The Facebook viral of this father explains wonderfully how to support your wife after she has a baby

"Change each layer you can."


Everyone knows that giving birth is not a picnic. Many new moms suffer frompostpartum depression and fight against enormous demands for a newborn. What they need most is a support partner, sohusband and dad-de-threeGreedy Gets so much praise for his recentFacebook Post. In September, Gundle, 29, posted the advice he would give to his "self-care of 24 years on how to be a favorable partner during the phase" becoming parents "and it's just on the 'money.

First, he noted that your wife "carried the baby in his belly for nine months", it's up to you to wear the baby "on your belly for nine months of all the occasions you get." Gonder has added better than it helps not only a new mother cure to give birth, but also "you binds to your child more than imaginable. "

Second, you mustchange their layers as much as possible. "You will go over the fast rudeness," he advised. "And you will avoid imbalances and resentment in the relationship." As an additional bonus, while other new mothers complain about how husbands are without support, "your wife will boast of you." Which, of course, isalways a good thing.

And we all know that expressing love is oftenAll about little things. So why not do the new mom in your Café Decaf Decaf every morning? "Even if it leaves it cold and forgets to drink most of the mornings"it is the thought that countsHe explained. And if she drank, gourd added, it'll "help start his day in a way that helps him reset."

And as new moms tend to lament theirpost-baby bodyIt's important to tell him that she is beautiful and helps to see that in the moments when she feels most critical and hopeless about her body, "said Gonder. He suggested reminding him that she is a "superhero" that "literally displaced all his organs around" to "give you a child who will make you a gift for the rest of your life."

Finally, he advised, becompassionate. Having a baby is pretty radical things to a woman's hormones, so be patient with her during the days when she seems a little more irritable than usual. "Remember that your job is to be his rock through all this, then harden and keep the perspective when his tongue is sharper than what you do not know only his best self counts," he wrote. "Normal will come back soon and you want it to be grateful to keep it together ... Not resentful and disappointed that you turned away his emotions by doing his problems."

The position of Gund received more than 57,000 tastes since its rise in September, as well as many comments from people who did not know more with his advice to support a new mother.

"Love so much!" A Facebook user has written. "I hope to have such respect anddedicated partner one day."

"He goes in both directions," Golder replied. "It helps to beMarried to your best friend. "

Well, it's just the sweetest. And for more great dad, checkDwayne "The rock" Johnson's daughter taught her a very important lesson at her marriage.

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