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Jake was now a doctor and lived in Sydney, Australia, close to her workplace while Emmy worked as a teacher in London. Not similar to their meetings during the holidays, this time we have some sort of all planned to bring them together for a complete reason and they were both all aware of it and when you know what happened Then and the biggest obstacle waiting for them, you could feel shot down. Go to read how Jake's lives and Emmy were about to change forever.

10 years to go

For more than 10 years, Jake and Emmy have been able to continue to live their lives according to their will and according to their plans they were completely satisfied. Although they never felt too much, they always had something to miss but were too busy with their daily routines that they never felt quite occupied by the thought of "something missing". But years later, the weather was about to put them face to face to face unexpectedly in 2015.

Further?

After all these years, Emmy and Jake came back together and this time it was not just their ordinary vacation encounter. They realized the way they were looking for all this time as they were supposed to be together and the best thing we have happened lately, but they realized the fact that they do not get along perfectly also not like friends, but also partners of life. It was not all for them aswithin 6 months of Time The couple was about to deal with the biggest shock of their lives.

Make it work

Emmy was in London and Jake was in Sydney and it was certain that the two were sure they will do it going beyond all distances as they ended in all ways. Theyhave been connected by their conversations on FaceTime And even the habit of traveling from time to time, just an absolutely love pair ready to give up anything to stay together and that's what life is all about, right? It's more about sticking next to your loved ones. We would like to know your point of view about it! While 10,000 miles did not seem to this couple because their relationship became stronger every day. The worst nightmare was close to becoming true.

On a serious note

They used to talk about the future now and realize how they want to spend living with each other and that Jake knew that Emmy completes him in all respects. Unknown to the future that the terrible events were about to leave them devastated, Jake had the most special time prepared for Emmy.

All sets for the big day

In March 2016, Jake knew that Emmy completes him in all respects, and he was ready to take their relationship with the next step because he did not want to lose that girl, by his side, this time and so he had everything planned for a proposal. He had already photored the wonderful momenttoHis mind and he was just preparing for their best trip to arrive when life brought them to a dead end.

Note has become true!

The wish to marry Emmy, which he mentioned in this note in high school was now about to become reality and no time would have been better than now and so planned a trip toThe PhilippinesWhere he will ask Emmy, "Do you want to marry me?" On a cliff with a scenic firefight background. An ideal proposal! Unfortunately, before the trip can take place, everything was wrong horribly!

Humble query

Before the couple can take off for the tropics, Emmy was in Sydney to meet Jake as she usually does. She was supposed to come back to London the next day, it was the last day of their time together until their next trip to the Philippines. She spent time with her childhood love, next to the beachlayerin the sunlight. They looked like the rest of the couples for the last time. As Emmy's request was about to destroy all their plans.

Just a massage

"We were only two people lying on a beach in Sydney without care in the world ... who would have known that will happen then ..." Jake remembered. This Sunday afternoon turned suddenly from a raging afternoon, relaxed to ashocking momentWhen Emmy asked Jake to give him a neck massage, that Jake agreed to do something nice for the woman of his dreams, the one he wanted to spend his life. But what was going to happen before he could massage his neck was the least expected.

A look has shocked him

"We were sitting at the restaurant a Sunday afternoon - a truly sunny day, nice day - and I just put my hands around his back and I knew immediately [something was wrong]. My blood Cold cold, "said Jake of the day who ruined everything. He was afraid like hell but he did not want to worry Emmy, but he knew it could be something very disturbing for both. That he noticed was enough to scare Jake as he was a doctor himself.

Do not panic

"You do not want someone to worry you, so I did not shout:" Oh my God, Emmy, why not tell me about it "or anything," Jake added: "I just said very calmly that she had to make it check very quickly." He decided to handle the situation with wisdom without panicking Emmy and himself. Emmy did not have any signs of Jake's thoughts so far. She thought it was due to her use of the hectic time she felt tired. But this incident was the visible smoke, the real light was still to be identified.

