Good Lifestyle

We have gathered several of the most common scenarios who pushed women in a deliberately unhappy relationship.

Negative parent scenario

Having giving preference badly, the woman unconsciously copies the style of parental relations, in which Dad has never been considered with the opinion of Mom, rustled her, insulted and blocked. Trying to preserve the family, Mom always justified the Father in front of her daughter, endured all his tricks and spikes. Having matured, the girl is formed a rather distorted view of reality. Gentle and caring men seem to her with brown weaklings. Whether the disassembly and boils are, in her understanding, it is worth considering "real men."

Mother's instinct

Such women attracted men - eternal teenagers. Aggressive, avoiding any responsibility, inclined to polygamy and all kinds of dependencies. Oddly enough, it is these qualities that seem attractive. After all, who, like she, will help them change and stand up true. Such women can revel in their false power over the years. But it is not possible to turn the next hooligan in the prince.

Problems with self-esteem

Such women are called "gray mice." They are modest, helpful, shy. Do not like to stand out from the crowd. Deep inside, they consider themselves worse than others. This painful internal conflict magically permits the "bad" guy. Romantic relationships with him quickly raise the status of a girl in the eyes of other women. Yes, and in your own eyes too.

Emotional dependence

Such women grows in families where the atmosphere of emotional coldness reigned. Parents simply did not consider it necessary to express her daughter's love. Fed, dressed, shod - what else is needed? To somehow get their attention and tenderness, the girl had to try his best. Learn well, helping the household, do not capricious. In general, doing everything to once again not strain the parents. These girls grow up with the idea that love must be lined up and deserve. Of course, they will not pay attention to good guys. They have no pain and suffering, and, it means there is no love.

Complex "Good Girl"

There are women with a deep complex "Good Girl". Since childhood, they are accustomed to doing everything according to the rules. Cute, caring, always ready to assist. To hear from them a swift word is simply impossible. Sooner or later, the image of a perfect woman becomes in a burden. At such moments, they gladly fall into the "bad" boys. With them, they finally feel free!

Search for adrenaline and acute sensations

Such women, as a rule, are quite aware of whom they deal and clearly understand the futility of relationships. Nevertheless, "bad horses" do not scare them. After all, it is no secret that with such men is never boring. Especially at first, when a woman does not know what cockroaches live in a guy in the head.