50 things that no woman should never say after 50 years
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They say that with age comes wisdom, but that does not always mean that maturity is part of the package. In fact, as 50 quickly become the new 40, 50 years seem and act younger than ever - for better or for worse. Although, in some cases, it means that the set of 50 out of 50 is healthier, more active and full of othersjoy of life that those who have passed in front of them, in others, it means that their vocabulary is systematically peppered language that has nothing wrong with inductivating.
"People in general, as they get older should use and express a more mature vocabulary in general as a natural succession of age and maturity," says the Karen Thomas label coach, founder ofKaren Thomas Label.
Thomas warns specifically against the elderly using too much slang in their speech: "While believing that some 50 years are" hip "and that you know, you can attract more attention to your age than you Wish. While I use it myself. Slang rarely when you talk, everyone, no matter how old should try to sound educated and mature - not coarse and rude! "
But if you do not want your language to bring you the most embarrassing member of your family, you have time to clean your act. We compiled a compendium of things that no woman over 50 should say. And for more ways to rub your vocabulary, check these40 words that instantly reveal your right age.
1 "Computers simply have no meaning for me."
Of course, if you are in your 50 years, you may not have grown up with computers, but it's not an excuse to be completely perforated by them. Not only does the computer literacy is a requirement for countless jobs today, it's easier than ever to learn programs you need to know. Even if you do not want to express money for private lessons, your local library is an excellent resource - in fact, many offer digital literacy assistance and classes. And if you want to have more technical literacy in a hurry, shopThe 50 best purchases at the best purchase.
2 "The millennia are so titled."
You may have heard that millennia ruin the housing market, diamond cases, brunch, golf, marriage institution and 40-hour work week, among other criminal offenses. However, not only is it a frustrating stereotype to call millennia the root of all the misfortunes of society, it is not original either. Older generations complained about the culture of youth for generations, these wild children of the age of jazz to these non-hippies in the 1960s.
3 "When I was your age ..."
In general, if a sentence starts with "when I was your age", it ends with a declaration of condescension describing how your conversant colleague should live once you did. And this should also surprise you that very few people are interested in receiving this type of unsolicited advice. If you mean a funny anecdote about when you were a child, there, but there are many opportunities to do that without putting anyone who is down. And for more discursive missteps, check these40 Argot terms that no one over 40 should never use.
4 "No offense, but ..."
If you need to advocate a sentence with "no offense", what comes after is intrinsically offensive. If you have more than 50 years, you are certainly old enough to know better than climbing this type of criticism campaign.
5 "It's bed."
Hey, everyone is excited new things from time to time. That said, if you have more than 50 years, exclaim that something is "lit" is going to be pretending as if you are desperately trying to appear young. "Unless one begins a fire without others, to abstain from this statement at any age!" said Thomas.
6 "Do I look big in that?"
"If this statement does not scream insecurity, I'm not sure that" says Thomas. At a certain age, you should more or less know your body - and this includes whether you are overweight or not. However, whatever your size, it is frustrating and buzzing from making sure other people you do not have fat in an outfit, then gaping this question, post-hurry.
7 "Connection culture"
What does he do that people meet online and sometimes go home together that look like a cultural movement to some seniors? Although the meeting may seem different today that when you were younger, if you are removed the rise in the so-called connection culture, you unfortunately prepare out of contact. And if you are still single, checkThe best dating apps if you have more than 40 years.
8 "I'm too old for ..."
By the current standards, you have come to reach the Middle Ages when you reach 50. However, if you really want to make you seem much older, starting your sentences with "I'm too old for" is a great way to accomplish that goal.
9 "Mombod"
Of course, your body of 50 plus probably does not look like the way it did it at 20, but it's not a reason to describe you as having a "mombod". It's just your body and you do not need to put yourself in the way it looks.
10 "I just do not hear with other women."