Rush for the doctor

"I told him to make an appointment with his general practitioner as soon as she has home. And what happened. He said in an interview: "I was trying to push her to doctors." Monday, when Emmy returned to London, she appointments for the same day and went for a check-up. There was not instant insurance about anything doctors they wanted to get some tests. However, theirexpressions were indicating that something was not entitled.

ARRIVED REPORTS

"I desperate not to miss our holidays," Emmy remembers. The reports came one day before they had to leave for the tropics, where Jake wanted to propose the woman of his dreams, unfortunately, instead of packing their bags, they waited for the doctor to say what the reports had to say. This time Jake was with Emmy, he left everything and stole in England to be with Emmy.

Rare case

"I rushed to A & E with chest pain - we were waiting for nearly twelve hours before a doctor told me that the Cancer Stadium Four - it was incurable, and was extended to the spine, the Lungs, liver and bones. Emmy was one of the youngest to have this rare thyroid medullary cancer with only 300 cases in the UK over the last 12 years. Yet, Emmy and Jake are not ready to give up.

Slow down cancer

The case of Emmy was now transferred to the Royal Marsden Hospital, to whom the couple has always been grateful. The doctors said after his neck biopsy and other EMMY tests was now on a medicine that could slow down cancer to spread. On the basis of the prognosis, there was a 20% chance it could live forAround five years But Jake and Emmy were more confident and we are looking forward to so much to come on the way!

Symptoms, 2 years

"My first symptoms started two years ago, I thought it was irritable colon syndrome. I left it, and left, as you do. I did not want to be a hypochondriac. I was told that I was stressed. I went to doctors two or three times - but just continued to say that it was IBS, and everything was normal, there was nothing to fear. I diarrhea and constipation, but I was not really taken seriously by doctors. I had a very bad period, "she still remembers," I was on a school trip and I had to go to A & E. I had blood tests, but they said everything was normal. But I left it - I reach a point where I was almost embarrassed to keep telling doctors that I had something wrong with me. I felt really stupid ".

A Display of Devotion

"She complained that she did not feel good for a while, but nobody had ever felt her neck," Jake shared his experience with disappointment. It was only 6 months that the couple returned together and the misfortune was on them now, although the Emmy reports declared not a lot of time, the couple was not convinced that it was and a disease is stronger than Their love and therefore, they wanted to do something new on their own. A paradise for both.

Launch a brave battle

They were young, they were perfect together and they were optimistic, as soon as Emmy came out of the hospital, she had somethingIn progress His mind she and Jake decided together and both were ready to start their trip to all the new adventures soon. Emmy never seemed low,shewas always full of energy and with his impeccable bright smile and how she was dealing with her routine and Chemos exams was more inspiring. At the end of the life phase of Emmy she was ready to go on her new way with Jake.

Found Courage in Love

"Believe it or not, I'm happier than ever. Love is really the best medicine and I have been totally stifled in it, "Emmy used to tell his family. She was informed that if her cancer was diagnosed before, she could have made a complete recovery of this one, but now he was incurable and Emmy and his family and Jake were dealing with. Emmy and Jake decided to take a trip, a special trip for a special cause!

Travel bike across Europe

Even if the couple had the most difficult time to do, they have never lost hope and started moving forward, faster than before. Emmy and Jake were ready for an adventure of life and Emmy defining an example. Instead of being in bed and feeling lethargic, she was doing a 2000 km cycling trip to Europe, London to Copenhagen for a fundamental cause, we wonder what it would be?

Huge support

Emmy posted on his blog, "never could imagine that a lot of you, sensational people would be there to send us. I did not have words at the time (partly because I was so much Nervous and excited that my mouth dries out and my lips stuck to my teeth! ... Smooth as always) And I debate for the right words now. "The couple actually had a good cause behind their journey.

