Good Lifestyle

Spring has approached, which means the wedding event season. People have strong opinions about how to run a marriage, but there are many myths about this "personal unification" that we will explain. Some of these myths emerge from pop culture, while others come from our parents. Apply all the contradictory suggestions and pay attention to all the following marriage myths.

1. There is no fight

If you think happiness in marriage will not end with an argument, then you are very wrong. The argument will not make a deteriorating marriage, the difference opinion will be the best of us and even occasionally your "angel" partner will make you depression. Make sure you keep communicating with each other than just letting the disappointment and resentment continue - that's the key.

2. Your soul hemisphere is really like you

You might have a similarity with your romantic partner, but you don't have to find someone who is almost like imitation from you. In fact, mismatches are often interesting! What is needed is the similarity of fundamental principles, and it is almost all. It's all about compromising and seeing things from other people's perspectives.

3. Everyone has "someone" out there

It is impossible in the world with billions of people, there is only one person for you out there. The idea of ​​one "hemisphere" is interesting but outdated and adds a lot of pressure on a relation. This idea gives reasons for people not to try hard for their marriage, even though all marriars need a lot of effort. Even the perfect couple is not awarded just love.

4. Don't go to sleep angry

While this is not a bad general rule to run (going to sleep angrily of course will cause anxiety and discomfort), go to bed sleeping with anger is not a crusher. Although it will be difficult to sleep if you know someone is disappointed with you, a pause may be needed to process your thoughts and make a distance with the situation that happens. Sleep will give it. Don't take care of all night by fighting - it won't make everything better. Temuulah him with fresh eyes the next day.

5. Identical life plan

Similarly, like your partner doesn't have to be a mirror from you, they don't have to have a life plan that is really the same as you. Similar idealism is certainly important, like to get married or have a child, but it is necessary to be a mother who lives at home or to stay close to your family is something that must be discussed first. Discuss the things you want to compromise with your partner. What is the rest? You can handle it when they appear.

6. Intimate life becomes boring or more rare

You really have control over this - the singles may be afraid of marriage because they think sleep together will feel less burning. All things will be flat only if you leave it and every relationship requires some "spices" after a long time.

7. You lose independence

You might not have a lot of freedom like the days of time you are single, but this does not mean you lose independence and identity. You and your lover still have a separate life and can have a different hobby and group group. If not, everything will be boring - always keep freedom, but of course with restrictions!

8. You become familiar with the end of the pair

Even though you love partners and all attributes come with them, the things that frustrates from them will not turn into fun over time. The bad things will not just disappear, and may actually be more hiding under the surface, so it's important to find a long-term "coping" mechanism with your partner.

9. The presence of children makes a marriage develop

Children cannot make or stop a marriage - it depends on you and your partner. However, adding children to unstable marriages is a definite shortcut to divorce. Many studies show that children can increase the joy in marriage, but this step will be right if you have children after improving a bad marriage before. Children are not plaster!

10. Your partner can predict exactly what you need and how to make you happy.

As is not something "the main", there is also nothing like "telepathic pair" who can solve problems just by reading the mind. Like most things on this list, everything will lead to communication. Don't let your disappointment develop while secretly hoping the lover will find out. Never think that the disturbing thing you are always very clear and you don't need to say it. After you say it, the "healing door" will open. The conversation is the solution, not just staying with the hope of an emergence of a magical inspiration.