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AFacebook recent post by bloggerCeleste Yvonne has become viral to highlight the fight to choose to be sober in a society that promotesMoms drinking wine.

Yvonne, 40, is a mother of two children, who are 3 and 5. She lives in Reno, Nevada and directs the blogThe challenge of the ultimate motherwhere she writes about her efforts to be the best mom she can be. One of the most crucial things she did to achieve this goal was tostop drinking alcohol In 2018.

"I decided to stop drinking because I realized that I never wanted to stop in one," she saysBetter lifewhen reached. "My father was an alcoholic and I saw how it destroyed his health with acerebral accident at the age of 52 years. I also saw the road to know how my father's alcoholism affected ourfamilyAnd I did not want that for mine. "

But while remaining sober, it is a challenge in and in itself, Yvonne soon found that, because it may seem other moms that she did not drink was also an act of courage.

"I read the same yesterday who said" I determine my children's play children by what mother I want to drink wine with "" he wrote in the position of viral facebook, which currently counts more than more than 52,000 tastes. "Being without alcohol can really feel ostracization. And it is strange to think that alcohol is the only medicine we need to explain to explain."

In his post, who was shared more than 35,000 times, Yvonne described the experience of going to a play at someone's house and to be uncomfortable when a mother suggested Mimosa.

Taken above the guard in the moment, Yvonne thought to say "yes" and pretending to sip it, but she just says: "Not right now, I'm good thank you." But then he returned 15 minutes later, and again 15 minutes after that.

"I almost struck my head against the wall thinking mentally:" Why do not I tell him just that I do not drink? "" She wrote. "But I did not do it. I was afraid of thinking that I was not fun. I was afraid of not wanting to have more reading with me."

Yvonne saidBetter life That there is a strange shame associated with telling people that you do not drink alcohol because it means admitting you have a problem. And, she added, it can take a toll on her social life.

"I feel like I invite [less] invites the evenings and the evening of moms, and I think my friends honestly think that they make me a favor by not putting me in a position," She stated. "But it's still hurt my feelings a little."

Nevertheless, there is no denying that for Yvonne, it's worth the sacrifice.

"I waited a whole year before I went to the public on [go sober] because I was not sure where I was going with that," she saysBetter life. "Is it a break? Is it forever? After a year, I realized that I never wanted to go back, and my life is so better without it."

And like more and more people realizeThe dangers of alcohol And make the choice to abstain entirely, Yvonne hopes that being a sober mother will soon become more normal.

As she wrote on Facebook, it's time to change the story. Alcohol is a choice that should not require an explanation, embarrassment or fear of condemnation. "

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