A baby is irresponsibly at a place where he should not have been, then the nurse hears a slight cry
Every day in our lives, we are responsible for making countless decisions. To choose which coffee to visit in the morning to decide the Bing series
Every day in our lives, we are responsible for making countless decisions. To choose which coffee to visit in the morning to decide the series at night at night, we draw every day on the decisions without consequence. But there are decisions that weigh more than others, some might even have a life in equilibrium.
A fatal decision
One of these incredibly difficult decisions are obliged to do is whether or not to have an abortion or not. Proceedings like this can be traumatic for all those involved. Usually, once the act is done, it is supposed to be the end. But that was not the case with this unlucky lady, because this decision of the person soon returned to haunt her. Not only did that cause this baby "aborted" survives to sloppy abortion, she was released for answers.
The answers left it horrified
When a person is adopted, they are often left with many questions about their parents of birth. Finally, at some point in their lives, this curiosity grows a lot that they are forced to look for answers. When this woman approached her parents of the question on the conditions of her adoption, the answers left her well horrified.
Melissa Ohen
Melissa Ohen has weighed more than 3 pounds at the time of birth, Ohio during the advent of 1977. She was informed that her mother, a 19-year-old adolescent student found that she was pregnant during her second Year of college. Only and financially difficulties, she decided that the best action plan would be to get an abortion. 8 months pregnant, she went to the hospital to receive an abortion of saline solution (this process was interrupted because of her brutality).
Five long days
The procedure of this abortion is fairly macabre. First, they inject a toxic fluid solution directly into the amniotic bag. This solution is necessarily forced to kill the baby by burning them outside. Melissa was sitting in this poison tank for five days straight until it's time to be dead.
She heard a slight cry
Once the five days passed, his mother returned to the hospital to have the last stages of the procedure performed. She continued to give birth to what doctors believed to be dead. After delivery, they threw it into the ferry with other organic waste. But not long after she was thrown away, a nurse heard a slight cry from the tray.
She was a survivor
After this discovery, the Nicu nurse worked tirelessly to save this poor baby. In one of Melissa's interviews, she shared the story of the first time when her parents saw her. "The first time they took an eye on me, lying in the incubator, they fell in love with me. And you know, I always joke:" I know I was not a nice baby. I know that on myself "ha ha", she said. In their heart, they knew she was special.
A real fighter
Melissa continues its reflections on adoption in the same maintenance. She said to the interviewer that people should not think of children as a simple statistic. If they also have the opportunity to live like other children, they would not be very different from other children. "It's not a statistic. It's not just a choice; It's not just a right. It's a human being, "she says.
Social work
Melissa is now a very dedicated social assistant. We can often see campaigning actively against planned parenting and stop any kind of financing of abortion clinics. But before she has devoted her life to this cause, she had to fight with self-acceptance and self-love. Affected by many mental problems at the age of 14, Melissa spirals in the trifet of the devil of alcohol, sex and bulimia.
Grace of G0D
Soon, she realized how destructive it is for herself, she decided to get rid of all these unhealthy habits. To get rid of all these dirt, she looked at her lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. She quoted that she turned to the "G0D grace", in the most difficult period of her life. She also confessed that at that time she started again to be grateful for the life she was given.
Against his will
Later, Melissa would discover that, since his organic mother was only when she had discovered that she was pregnant, her mother thought that the best plan of action would be to force her child to have an abortion, because none of Between them was in a condition for taking care of a baby. As herself, Melissa's mother also had to go through extreme trauma. But if it were, how did she ignore the fact that Melissa was born alive?
She was sedded when it happened
Melissa also finds the answer to this question, it turns out that his mother was sedded during the whole of the procedure. It was not possible that it could have seen that Melissa was born alive, in the midst of all the chaos, everyone forgot to prevent it. Melissa was curious to know his mother's side of history and started looking for her.
A mother
Melissa today is a woman, a pious Catholic, a mother and an author. A memoir entitled me was published by her. He detailed the story of his life and how she became a lawyer for life. Melissa confessed that although she had feelings felt to her mother, she continued to look for her for 17 years.
Indulgent
But finally, when she became a mother herself, her heart softened. "I have always loved it, but my love for it deepened year after year," Melissa talked about his mother "and not only because the circumstances of his life and mine are now different ... I know the truth On how it has been forced this abortion. But I think the older I receive, the more I learn to love people and to respect them for whom they are, "she added.
A love story
Melissa told the interviewer that when the two of them finally met, it was "all that I could have been expected and more". Melissa's mother had spent 36 years of her life believe that this Hers daughter was dead. And all this time, she suffered guilt and sorrow. She was so disturbed by this incident that never in her life never had another child. She was delighted to meet Melissa again.
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