See the strong words of Jennifer Aniston on the stereotype "Sad Jen" sustainable
"Why do we want a happy ending? How about a good existence?"
Jennifer Anistonis one of the highest actresses in Hollywood, with a net worth estimated at $ 200 million. She is co-founder of the production companyEcho moviesand his representations critically acclaimed in the 2002 filmGood girl And the movie 2014Cake proved that she is a great actress whose talents far exceed what we saw inFriends. And, thanks to a healthy lifestyle, it always has Dewey's skin and the tonic physics of a woman in early twenties. And yet, our perception of it continues to be Sad Jen-a Jilted, a striking woman who simply can not seem to hold a man and is, under likelihood, probably sterile from here now.
It's a typical apron a notification that it addresssIn a cover story forElapse. She admits this part of the reason why the media continues to describe it in this way, it's because it was open to what extent it was upsettingBrad Pitt left it in 2005.
"It was] Once, I think, when the internet really discontinued. The tabloids started to paint myself in a light that was not faithful to whom I was," she said.
She learned her lesson and these days she is much more supervised when she comes to her personal life.
"I was just like", shut up and say nothing, because you can not do anything. You can try to protest too - no, I'm not unhappy! No, I'm not sure! I'm not sure. I'm not sure. "I was finally like, I finished. I'll close the doors. I'll put it listening. If someone tries to talk to me, I'll give answers from a word, and I'm not going Not being vulnerable. I am too sensitive to be misinterpreted, misinterpreted or out of the context. I just started closing. "
But when his wedding 2015 at the actorJustin Theroux Completed after less than three years, Sad Jen reappeared, despite the fact that Aniston itself has no regrets or bitterness with regard to one of its supposed marriages "stranded". She said:
"I do not feel a void. I do not really do it. My marriages, they were very successful, in [my] personal opinion. And when they are ended, it was a choice that was done because we have chosen to be happy, and sometimes happiness no longer existed in this arrangement. Of course, there were bumps, and not every moment fantastic, obviously, but at the end of that, it's our only life and I would not remain in a situation of fear. Fear of being alone. Fear of not being able to survive. Staying in a marriage based on fear feels like you make your life a bad service. When the work has been put in place and it was not seemed that there is a work option, it's good. It's not a failure. We have these clichés around all of this that must be reworked and rebuilt, you know? Because that it is a very narrow thought. "
Aniston believes that this attachment of painting as a kind of chronically depressed divorce is the result of the sexist expectations we always hang on what it means to succeed as a woman, especially aging. She went:
"We live in a society that women's messages: by this age, you should be married; by this age, you should have children. It's a fairy tale. It's the mold that we are trying slowly to get out of ... why do we want a happy ending? How about a good existence? A happy process? We are all dealing constantly. What quantifies happiness in the life of someone is not the ideal that was created in the 50s. It's not as if you hear this story about all men ... it's part of sexism - it's always the woman who is mistaken and broken heart and a spinster. It's never the opposite. The unfortunate is, many things come from women. Maybe they have not understood that they have the power, they have The ability to get a feeling of interior happiness. "
That's why when asked why people seem to continue to focus on his romantic status, she observed: "Maybe everything has to do with what they miss in their own life"
"It's a shallow lens that people are watching," she said. "This is the only place to point a finger on me as if they are my damage - as it is a kind of scarlet letter on me that I have not yet procreated, or maybe never procreat."
For the record (and the umpteenth time), Aniston did not exclude children, it simply does not use them as a marker with which to evaluate his life.
"Some people are constructed to be women and have babies," she said. "I do not know how naturally does it come to me ... Who knows what the future holds in terms of child and a partnership - how does this child come ... or is not? And now with Science and miracles, we can do things at different times that we were capable. "
For now, she benefits from theSumptuous Los Angeles Home, she shares with three dogs Where she frequently hosts parties and enjoys sunset in a blessed solitude. It may not be the "happy end" we all imagine, but it is certainly a good existence.
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