Beauddad acts furiously after the bride - ask a biological father to walk it in the driveway
The separation of a married couple affects the most their children. Larning is an even worse challenge for the smallest. To a parent, we feel like winning the
The separation of a married couple affects the most their children. Larning is an even worse challenge for the smallest. At a parent, we feel like winning the greatest war once children get along with their parents. This is the story of a father-in-law who has done everything possible to win the heart of his daughter-in-law. He thought his efforts were paid when she started calling him dad. Unfortunately, he lived in an illusion.
A story of reddit
A stepfather was confused and voiceless after what happened with him a day when he waited for so long. When the day was finally close enough, his daughter-daughter's decision changed everything for him and his family. He had no one to share his feelings with and know if what he did was just or not. And that's when he turned to Reddit.
Be there on his great day
So the father-in-law had a reddit account under the GODZILLA_MOON user name that he shared his story with the world. It all started 10 years back when he met a woman and falls for her at the first meeting. The woman was divorced and had a daughter of her ex-husband. Several months later, while offering them, he knew that a father's responsibility will fall on his shoulders with that of a husband.
Live together
The man was able to connect with his daughter-in-law well. And when the couple married, they made a happy family without serious sorting problems. The girl did not take a lot of time to adjust with her bellydad at the time. She called him dad and even presented it to her teachers at PTA meetings. Past years and their link became stronger.
10 years of altitude
During a case, Godzilla_Moon completed 10 years of being a loving husband and a caring father. He took care of the child as if she was her blood. When the girl finished her schooling, her father-in-law even offered to pay her college education. Although it meant taking a loan of nearly $ 40,000 on his head.
Spoil it
She stayed with her parents during her university years and even endowed with a new car from her beautiful-map. He was the only family's family bread, but he never said no wishes from his wife and his beloved daughter. After all, they were all he had and he liked to spend his money on the two most beautiful women of his life.
The happiest father
Walking his daughter to the aisle is the dream of every father. So when he discovered that the boy she was dating for two years wanted to marry her, he could not be happier. He saw it grow and now that she was ready to be married, it made her feel lucky in the way her life was perfect.
Another great responsibility
Over the years, Godzilla_Moon has a good conscious thing that his biological father was not there to help and support the mother and daughter. It was a crushing moment when he offered to pay his wedding, at least for him, it was.
The "real" daddy
Godzilla_moon mentioned in his post of reddit he loved his daughter-in-law without reservation. He also shared the rare presence of his biological father too. His biological father used to meet her from time to time and the girl was waiting for these days impatiently. His stepfather never felt bad about it but something disturbs him a lot.
A negligent man
His biological father never pays attention to her she deserved. He used to present himself in his life according to his wish and to the left whenever he wanted. He never cared about the emotions of the little girl who felt in the broken heart whenever his biological father left him.
Stepdad dilemma
Several times, his organic father promised and later did not pretend. It was unbearable for the father-in-law to see her suffer, so he told the man once not to hurt the girl. However, this did not bring any changes in its actions. Finally, Godzilla_Moon was waiting for him to grow and hear that his biological father did not care. Unfortunately, it never happened.
Leaving his heart broken
His biological father let her crush so many times. Nevertheless, he did not come from a girl's love for his father. She was well aware that he could leave her at any time, but she preferred to ignore. She has always admired her presence for a short time on her long disappearance.
Ignored beauddad
Although she also loved her father-in-law the only exception was every time her birth father appeared on the picture. She was aware of all things her father-in-law did for her and she was grateful for everything. Well, was pretty grateful? Was the father-in-law deserved?
Do not pay your way
Godzilla_moon explained how the Father "Deadbeat" never offered financial support to the mother and her daughter. Neither when the girl took admission to a reputable college, nor when she decided to get married. In Stepdad's eyes, there was nothing more than an irresponsible man.
Supper
After the date was finalized for the great day, the father-in-law organized a family dinner to share his joy. So far, Gozilla_Moon tolerated everything until his daughter-in-law made an ad during a family dinner. This decision has changed everything.
Small time
After supper, while his mother and her mother-in-law served the dessert, the bride to be formed to make an ad. She started with thanking everyone to be a part of her special night. She also wanted her biological father was also part of the dinner, ranging more and more explained, her absence did not prevent him from offering him the greatest opportunity; to walk it in the alley of his great day.
