10 things to understand after 20 years

Life is this embarrassing, especially when you are 20. Being young, we are straining to carry it on his serpentine, making a bunch of mistakes and ignoring the conclusions, then we sit quietly and wait for a "happy day", when finally we will survive "truly". But the truth is that it is better to brake on turns, studying for strangers, and finally realize that "happy day" will never come in its perfect form.


Life is this embarrassing, especially when you are 20. Being young, we are straining to carry it on his serpentine, making a bunch of mistakes and ignoring the conclusions, then we sit quietly and wait for a "happy day", when finally we will survive "truly". But the truth is that it is better to brake on turns, studying for strangers, and finally realize that "happy day" will never come in its perfect form. Billions lived here to you and billions will live after. Therefore, it will be much more effective to take advantage of the experience of generations and to protect itself and energy into new, personal discoveries and creations. And happy days, they will also be enough! However, one can not drive its "today", waiting for a ghostly and joyful "tomorrow." After all, the ideal puzzle will never draw up, always a bit will not even. But while waiting for these weekends, next summer, the end of the university, the highest salary, great love, your life is already now. Therefore, it is definitely noticeable to its moment of happiness, live them for full, and be sure to read the following points - this will help avoid unnecessary disappointments in the future:

1. You have no "much time"

Oh is the most famous paradox. Up to 20 years of life stretches slowly, languages ​​thick caramel, and it seems that it will always be. But after 20, I will not have time to blame, as you are already greeted with the 30th anniversary. Time is fast. And the fact that it is plenty - only illusion.

2. Only you're in charge of your life

Failed relationships, problems in learning, chief of a self-duty. Very comfortable to accuse someone or something in their problems. However, in all your failures only one reason - you yourself. The sooner you remove your own life from autopilot and accept this responsibility, the more efficiently screw off from all "steep peaks."

3. "I know I don't know anything"

This quotation of Socrates should be remembered and accepted as a fact. You seem that you already have such an adult and you know everything about this world. But no, the world will still surprise a million times. In 25, 37, 52 and even in 90!

4. Forget about shyness

Let's assure that you have no time. After all, where you cancel, someone will definitely go away, leaving you behind.

5. Book with you

Most likely, you will happen a certain period of loneliness. It's ok and even useful. For only well studying the inner world, you can make yourself truly happy.LIFHHAK: Try to go to some journey without a company. You will surprise yourself and make a lot.

6. Little Steps - Large Goals

Never underestimate little things - they form you every day. After all, if you disassemble in detail any event, you will understand that miracles do not happen. Everything, without exception, is made up of small steps. It is better to immediately plan and perform. Believe, this is an indispensable skill in the future.

7. Always choose not things, but an impression

In their 30, you can hardly mention that shoes or dress, which are now ready to spend all the money in the world. However, you justify the flight on the balloon, your first conquered top, dawn in Bali, or as you with friends all nights wandering the lovely streets of Barcelona.

8. Life is a set of priorities settled

So it was that in the day for only 24 hours. With a huge number of motivating books, where they claim that it is only an illusion. You will have to choose to buy your time equally. Therefore, it is important to distinguish importance from secondary and choose wisely.

9. Schedule with people and care about reputation

There is such a concept as "human capital". This is your familiar and friends and familiar who know you as a good, decent man, remember your merits and talents. Quite often in life there are situations when the most needed dating helps to solve one or another question. You never know who can recommend you to prestigious work or introduce a future husband.

10. The ideal does not exist. There are unique!

It is better to consider itself to consider themselves "the most fast", as well as excluding any comparison from its field of view. The ephemeral sense of own ideal - the road to the pedestal, from which life it hurts you. And comparisons are meaningless, because you always find someone better than you. Just accept yourself with all the advantages and minuses in your own uniqueness. Nowhere in the world there is no ideal symmetry. Beauty all that surrounds you - in its uniqueness, and it is actually miraculous.


Categories: Life
Tags: psychology
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