Couple separated in their teens together after 50 years for a mission
Do you believe in love? You're talking about what I'm talking about the kind of love that stays with you even if the person you are in love not to. The kind of love that makes
Do you believe in love? You're talking about what I'm talking about the kind of love that stays with you even if the person you are in love not to. The kind of love that does not teach you to make sacrifices only but also teaches you to go to a certain extent to recover this special person in your life. This story has all this: pain, hope, desire, separation and especially love that finally explodes all other feelings. This is a young couple who separated into their teenagers despite the immense love they had for each other. The couple had to suffer a lot. Things have reached their limit when they have been forced to give up their daughter. But as they say, true love is used to coming back. Here too, they meet after about 50 years. Many things have changed over the last 50 years, with the exception of one thing, it's their love for each other.
However, after being gathered, they decided to look for their daughter. In the end, their investigation brought them to an unexpected point.
It all started
They were high school cherries. Dennis Vinar and Karen Lehmann were quick to confess their feelings for each other. This tender love story with an unexpected twist took place in Brownton, Minnesota. The story is timed in 1958.
Reverse attracts
Dennis Vinar was a classic boy next door. The boy had to get out of school for a year due to a serious illness he faced. It was already a year in and so was not willing to expand the gap. He had decided to direct his concentration towards studies. Vinar's father was Buick Salerman by profession in St. Paul. Dennis would often help him with money.
Beautiful and popular
The boy had become pretty good at the moment he reached his high school. He even had a sense of incredible dress. No need to say that the charming boy was very popular with girls. Also, being the local football star gave rise to its popularity.
Extrovert and introvert
While Vinar was Extravabilla Karen Lehmann had a different personality. It was known for its introverted nature. While all teenagers in the city dream of becoming popular, Karen was limited to her studies.
Things that matter
Although they are distance poles, they had few things in common. One of them was their amazing ethics of work. While Vinar helped his father in his business and also direct football exercises. On the other hand, Lehmann was a bookstore who liked practicing clarinet. At the moment when the first year of his high school, the year of high school left the end of Lehmann had already emerged as a clarinet player star. She had found her place in the group.
This first meeting
They met for the first time in 1958. At that time, Lehmann and Vinar were 13 and 15 years respectively. The boy felt an immediate attraction towards her but did not explain. He doubted that the girl might be afraid given her shy nature. The best thing about time is that it changes. In 1960, many things had changed. Vinar had acquired the fame like a sports star and Lehmann turned into a pretty musician.
Sky game
Both were destined to settle to each other. Vinar took a step forward when he asked him to continue the night of the ball with him. Interestingly, instead of asking her face to face, he transmitted his request with the help of an inscription in his directory. The girl did not take a second saying yes.
Others were jealous
Well, it was not a good news for all these girls who wanted to go with him. Léhmann said, "All girls were jealous." Vinar had been with many girls before, but he had never felt the way he did with Lehmann. He knew she was the one who was the one. Both were crazy from each other. Lehmann was never expected that someone like Vinar manifests his interest in her. She took advantage of it.
Future planning
Vinar had even begun planning his future with her. They would spend hours discussing their future together. Their sweet love story was slowly ran until unexpected news destroyed everything.
Pregnant
The young couple quickly learned that they were pregnant. Now it was something they were not prepared for. Not to mention, they were too young to think of a solution. Lehmann was only 15 years old at that time. So was it the end of their relationship? Fearing the end of their relationship, Vinar took a step ...
Proposal
He proposed to Lehmann. Although Lehmann is more than ready to start his new life with him, his parents raised their objection. First, the girl was minor and second, her parents did not like it a little. In addition, his parents had already decided what would they do with the daughter and his born baby.
Separated and sad
The Lehmanns sent it to a "maternity house. Vinar on the other side was all alone. Unlike today's maternity homes aimed at giving free and confidential care to poor pregnant women, these front hospitals used for the work that adoption hospitals for single mothers. In these times, getting married before pregnancy was a big taboo.
Always a secret
Confidentiality is of absolute priority in these days. The girl could not understand too much how to react. She was culpability mounted too much as she did not want her parents to face any problem just because of her. At the same time, she did not want to leave Vinar. However, she decided to obey her parents.
Happiness comes
Nine months have elapsed by in the maternity house and she finally gave birth to a little girl. They baptize his Denise. The name has been retained after the father of the baby Dennis. The little girl was set up for adoption just after birth.
Proposed for adoption
Lehmann was the broken heart when she learned that her baby was set up for adoption. Despite the separation of nine months, Vinar and Karen were still in love with the other. For once again, Vinar arises the question to her and again their parents disapproved.
Unapproved
Lehmann's parents were simply not ready to approve their relationship, no matter how much they tried. Vinar enlisted in the army and Lehmann admitted to the University of Minnesota. Once again, they went to the relationship at a distance.
Again set separate
Even if they were miles from the other, love between the two has not diminished a little. Vinar would write his letters. However, these letters have never reached Lehmann as his father hide them once they have arrived. Moving gradually fluently in their relationship. Vinar always asked why was she not answering unconscious because the girl never had any of her letters. On the other hand, Lehmann tried to come terms to the fact that he had forgotten his.