OK
The bride to have tears in his eyes when she said that her father said yes. Everyone was happy to know that the daughter's wish will be filled. Everyone but not godzilla_moon. It was too much for the old man to take. He was not even done with his announcement when another shock went to him.
Endless obligations
Godzilla_moon paid for the wedding and yet when he suggested names of 20 guests, he would like to invite to marriage, we denied. These people were close to him and there were about 250 members of the guest name on the list of visits. He did not seem to make a big difference if 20 guests were included for his property.
Not even named
The father-in-law was surprised to see the behavior of the girl he had treated as a princess. It was the money he won working hard and overtime and she did not even bother to recognize her simple request! And the worst news arrived when one of his golf friends called him.
A golf friend
The old friend of Stepdad's family asked him why his name was not mentioned on the wedding invitation. He was completely unaware of that and saying that his daughter did not want to include it in the marriage at all.
All outgoing
It was a storm in Godzilla_Moon and he had to share it with someone. He thought his wife will be able to explain the perspective of his daughter on him. Instead of sharing the concern of her husband, the mother of the bride went to defense of the mother.
Huge fight
As a result of which everything turned out to be a huge fight. She stated that her guests were not on the list because it was not possible to welcome them. In case guests would not be able to make marriage, then they could send the invitation to some of his guests.
Prepare
Godzilla_moon had a dispute with the woman she loved about everything that was going on, but he kept it aside for the celebration of the next day. The next was a huge night of dinner where the bride family and the groom's family had to be introduced with each other.
There he was
The father-in-law was just hoped that he had not had to see the face of the biological father. But the weather was rude to him and nothing was in his favor. As expected, the biological father was sitting in front of him. He kept his calm even if every moment was like a torture for him.
Advertise
The daughter-in-law got up from her chair and introduced her biological father with families. She was on the new cloud to say that her true father will assist all the duties and how much it meant for her. Everyone was delighted but his father-in-law. It was done with that now.
Cool
Yes, his anger was at the edge of the burst, he controlled in one way or another. He wanted to get out of this room right away, but he did not do. At that time, he did not stop staying silent rather than something in his mind.
Plan B
All happy moments with his daughter-in-law were the best moments of his life. He could not believe it was the same girl ignoring him completely when it was difficult to realize everything she asked. After thinking about what nothing worked as he planned or planned, he did what no one expected. He got up to make a toast soon after his daughter was sitting.
Toast
It's a custom to make a toast during the happy gatherings like this one. And he started with how blessed he had been blessed since his wife and the bride to have come into his life. He shared his experience over the last decade. But he wanted to thank the bride and groom the most for what they taught him.
Listen carefully
Everyone listened to it carefully and we expected that Godzilla_Moon would be praising the couple but did he do it? Nobody on the table could have guess his sorrow of love. So he thanked the couple to make him understand who he really was. Well, he always thought to be an irreplaceable part of the family, was he?
Not finished yet
The father-in-law was not done yet. All the angry inside was about to go out now. He added that it was nothing more than "a cash machine" for his family. He even said he felt like a "good flow of money, but not much else".
Finally, it was time to conclude his speech and he would conclude it with a decision.
Request
Godzilla_moon explained how much he was not insulted and embarrassed among his friends when one of them was not invited. The person knew the bride and groom very well and was also aware of their marriage. In addition to this, the rest of his guests received only a piece of paper as an invitation in the mail.
It's finish
He ended his speech by explaining his final decision for the improvement of his family. No one or his name had been mentioned on wedding invitations or the guest to that, he announced that he would refuse what he had previously proposed.
I'm finished
He then added that he took it as his privilege to be part of the wedding of his daughter-in-law, but to see the recent developments, he will not pay at all for the wedding. In fact, this privilege should be given to the biological father of the bride who had rented him since his arrival on the part.
Not his problem
This decision of the father-in-law will not stop at the marriage. In fact, he clearly indicated that, as a result, he will not pay the daughter or the sumptuous expenses of his mother. After all, it was his money.
Leave my house
The father-in-law has now said he will appreciate it a lot if the mother and daughter will leave her home. As he would prefer to live alone than living with selfish like them. Finally, he will take them away from his Common Savings Account. He was not even concerned for both because they had the "real daddy" at their side.
Give us an update
The reddit thread of Godzilla_Moon has become a new conversation. Many redidors congratulated the old man to take a position for himself. This gave him the most necessary confidence that he did was not bad. They asked him to say other updates on the scene he agreed.
