Good Lifestyle

As they say: "Of all the lobby there are only two outputs." This expression is not to the soul with romantics, but there are no children, such as the nature of the relationship. Everyone has to make a choice sooner or later to go to life together, or continue your search for that single (oean). Usually, if the pair is dominated by love, harmony and mutual understanding then the moment of choice is almost not tangible. Everything happens naturally and here you already have a family. In another embodiment, it is a daily analysis, reflection, evaluation. For somewhere in the depths of the soul, you understand that something is wrong, something is wrong. It may not be your person and should not lose precious time. But the fear of loneliness, "sheet in hand", habit, convenience, and for some and status or material aspects often delay this process for years. As a result is a beautiful picture of "Love" in Instagram, and two already strangers are outside the frame. It holds you in the comfort zone, but are you happy there? Perhaps somewhere nearby is a person with whom your life gained away from other colors, but you do not give him a chance to manifest myself or appear as they are in relationships. And these relationships are already like a famous suitcase without a handle: it is heavily to quit. And the sooner you understand the value of your own time, you will stop doing eternal compromises with yourself and self-deception with the issuance of the desired for real, the faster you find the right path to happiness and harmony in personal life. Of course, it is very important in such solutions to feel and identify the internal "something not so". This is manifested by certain external features that you should definitely think. Here are some of them:

1. You have stopped discussing a joint future

People who realized that found each other simply can not without joint plans. They will necessarily arise about different spheres of life, from little things to something significant and important. So if you, dreaming of trekking to Everest's basic camp, did not see in this picture of your electorate and you have no desire to discuss this, then your subconsciousness will not perceive it in the future time.

2. You spend your free time separately

You were invited to a party to friends. You are "in an automaton" asking whether he wants with you. He is indifferent, and you go themselves, understanding that you are essentially indifferent. The script is repeated with campaigns in the cinemas, concerts, birthdays, etc. It is not necessary for you that he wants to present a book, it does not matter that you want to drive a bike in the park. You are so planning your life separately, then why not do it already fully separately. After all, such behavior is not about love and not about relationships.

3. You are being attached to each other

Of course, in each pair there are "trampolines", quarrels and crises. This is normal and even healthy for psychology relationships. But here is not about it. Here about an increasing feeling that a person is annoying. Literally to everyone: things are not that color, sipping of coffee, with its ringtones, a haircut, a word, unclosed tube of paste. If you can continue this list to infinity, you clearly do not want to see it next and looking for yourself small reasons instead of one serious conversation.

4. You have opposite views on an important

Important, there may be different things, because "every one's". And usually this is something like habits, religion, values, etc. It is about the thorough concepts that people are unlikely to change. You are a deeply believer, he is a convinced atheist. You are not like and afraid of dogs, he has two and wants third. You love meat and replenish your package package, he is an ecoscious vegan. There are thousands of examples. First, everything seems not critical. When the passion flashes, you will be ready to overcome and decide. But this is self-deception, because everyone will try to "redish" another. In 99.9% is a deadlock, just recognize this and find a person who understands you and will support you.

5. You don't feel developing

In harmonic relations, people feel steadily and confidently, they constantly want to become a "best" version of themselves, new goals, dreams appear, plans, there is energy for realization. In other words, they stimulate each other to self-development. If you have diametrically opposite feelings, permanent disassembling, exhaustion and slogan "somehow will", then it is worth stopping this as soon as possible. Relations must recharge you as a battery, rather than extinguishing and suppress.

6. You catch yourself to find a "other option"

Everything is simple if you are ready to be honest with you. Usually this feature is covered by human polyhemistry, but it is not here. Do you look closer to a new colleague? Rejoice that accidentally introduced mysterious man? Layers would set themselves a tinder if not a fear of exposure? Again began to keep track of the social networks of the former, rejoicing it divorce? Willingly go with lonely girlfriends in the bar, where in the air hangs an atmosphere of flirting? Sincerely listen to your desires and thoughts. Most likely, you are subconsciously in the status of another partner search, but you can not recognize this. So it is still not the same "your" man. It is better not to complicate and release each other. Give a chance to find one who will never have any doubts or curiosity to read such an article.