For a cause

Emmy got his treatment in the Royal Marsden Hospital and she could not be more grateful to the hospital staffchecked in Many lives of cancer and the couple decided to collect funds for the Royal Marsden Hospital to help other cancer patients who successfully raised more than £ 140,000 (more than $ 195,000). "It was the most overwhelming phenomenal experience ... The best day of our lives," wrote on his blog when the greatest disappointment was buried in his heart.

Grief of a mother

What struck the Emmy the most was the truth that, because of his cancer, she can never conceive, for a girl who dreamed of being a mother a day throughout her life was the greatest shock . However, the next Jake's movement not only made the pain tolerable for her, but gave him a reason to look forward to getting more enthusiasm.

The happiness of true love

Jake decided he will no longer wait to ask Emmy to marry her and he proposed it while he had a sip of tea onotThe bed if it was not similar to Jake's previous planto visitA beautiful destination. They loved each other and that's what made the special moment. Emmy's life completely changed with Jake's question, she was delighted with the idea of ​​marrying her childhood crusts and the day was about to fulfill her remaining life with joy.

Mom's prediction

Emmy's mother always tells him that Jake is "the one" for her and that it was true that the cutest couple decided to share their lives together. They knew each other since childhood and dated adolescence and get married now in the late 1920s, they were an ideal match and honestly, each other.

The big day is here

Emmy was responsible for all wedding plans and was looking forward to his great day better than ever. "People were wasting so many years of their lives being miserable. You could be struck by a bus tomorrow - life is so short and we are determined to take advantage of it. We are optimistic, look forward to the future and we are impatient From getting married, "said Emmy. In September 2016, the loving couple took their wishes and everyone was in tears. They were not aware of their destiny, just live their presence at most.

The trip of a lifetime

When the couple came to know after the diagnosis that Emmy would no longer be able to plug again, they managed to plan a getaway for themselves; A holiday trip from 5 days to Dubai. The biggest surprise waiting for the couple after their trip was the alternative option, although it is not too long.

Optional substitute

"Smile, love and be nice", were the words Emmy believed heavily in and these words kept her beyond all the barriers. The couple was looking for a substitution maternity as an option and some women showed interest in being the mother of substitution wishing to help Emmy and Jake, but that did not work for one or the other of the reasons each time.

Fundraising of the year

The couple was widely known because of their rare circumstances and wonderful adventurous decisions above. Emmy wrote children's books while Jake received fundraising from ITV of the year to the pride of Great Britain prices for his charity and awareness workAs it concernsCancer. Emmy worked on her blog in which she shared her fight against cancer and her extraordinary role she played with her husband in fundraising. Little knew she was going to introduce her to a wonderful person.

A classmate contacted

The incredible event changing life took place when the couple struck was contacted by their classmate, Liz Begg, 32 years old and lived with his son nearby. "I did not really know them at school but when Emmy started sharing his story on his blog, I knew I wanted to help," says Liz. She added: "Emmy was just something else - an incredible and positive person, the best way to describe it is graceful."

Unpredictable

The thought of having their baby was now the greatest reason that kept the couple moving forward every new day. They loved Liz, met immediately and planned to do everything quickly, because their hopes to be parents took them further in the darkest of time. Reproductive specialists took 9 samples of viable embryos to maintain their possibilities until the brand.

The happiest day

"We sat around a table and watched three pregnancy tests, turn them positive after the other," Reminded Jake. It was after 3 months of them being all delighted that it was good news after a long hectic period. Liz shares his experience "To experience this moment with Emmy and see hope in his eyes was amazing. It was the most perfect day we've ever had together."

Jake added: "To say that it was emotional is a euphemism, I know I can talk to Emmy when I say I think nor of us had never felt an excitement or feeling like that - C ' was totally incredible. " However, the good times for them were now over.

Together until the end

"But less than an hour after doing the Emmy tests could hardly keep your eyes open - the tank was good and really empty. The truth is said, Emmy has never been completely awake, "said Jake. Emmy died on June 16, 2017, at the age of 31 after 18 months, the fight with rare thyroid cancer. She left the world, although the story was not completed here ...