To cut
When hundreds of people have asked and showed interest in knowing what happened later, he shared another post mentioning that they had to cut a lot out of their list without the money from Gozilla_Moon.
Make known
Partner of Godzilla_Moon tried his best to get things done on the right track, but that was not going to happen. She even tried to create a scene. She even shown him the list of all their plans and how much their daughter wanted all these things from his great day. Anyway, he remained put with his decision that proved just.
The nail in the coffin
Godzilla_moon passed through the wedding plans papers that his partner left on the table before moving when he noticed the sections he did not notice before. For the traditional father-daughter dance, his daughter chose all the songs of the choice of the "real father". The entire marriage itinerary was keeping in mind its favorite.
Good movement
He did not feel sad when they left, but they are not his true family. His old partner also attempted to write a check for a huge amount to herself. Fortunately, there has been there and removed it from the account.
Lose money
He was able to do some of his money refunded but not all. For example, the $ 1,500 paid in advance for the place were non-refundable. Yet, he has saved a fortune of money thinking finally for himself.
Furious answers
A Redditor commented on history: "As a woman, and as a mother, he makes me forget to see women acting like this to someone like you. It is women like these who give us a bad name and label many "golden diggers". I do not know if it's culture, background or education, but I can surely say that it's your right to do what you did and I should never feel bad about it ! "
What would you do?
"You managed that beautifully," said another user to Godzilla_Moon. "I am a young woman with a real father and father-in-law in my life I love. I often wondered who would point me in the driveway. My two dads hate then I'm worried about offending him the other. Would you feel better if she asked you for two to walk it in the driveway? As in a dad on each arm? "
Different story
Godzilla_moon answered that very well. He mentioned: "Your situation is probably different from ours. If the real dad has contributed time and money to raise you throughout your life, shared the allegation of anxiety that brings a teenager rather than contributing to that, then you should be fine. Ask them both of meeting you, ask them to do it as a favor to you. No man could refuse that. "A large number of reddits supported this answer. On the other hand, there were people who doubted the honesty of man.
Not innocent
Many people do not agree that Godzilla_Moon was the protagonist of this story. A Redditor said, "Something is not sitting with me. Can not help him. The people I have known where their parents saw them as parasites were situations where parents allowed them to To be parasites and control them and handle them with money. Honestly, I do not think it's innocent. "
Lack of respect or excessive reaction?
Another redidier exclaimed: "Yeah, I feel a little feeling what you say", came a voice assignment. "An incredible lack of respect for his part of the story, but an excess reaction if the subject of being excluded had not been spoken before."
All for respect
"It's not the hero we need or deserves. It's not a victory for the little guy. It is an angry and egocentric man, making a show to facilitate the pride of his pride. I sympathize with that. I understand. What I do not get is how you can expect a position of honor based on love when it is painfully obvious that you wanted it for "respect", the Redditor continued by saying.
Abandonment of the child?
A Redditor had a corrosive answer: "You dropped your child. I can see you out of your wedding. Even be crazy. I can see you raising a stench. But as you said, you cut them out of your life forever. Allow me to do this clear: you cut the child you have raised from your life forever. You said you wanted to be treated as a "real father?" Real Fathers do not cut their daughters out of their lives. "
"You're disgusting"
The Redditor interviewed Godzilla_Moon, what makes you better than his natural father? You are disgusting. "It's at that time that many people came for his rescue, one of them said the old man has already taken" a lot of nonsense "," always "n ' Requires not very little in return, but these things we need are absolute. These things are respect, consideration and appreciation. "Another person said:" No ... they cut it. He has Finally decided to go with that. "
Is it real?
When the emotions of many people were attached with the story of Godzilla_Moon the question to ask if it was authentic or not. Doubts came from the fact that the virtual account named as Godzilla_Moon was bound only in recent viral history. There were no previous stories. He answered very selective questions. Many people have suggested that it has been done to protect his privacy and that's all.
Snope
A popular website named Snopes enrolled in the photo when they started an investigation to know the authenticity of Godzilla_Moon. The snopes said that it depends on "strongly on deeply rooted stereotypes of manifest women and men's meal tickets that they regularly dry." They made their final statement that finally ended all the questions.
Inconclusive
After taking over a month, they published a statement. Finally, nothing has ever been really concluded. We therefore guess the real names of the characters (if they exist) will always remain a mystery ...