Good Lifestyle

He left, loudly grimming the door. "Life is over, I am - Nickly, is not worth even a good word." Looking around, it's not an end, but only the beginning of a new life. However, it is necessary to start it correctly, avoiding certain mistakes and made conclusions.

Finding relationships

The first desire after the rupture will call a girlfriend, pouring a glass-second wine. When an exploitation, warmed up with alcohol, will receive a victory over common sense, most of us begins to call the former and find out relationships. After all, you are now understood, "which is insignificant, dislike, etc.", because it was previously blinded by love.

Stop. You do not need to smoke stem to it to work and scratch the entire office. It is not necessary to keep it near the entrance and look at his windows, striving to see the figure there. THINK TWICE! So, before doing something twice (and better, three times) think.

Letters, comments, dreams

If the parting was too painful, it is worth removing his phone number, stop all sorts of conversations in social networks, commenting on his photo, etc. It is not necessary to constantly ask your common friends about his new girl, about where he walks and where he rests. Hold yourself in your hands!

Thought pain, it is worth thinking why your relationship stopped the existence, which was the cause, and draw conclusions. Girls are often beginning to mentally returning the former, draw a fictional picture of reconciliation and a new ghostly future.

Of course, one thing can not be taken and forgot about the beloved, but remember that men like self-sufficient, self-confident women. There is no need to give a former reason to think, it seems to have a meaning without it.

Career - Stop!

Sometimes short-sighted girls involuntarily involve relationships at work. Yes, this is a mistake, you should never mix a career and love.

However, if it happens, try to minimize communication. Do not be subjected to temptation to immediately exempt, no, it is necessary to fight for its place under the sun! Why do you have to sacrifice him also his career? Do not do it.

Tears, Molbi, Return request

Remember: Any act of a woman's humble woman is extremely flattering his self-love. Do not dare to dig in the presence of the former, do not ask him why he did so, "how could he"? Don't dare to pray about returning.

If a man has at least a little nobles, after a while, he can ask for his mistakes and try to preserve a friendly relationship. In this case, it is worth taking yourself into your hands, calm down, do not cast tears and do not ask if you can start everything again. No other chances!

I have a true lady: Thank you for those emotions and feelings that were between you, for pleasant moments, smile and ... Steps forward! The past does not exist, there is only a future!

"I'm not worth anything '

Healthy selfishness over everything! This concept is very fond of psychologists, because healthy selfishism is the main feature of the character of a healthy, psychologically mature personality. It often happens that in the relationship of husband's interests goes to the fore, a woman strives in all he pleased to persuade that she is indispensable. Sometimes girls are so smoking a beloved that stop seeing their own needs, desires, dreams.

It's time to give attention to myself loved!

Change itself from head to feet

One of the main mistakes that women do after parting, there is a desire to recycle (hair style, hair color, style, etc.), just to appeal to the former. "He should notice as I am able to change for him!"

This is a key error. You do not need to match someone else's criteria, recycle your character, deeds and opinions. Be yourself!

Turning with her husband is not a small death, this is the beginning of a new, bright, saturated life events. Consider this gap exactly!

Then it will be easier for you to perceive the end of relationships, this will allow you to tune in to a new love that will necessarily appear in your life. It is just worth opening your heart for him!