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We recently published material aboutWhat actions make a genuine loving manAnd now they decided to figure out that some stronghold representatives prevent serious relationships. We are confident that some of the reasons will surprise you greatly.

1. Previous relations ended in failure
Of course, many have had a negative experience from previous relations. But someone over time emphasizes this emotional barrier, which prevents the new alliance to establish a new union, and someone can hardly live under the oppression of the past, not even trying to change anything. How to help such a man if you intend to build relationships with him? Create positive pictures (romantic walks, spiritual conversations) so that you are not associated with stress in his mind, but with a pleasant pastime. There is a chance that, having learned you better, he will really be ready for a more serious relationship.


2. He's just Mamienekin Son
There is such a category of men who until gray hair (or even longer) will be under guardianship too caring mom, which eventually spoils them all his life. In most cases, they will never be prepared for serious relationships. Fight the maternal authority in such respects is a waste of time and strength. If you are still the roads of this man, try to become an indispensable friend primarily for his mother. Over time, Mamienekin, a son can become your reliable companion, but be prepared to replace your mother in something.


3. Narcissism
Many men suffering from narcissism and self-confidence are absolutely not ready for serious relationships. And the reason is that they have to love someone, except for themselves. Save the novel can one: Avoid unjustified praise and admiration, and more emphasize attention on the ordinaryness of your story. It will help to lower your beloved from heaven to Earth and, thanks to your efforts, he will eventually decline to ordinary human relations.


4. Glass half empty, or your boyfriend pessimist
Agree, with a pessimist, it is even easy to communicate insanely hard, and meet - especially. Pesssimism prevents man to realize that your relationship has a future, because if not, then there is no need to start them. In such a situation, it is important to find out if there is a chance to change everything: for example, by visiting the psychologist, some violations of the nervous system can be eliminated. And it can rally and make you a good team with a promising romantic future. But in this story chances 50 to 50.


5. He is afraid to become vulnerable
There is such a type of men who are afraid to be drunk in the corner. For them, a serious relationship is a cell that rolls, restricts, makes it vulnerable and dependent emotionally from a woman. Therefore, they prefer to such stories not to get involved. To change the situation, a woman needs to begin to create a trust relationship, but only then begin a romantic continuation.


6. Fear of new feelings
Not all men have the heroic component and with their heads rush into a new novel. There are those who have no experience experiences such strong feelings, so they are seriously frightened, because it is so new. To ensure that the fear of feelings and novel in general prevented the establishment of relationships, women do not hurry, and it is better to give a man the opportunity to get used to new circumstances. For this, because the "candy-bought-bought" period is created. In fact, these men in the manifestation of feelings are ideal partners, they simply do not need to run in advance and everything will happen in the best way.


7. Pressure of society
Yes, and it happens. Some men are under pressure from external factors, among which are native, friends or even colleagues. Some succumb to strong influence from the side, which prevents serious relationships. And the opinion of the Company often dries personal inner gusts. You can cope with the situation, only becoming more authoritative in the eyes of a man. With time


8. Male - Coward
The category of men who takes serious relationship less frequently, these are banal panties. There may be many reasons for fear. The main thing is to understand: this is a conscious fear or completely uncontrollable and irrational. In the first case, it is enough to show the man that he will conquer an impregnable fortress, starting a serious relationship with you. And in the second will have to work much longer, and maybe even with the help of specialists.