Diana would have been "very disappointed" in Harry for this reason, sources say
She had promised that she "would never allow himself to be painted like the victim," said an initiate.
There is no doubt that the death ofprincess diana was the most unique traumatic event ofPrince HarryThat's life. On the verge of becoming a teenager when his mother was tragically killed in a car accident in Paris (he is 13 years old less than a month later), the young prince was consumed by grief. In 2017, Harry saidBryony Gordon on his podcastCrazy world It would take 20 years before he is ready to fully confront hisFeelings about the death of his mother.
It was Harry's experience with the therapy at the time that led him to join his brother,Prince WilliamAnd beautiful sister,Kate Middleton, launch their mental health campaign,Heads together, whose mission is to remove stigma around mental health. Harry is no longer involved in the initiative, which is now led by the Royal Foundation of the Duke and the Duchess of Cambridge.
Since then, he has shown a huge unresolved anger towards the royal family that started to redo there when he marriedMeghan murder And became a husband and a father. In its new five-part series for Appletv +,The self you can not see, that the prince co-produced withOPRAH WINFREY, Each payment has Harry talking about traumatic memories of his childhood, surroundings and Meghan.The family did not want to help Meghan When she struggled with suicidal thoughts during her first pregnancy and her unresolved feelings of anxiety of these events he still struggled with today. Prince's revelations on the series come on the heels ofA series of interviews where he said a lot of the same thing, openly criticizing the royal family and his father,Prince CharlesIn particular, who has declared, transmitted a "cycle of genetic pain and suffering" to him. On the Appletv + series, Harry even swam his core participating in outstanding therapy sessions.
The prince told Winfrey on the series: "I do not doubt that my mother would be incredibly proud of me. I live the life she wanted to live for herself, living the life she wanted us to live."
But, according to some initiates, there is one thing Harry did who would have disappointed Diana. In fact, they say that it would be "greatly worried" of some of the choices of his son since leaving the royal family. Read on to find out what they are.
Diana would have liked Harry to be seen more like a lawyer than a "victim".
In the last year of his life, after his divorce from Charles had been finalized, Diana intended to redefine as a modern humanitarian that would exploit his global popularity to shine a light on the problems she was careful. The princess went to Bosnia-Angola to highlight antipersonnel mines in these countries. During a team of Red Cross workers, Diana visited hospitals where young children were dying, areas visited by the war and even traveled an active ground field. With hundreds of cameras reported it, Diana transmitted without words a very important message that the world should pay attention to this question.
As a manmanitarian, Diana wanted to draw attention to a story, but do not become one in the process. A told sourceBetter life"Diana would have encouraged Harry to defend the humanitarian causes he cared. She would be proud to see him assume the issue of mental health, but she would have wanted to be considered more lawyer and less than a victim. "The initiate continued:" It would have been very disappointed to see such a Harry campaign for mental health around him and his problems with the royal family, revealing so much his personal history. She thought he had been benefited from the media and would be too much concerned about himself. After this disastrous interview withMartin BashirThe first thing the princess promised was that she never allowed to be painted as the victim again. "
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Diana would not have approved that Harry was openly critical of William and Charles.
During his two-hour interview with Meghan and Oprah Winfrey in March, the prince said his father had cut him financially andstopped taking his callsDuring the negotiations in Megxit. He continued to say that his father and brother were "trapped" inside the institution of the monarchy.
Appearing on TalkRadio in April, Royal BiographerAndrew Morton Said Diana would not have approved Harry openly criticizing the family members closest to him. He explained (viaExpress), "He did not just attack an institution. He also attacked his brother and his father." The author, who secretly collaborated with the princess on the bomb bomb-allDiana his true storyAlso revealed: "I do not think she would have approved Harry calling her brother" trapped "in his situation because he is not supposed to throw his brother under the bus." Diana had often told Morton Harry "is supposed to be there" for William "as safeguarding the best possible way."
Harry's marketing of the Crown would have "caused some concern" for Diana.
At the moment Diana had divorced Charles, she was one of the most famous and loved women in the world. When I write my book,Diana the secrets of his style, a close friend of the princess told me, "There were offers every day to come from fashion companies and begging brands to enter business with the princess. She wealthy them like stupid ideas."
Diana was very proud of her British heritage and was a fiery monarchist. "Diana wanted William to king, the kind of king who would lead the British people with intelligence, empathy and compassion. He knew it was his destiny," said an initiate. "She would never want to threatened or cheaper in any way."
According to the source, Harry's Multimicil Dollar deals with Netflix, Spotify and Apple TV + would have "raised some concern" on the appearance of cashing on the crown. "Diana was a great philanthropist as she showed him with herbidding. She used the relics of her royal life to raise funds for AIDS and charitable cancer. She never used them for a personal gain. She would have been troubled by the idea that the only way to make money was to talk about her experiences as a royal or commercial - intentionally or non-titre. "
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The definition of Diana freedom would vary a lot from Harry.
During the last year of his life, Diana talked about moving to America with several friends, including Royals ReporterRichard Kay. In the investigation in his death,The daily mail The correspondent said she told him, "My destiny is to go abroad."
Unlike the announcement of Harry's surprise that he and Meghan turned from royal life to find "financial independence" and looking for private life in North America, Diana had a plan. She had examined properties in California and New York. During a four-season lunch during the summer of 1997, Diana saidTina Brown that she wasPlanning the production of a series of documentaries emphasizing various causes. Kay revealed that the princess also wanted to open a global hospitality network.
"Diana has long been free andseriously considered to live in America"," said an insider. But the source added that she "was not going to leave Great Britain without knowing how it would work and that it was not going to just let everyone behind. Diana knew that she had to find a new way of living, but unlike her son, she would not feel the need to destroy everything and everyone in her old life as a royal to do so. "
The source said that it was afraid that Harry did not completely cured wounds and trauma of the past. "Harry can not stop doing terrible accusations against the royal family. He left, but he did not go," said the initiate. "Diana knew how to find happiness in his own life and leave the past behind was the best revenge. She would not hang out the wounds and grievances of the past behind her."
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Diane Clehane is a reporter based in New York and author ofImagine Diana andDiana: the secrets of his style.