secret tour to educate healthy children.
Larry Chavez is a former hostage negotiator with the Sacramento Police Service.
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