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People have many opinions about pregnancy and birth, and not all are right. Media can certainly not help in improving various stereotypes and myths and most films display the whole process very wrongly. These are things about pregnancy and the process of having the most commonly presented by the media.

1. Pregnant when you are middle-aged is not a big problem

Everyone who has seenBridget Jones's Baby Definitely know about this cliche sentence. But women over 40 years are difficult to imagine it compared to "unintentional" pregnancies that are often accepted by middle-aged women in films. Without the help of a doctor, the number of ovaries and the quality of the ovary that is lower naturally will make everything more difficult.

2. All infertility problems are errors from women

We find this as stereotypes that are rather rude and of course not true, because men and women are in the same position about who will experience more infertility. Infertility appears at least 30% of men, so why are women who are always blamed on the big screen? Old story.

3. With the right man, a baby appears that we always want

It is very rare for us to see a film where the woman chose to freeze her ovaries or have children when they are single. It is disappointing that we don't see many examples of women who raise their own children, because it's a common scenario. However, this is still fully stigmatized in many films - either because the couple who go or become more mothers become a surprise compared to deliberate choices.

4. He changed between "Figure Figure Full of Points" and "Dungry Shallow Princess"

Instead of being seen as a real human being with his individual personality (this is not fully suitable for pregnancy, dude). The whole life that we know is disappeared instantly and he turns into a "crazy pregnant woman". Outside this sharp stereotype, there are other options full of panic.

5. In birth, they only push the object out and all just passed

Many nurses and midwives who still believe in the labor process and give birth to the need to be fully confident, conscious and connect with the baby. Sometimes a shout will appear during the process, or a continuous change from the position of the baby's body, and also hand movements, legs and squatting. It's not just lying on your back with open legs for a few minutes. The woman is a strong fighters and the whole process is not as automatically like the Hollywood you want you to imagine.

6. Pregnancy in an easy way

Many couples choose to do IVF (baby tubes), surrogacy or other ways when trying to get a baby. But in films, they feel the pregnancy when they are the first time they try, or because of an accident. While the unintentional pregnancy is of course a reality, it is not the most common way of many couples in getting pregnancy. Having a child is something that is coveted by many women, and many "feelings of lacking" that appears with him. Inaccurate scenes in films can worsen this.

7. Nurses only appear during the crisis

In the films, when the husband disappeared or the wife was abandoned because of something, then a nurse appeared. It seems they treat this profession almost like an emergency wound plaster, rather than as part of a planned process prepared for months earlier. They are not at all "hippies" full of chaos and silly - nurses and midwives are tools for educated mothers, not part of high-risk decisions or miscalculations.

8. Birth is a full moment

There really isn't anything easy in the process of getting a baby, but the films are responsible for stopping making the giving experience getting worse and more like mystical rituals than reality. All birth processes are different, from those who use epidural procedures to cesarean section. Even when labor pain arises, it will become a very strong pain than identical to ordinary diseases or trauma and films should describe it like that.

9. First the contraction appears, then the baby comes

In addition to dramatic shouts in films that are often used to describe the process of pregnancy, contractions also become something that is often engineered. Obgyn specialists say if the breakdown of the amniotic water is not a rare and can be immediately followed by intense contractions. Contractions can occur before the amniotic water rupture or can be delayed for hours, days or weeks after tearing the membranes.

10. Luminous skin and makeup face during pregnancy

Even when they don't use perfect makeup, the women look more like a glamorous supermodel than fatigue flavor after giving birth. It would be very good to see a more realistic depiction than the brilliant figure ala magazine. Many women experience hormonal acne and other skin problems during pregnancy. Something calledKloasma Make the skin darker, while other women get black lines in their stomachs. This is never described in cinema!