Love did not help
Both of them were extremely in love with each other but could not be with each other. They both had their heart broken into pieces. Vinar expressed: "I went through hell to be with her, but I could not. We could not be together. "
With moving life
Their means had been separated. Lehmann after getting in Bachelor of Science in interior design is married and soon became a mother. Vinar too attached the knot after being done with his military duty and designed children. Although the two had gone on their side, they still could not forget the other.
After half a century
Fifty years have passed and both had been much further in their lives. However, they had still not evolved. Vinar he understood during an evening of dinner when one of his friends asked a question to the group: "If your doctor gave you 60 days to live, who would you like to take dinner and just talk? The only name that came to the spirit of Vinar was Karen Lehmann.
Feelings Back Rushing
It was then Vinar realized how much he was missing. He always wanted to be with her. A few days after dinner, Vinar opened a LinkedIn profile. The man had separated from his wife several years ago. Little said Vinar that this insignificant action of his was going to make a big change in his life.
The idea
He surfed the website to learn more about its characteristics. He then started looking for his colleagues about it. While passing through the name of the list an idea struck him. How about looking for his high school love, Karen? The man had no waiting to find her, but again, he had hope.
His name by typing
With a race core, he typed "Karen Lehmann" and waited for the result. Well, there was a big list. He checked the first and second, but none of them correspond his search. However, when he saw the third person his heart jumped a beat. He was his Karen. She lived in Monroe, Washington and was a professional design professional. Vinar shouted in joy: "Here my lady! »
A sign
Vinar took as a sign. He knew he still loved him, but was not sure the feeling of Karen. He wondered if she remembered. There was only one way of know-how to call it. VINAR calls it on the phone. A lady at the other end says, hello ...... ..
Old friend
It was his receptionist. She asked who called him. He could not understand what to say it replied, "Tell him an old friend of fifty years ago called. My name is Denny ". The receptionist did not take the call seriously. However, dropping a text to Karen.
Call him back
Karen remembers everything. She called him in a few minutes to receive the text. Lehmann was surprised, doubtful and happy while using the call. And when she finally heard Vinar's voice, once again, she felt love. True love is used to coming back. They have remained separated for more than fifty years. Did not communicate, even for once during the period, their love for each other was still young and intense. They started communicating by email and gradually took this on the phone.
Together forever
This time, even the Almighty did not want them to separate. Lehmann was also single like Vinar. After a few months of exchange of emails and calls, they decided to see each other in person. Vinar decided to fly to Washington to see his old darling. He was nervous, excited and happy. After a few hours, he reached his destination and in no time, he was going to meet her.
The day
It was January 19, 2015. He did not know what Karen had grown up. He did not know if she occupied the same feelings for him while she was once. They finally met and it was the second time the two were falling again in love. The first time too was with each other. These years had taught his many lessons, the first being they were made for each other.
Wait so long
There was no point to wait further because they had already expected about fifty years. He proposed it again and this time they got married. "It was wonderful. Absolutely wonderful." Vinar said happily. Lehmann who finally became Lehmann-Vinar packed his stuff to move to Minnesota to his only true love and now his husband too. But always, it lacked something missing .......
Incomplete
They could not be happier. But always, they felt that their celebration was incomplete. It was strange because they waited for this life for decades and now when they lived, they did not feel so good they should have. The duo quickly realized what was missing .......
Their child
It was their daughter that Lehmann's parents had presented the adoption. Their family was incomplete without her. However, the two had different thoughts about it. While Dennis was sure that their daughter would accept them wholeheartedly, Karen was in doubt. And if their truth ruins his life? Dennis tried to convince her: "I found you now, and my life will be complete if we find our daughter." It was then Karen okay. First, they found the adoption body that had put their daughter for adoption. The couple wrote a letter asking the agency to give them information about the current address of their daughter. After a few days, they received a letter from the agency.
I found it
The agency had managed to locate their daughter even after all these years. Denise had also adopted a new name, John Voxland. The woman was 56 years old and lived a happy married life with three children. Moreover, she did not live much further from her biological parents at Kenyon Minnesota. So how John he react?
The letter
John received a letter informing him that a member of the Hers family wanted to contact her. Initially, she took it as a scam and threw the letter in the trash. However, her husband had different thoughts. He decided to inquire about it. After detective work, he found that the letter was indeed from an adoption agency. It was then that John decided to respond. His astonishment knew no bounds when she learned it was her biological parents who wanted to see.
Company contact
After getting the letter from his parents, John Voxland decided to have words with the agency. John had tried to get her birth parents a few years ago, but never got anything. When the news reached Vinars, they were extremely happy. Dennis had ever seen. So he was very happy. But it was the question of why they had surrendered? They would soon see them in the office of Lutheran Social Services.
Meet them
They had set up a meeting in late May 2016. The venue was the Lutheran social services offices in St. Paul, Minnesota. They were initially nervous. However, their nervousness turned into happiness when they saw each other. John felt an immediate connection with them.
divine Intervention
John explained: "I feel a divine intervention here. ... For us to come together as we did, everyone had to be in the right place at the right time. "Now their family became great enough. Why would it not? Their family includes three children, Dennis, Karen's son of their former marriage, and now John and his family.
business together
They had already become the family and they have now become business partners. The family formed a company and appointed Vinar companies. The company manufactures furniture.