Last words

"A week before his death Emmy woke up a few hours and it was as if the lights have come back suddenly, I can not describe it," Reminding Jake remembering, "she says' Do you think I'm doing I'm doing to die?' Was just the worst feeling of my life, have to say yes. And have to see her, for the first time in my life, frightened and crying. "

Only hope

The widow lived with a thought, "she died well in the knowledge we were going to have our baby." Yet, Jake felt "totally lost and empty without her." Jake said on the loss of his love: "She It was my north, my south, my east, my West. The reason I wanted to get up every morning and be a better person. "But the hope that Jake was about to be broken too.

Bursts

The baby was the only ray of light in the life of Jake after his love of his childhood let him live in the world, but a new flow arrived when Liz informed him that the pregnancy was unsuccessful and that the substitution of the volunteers made two other attempts without success before Jake finally abandoned this option.

"After two unsuccessful attempts and more counterparty that one of you could never imagine, I decided to go backward and delay it indefinitely," he said. Despite all that happened, Jake learned the lesson never to give up Emmy and so he was determined to continue.

Angel

"She had to bear physical and emotional disorders in the last 18 months because of our choices - more than she deserved or requested, and I know she would do even more than 1,000 times and more. I do not Can not thank her enough for everything she had done and continues to do for me and all the family and friends of Emmy. But more than that, I can not thank her enough for what she gave Emmy ... because she gave Emmy and I hope. We have made it possible to dream of a future baby cot ... and it has filled us both with so much positivity and kept us both when the days were The darkest. Thank you Liz. You are actually an angel. And I will always believe that Emmy has this first baby with her in heaven. "Jake said and what he has then made for his wonderful woman is worth knowing .

Forever in the heart

Jake Cates has never been on grief to lose his best partner, his best half, "my co-captain on my bike. My best friend. My lobster. My wife. And really my hero, there is not a moment that passes when I do not miss it. "Jake expressed his grief," I can not look at the Passenger's place while driving the car without the deepest pain spreading on my chest. "After crossing the lonely days of his life, the Jake's life was to make a twist.

Family support

"The parents of Emmy Susie and David, his sister Sophie, brother in Mid Law and Niece Mils and all the friends of Emmy were the greatest support for me all along this and that I would not have really could Doing this or make decisions without them. They are my family and friends and I will do everything I can do with them and be there for them in the future. - Say in Jake about the support family Emmy.

Securities

The sincere story of Emmy and Jake has been published in Europe, which makes it a feeling, however, the premature death of Emmy has left everyone discouraged. After Emmy bid goodbye to this world, Jake's life made headlines for two different reasons that many followers of many followers do not agree or have supported Jake with their most kind words. We will tell you both the events of Jake's life that were surprising but inspiring.

A marathon

Early this year, Jake decided to manage 10 marathons and was determined to finish it in just 2 months. He did that for the love of his life and collect funds for the Royal Marsden Hospital who took care of his princess. But what happened to a surprise, it was when he went to Iceland for his marathon, he was joined by Jenna Selby, an event planner.

Look alike

Jake found love again in his life 8 months after Emmy died, Jenna, an event planner and his surprising son surprising an important place in Jake's life in a few months. He said, "Nobody was more surprised than me. They both brought the sun into my life and gave me the Nudge, I had so desperately necessary to start living fully living. "Many people claimed that Jenna is the Joncy of the Emmy, but we respect their decision while Jake has never commented.

Erase negativity

"Life is so short, you have to catch it with both hands and enjoy every second!" Jake said by thanking Jenna to have been favorable. "Strange negative comments that have been written (by people who do not know me or have no understanding of my life or what I lived) have been removed because I have no space in My life for negativity "He said.

A message of love

However, Jake has now made a step ahead in his life, but he knows that Emmy has become part of his life as he says, "I'm still talking about Emmy every day." And posted his message and his thoughtful opinion like "Go to your husband or wife. Your partner or lover. Tell them that you like them. Kisses them. Keep them so small longer .... You only here in this world for the shortest time and you never know when it could all disappear. "