If you have reached 50 years and you can not find common ground with billions of women on the planet, is not the question: it's you. Although it is good to have a group of predominantly male friends, act like other women are just too unpleasant, it's more than a little immature. "The constitution of an excuse for inciviling to others is simply a poor label," says Thomas.
11 "I'm such a cougar."
Can you trust your choice to go out with someone younger after 50 years? Absoutely. However, you do not need to justify your decision by taking a cougar-in fact, it makes it a totally normal thing seems frightening and predatory.
12 "I can not wear that at my age."
Although some of your old modes would seem undeniably dated 50 years, it does not mean that your choices only for clothes are bagless bags. There is nothing you can not wear when you have 50 or more points for many items you know better than spending your hard earned money.
13 "A girl like me"
Many people use "girl" and "woman" interchangeable, but when you have more than 50 years, you should know better. You are not a little little child - you are an entire adult and I should wear the title as a badge of honor.
14 "Could you watch it for me?"
It's not because you do not know that the Python coding outs do not mean that you can not do anything for yourself when it comes to technology. If you do not know how to do something, look at it. After all, it takes your children or friends as long, if not more, to do it for you.
15 "Freny"
There is no age limit on bad relationships, but if you have more than 50 years, it's time to put the word "frénemia" to grazing. At this age, people are just your friends or they are not.
16 "I can not believe you did that."
The world is a currency exchange place and what could have been considered foreign behavior when you were a child, is running today. So, if you do not want to seem insufficiently in the old, leave the shock on the behavior of others.
17 "I'm so silly."
You have five decades or more behind you - it's time to show some confidence! There is never a good time for this kind of negative discussion, but if you are an entire adult, it's certainly time to stop putting you. You are allowed not to know things, and it does not make you stupid.
18 "Locate me money."
If you have more than 50 years, it is high time that you have started living in your means. If you need to continue borrowing money from friends or family members, it's time to start being better with your expenses. And for advice on this forehead, learn the52 ways to be smarter with money in 2018.
19 "I will never be able to learn that."
There is a lot of things to learn about yourself and the world when you have more than 50 years. To say that you will never be able to learn something makes you look like if you are not willing to expand your horizons - never an attractive line.
20 "Let's be bad and order dessert."
While engaging in a huge piece of chocolate cake at the end of each meal will probably not make much to help you put pressure on your lean jeans, you do not need to apologize for food food By the time you are 50 years old. You 'lived for half a century; it's time to stop discovering the moralization of the cake.
21 "You are too sensitive."
You do not have to decide how someone else feels a particular situation. When this is Lobbed in the youngest who, for example, are kidnapped by their boss that distinguishes them before their colleagues or their inability to pay bills while working full time, it makes you look like a fool. Who thinks that insensitivity is such a great trait, anyway?
22 "You should really ..."
Nobody wants your unsolicited advice. Just because you are older does not mean that you are necessarily wiser and you probably should not use this sentence if you want to keep friends.
23 "I just said that like that."
If someone asks for your complete honesty of something, do not hesitate to give them. However, give your impartial opinion on the things that no one has asked about it is nothing less coarse. And if you have more than 50 years, you have certainly been around the block enough times to know better.
24 "Take some"
You are an adult, not a high school student. You should be able to tell the word "sex" without blushing.
25 "I'm lit well."
Just because your parents have spanked you or have been exposed to lead paint, or have broken half of your body's bones climbing on dangerous playground equipment like a child and are still alive today Well, that does not mean that these things are good idea for other people.
26 "I do not understand children these days."
Nobody really asks you from you, however. There will always be cultural differences between you and young generations, and it's not really your place to judge. All you have done as teenager or young teenager of older adult seniors.
27 "I am grateful not to grow with all this technology."
It's not because you do not know how to use each piece of technology that runs through your path that does not mean that technology is a bad thing. In fact, it is quite surprising that we have practically infinite knowledge at scope (or that, for example, robotic surgery is now one thing). For more information about technology, you can use or not every day, learn the20 types of artificial intelligence that you use every day and you do not know it.
