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We all had days when our list of things to do seems not only insurmountable, but suffocating - when the pressures of everyday life (go to work, to get our children where they should be, clean the house, etc.) I feel like I'm too much to bear. Usually in these times we suffer in silence, but a woman from Colorado namedKimberly Adams encourage people to rely on their friends and ask for help instead of keeping everything. In a position of Facebook now viral, it shows the world what thetrue meaning of friendship is.

In mid-October, Adams set up a position on theBlog Moms Northern Colorado Facebook page on how she waspass through a difficult period And trying to manage alone alone. "As moms, we have the impression that we always had to put on our big pants of girl and just muscular," she wrote. "Do not let you see you sweat, no?"

But, one day, she found it impossible to do it. She called a friend, thinking that everything she needed was "crying on what was happening". Then, her friend asked her a very important question, the one we should all ask when someone we love is in trouble. "She asked me to say what I needed and want the most," wrote Adams. "I told him I did not want to be alone."

How did his friend respond? She said, "I'm on the way."

Adams tried to talk to him about doing the long journey between their two distant Colorado cities. She told him that the "house was a catastrophe" and that itI did not want to be a "burden". But his friend did not care about anything. All she cared for being here for Adams when she did not want to be by herself.

She picked up another friend on the way to the house of Adams and, once arrived, they gave him the "the biggest hugs"And asked the second question we should all ask when someone we love is in trouble:" What can we do? "

"My catastrophe of a house? Theyhelped me clean itAnd assured me that it was not so bad, "she wrote." They let me cry, they made me laugh, we listened to music, and especially ... i. Was not. Alone."

Adams encouraged people toappear for a friend Who they know how to have a difficult period, even if that person is too uncomfortable to ask. "Just tell you that you come," she wrote. "Because I guarantee that she wants more than anything, and she has trouble saying it."

And she finished the affected position by urging other mothers to realize that they do not have to suffer from silence and solitude, which apply not only to mothers, but to everyone.

"You do not even need to know what you need - just start by asking for not being alone," she wrote. "I know there is someone in your life that will tell you" I'm on my way ", if only you would like."

The beautiful tribute to friendship quickly returned viral, winning more than 114,000 shares since they were published on October 17.

"I can not even start telling you how much I love it and how far it's relatible to my life right now," wrote a Facebook user. "You put in words what I have not been able to me and for that, thank you."

The answers were so overwhelming as Adams-who did not reveal his identity in the original post-post-up with photos of herself and #onheways, including the two who helped him at the fateful day:Samantha Franzen andEmilie Casseday.

She revealed that she met most of them through the Northern Colorado Moms blog and that while she had only knew them for just over a year, they are "those who pass me Through and often dealing with this difficult route. "

She also had some practical tips for anyone who could feel alone and who does not know who to turn to.

"Check your roomCity Mom Collectivepage! If your city does not have, do what I did and look for your community! If this is not an option, look for local Facebook event events and choose one to go to, "wrote Adams." Be trend in the community. Whether it's a group Mothers, a biblical study, sports league leisure, or something similar ... The community is going on all around you. "

And all you do, do not be afraid to ask for help. This could be difficult at the beginning, but once you got the words, you will be surprised to find how many people are looking forward to being there for you.

And for another inspiring position on flowering instead of simply surviving, consult:Mom Facebook viral post reveals the struggles of postpartum anxiety.

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