28 "Is not it cute?"
"Cute" is barely a descriptor adapted for most things and can have good condescension. If something is beautiful, say that. If something makes you proud, say that.
29 "Hottie"
It is not like turning 50 means the end of your meeting life, by any means whatsoever. However, this means that you would be well advised to start using the "beautiful" or "beautiful" or "beautiful" to describe the object of your affection.
30 "You people"
What people do you speak, exactly? No matter who you speak, this presents himself as offensive, if not racist.
31 "For real?"
If something surprises you, a "seriously?" suffice. It is not necessary to make your language of language so cut or obsolete.
32 "I would like to have your confidence."
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33 "You should really listen to me."
Phrases like this do not sound like a boss, they simply sound you. It's not because you think all answers does not mean that your tips are applicable to everyone you meet.
34 "I can not even."
You are an adult. If there is something you have trouble, there is an easy way to express this without resembling a Disney show.
35 "RIDIC"
You may feel your age if you are 50 years old, but you are not so short at the time that tells "ridiculous" will waste it.
36 "The children are so lazy these days."
The world has evolved since you were younger and technology has accelerated innumerable tasks once monotonous and tedious. This does not mean that children are lazy because they look at something online instead of a dictionary - it means they are ingenious.
37 "Discuss politics is so rude."
The policy is personal, especially these days. It's not because you do not want to contribute to your opinion at a political conversation does not mean that it's your place to close it.
38 "I'm just an old lady."
You could be older, but your age does not define you. Think about all the things you have made in your life - you are so much more than your age.
39 "And when will you make me a grandmother?"
Just because you had children does not mean that it is the responsibility of your children to do the same. Considering that about 10% of women have trouble designing, it's a more busy question than you could have imagined. "Place undue bonds or time tables on our children or grandchildren is simply rude, no matter you talking," says Thomas. "I'm not saying that."
40 "Get Crunk"
You are not in a music video and it's not 2003. If you feel a buzz, "Tipsy" describes it better.
41 "I have so many hangover."
Unless you have your first drink at your 50th anniversary, there is no real excuse for not knowing your limits. "This does not become anyone at any age," says Thomas. "If you are sick to drink too much, keep it for you! »
42 "My digestion ..."
There is no real reason to discuss your digestive tract in a polite business. Feel under the weather? Say that this instead of mentioning your indigestion on dinner.
43 "Is it hot here or is it just my hot flashes?"
What is the reaction provided for for sentences like this, anyway? If you are lucky, you will have a step back, at best.
44 "I'm not racist, but ..."
If you start a sentence with these words, know that all that comes after them is without a doubt, racist.
45 "The Age is just a number."
While you are certainly not forced to start looking at you as an elderly person when you reach 50, this sentence is often used to justify seriously flagrant behavior. Age can be just a number for you, but it is still quite scary when you talk about the hot Shawn Mendes (born: 1998).
46 "Not in this life."
Of course, you will probably not be parachuting at 100. That said, there is a lot of time between your 50th anniversary and the end of the line. You have a lot of time to do what you have decided.
47 "Follow my traces."
Just because your life has agreed that your path is the only way. Leave your kids, grandchildren or younger friends determine what works best for them instead of trying to make them live as you did.
48 "You'll be old too, one day."
Is it a surprise for someone? Yes, if people are lucky, they will end up going to your age, but that does not mean you have to make them feel bad about being young at this moment.
49 "Garbage tipper"
Have the last years been collectively been a garbage tipper? Yes. Is this sentence also unfortunately used? Also yes.
50 "Young people are wasted on young people."
You can appreciate your youth now that you are older, but as they say, the decline is 20/20. The only reason you know how good you did it, it's because you lived it. And the odds are back in pink glasses, anyway. "It's a rather sneaky and rude way to put our youth," says Thomas, who advises to use this sentence in any conversation. And for more ways to improve your conversation skills, learn to learn to Dazzling any gathering with these sincere little advice.
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