Good Lifestyle

We often lie to myself, and it is difficult to avoid this, because the lie is the tool that our mind uses to face stresses. It can be just a small lie to automatically exercise herself (I look more thinner than before), or a greater lie to maintain family mounts ( Meeting family is not too bad), we often need lies. More dangerous than lies you tell yourself for many years, or even a decade. Actually, those words are inhibiting you, making you can't become a better person. They are very harmful, because most of you don't realize the harmful effects of lies! Here are 6 lies you should immediately stop telling yourself.

"I will be happy after ... "

This lie has a lot of variations, but the idea is a good thing that will come to you after a certain change, change or action. This self-telling makes you unable to see the true situation you are having, while moving the focus of thinking to a nice future will happen. You will cling to the job you hate every year, because "I will save a deposit to travel, then I will be happy." It is better to ask yourself, what is stopping you to do what you love? Why does the current life are not fun? Don't transfer the focus to think about what will make you happy in the future, see what will make you happy right here and right now.

"From tomorrow I will start exercising "

Of course not only in exercise - we always regularly delay the positive changes in your own life. It could be a healthy diet, go to Gym, go to bed sooner, drink less alcohol or eat less sweets - you can start those things right now. Starting at any time is not important, because healthy lifestyle does not have a certain time mark. Tomorrow will be no different today if you don't start small changes from now on. Even if you have plans to practice tomorrow morning - sit down and write it out, see a few videos and install the phone app. Create motivation for yourself, don't just sit there lazily and delay changes in life.

"I don't deserve lovelove"

You may not be directly to tell yourself this, but this statement is always crowded in your subconscious. If you are entangled in a bad relationship and are treated badly, stop and ask yourself - Do you really think you deserve to be loved and happy? Then think that you really love yourself. First, you need to learn to love and satisfy yourself - it is the foundation of a happy relationship, including your own relationship. You may need to start over from scratch to get used to yourself, with desires, desires and passion once again. We usually spend too little time for myself, to the point forget who I am and what I really want. Love yourself, life and world you live, and love will come to you.

"He will change because of his love for him "

In an emotional relationship often comes with many responsibilities. If two people really love each other, most problems can solve. But if you are stuck with someone who doesn't respect you and often makes you lose confidence, only love is not enough. Whether you cherish that relationship, there is a loving and interest of lovers, the opponent will still unless they want it. Only your strong will is not enough to change someone, just like you will not change your behavior or action just because someone tells you to do so. Only when you realize you need to change and really want to do that - the new maturity begins.

"That dream is too big, I don't dare to do it "

Large dreams are one of the most important motivations of life. Have you ever seen a genius inventor, a successful entrepreneur or an outstanding actor without a great dream? If you can imagine something - then you can achieve that! It is the rule of life. And if you are starting towards my dream, whether with very small steps, it will make your life a lot more and more interesting. Much of what makes it worth not the result, but the journey to reach that result. If you want to fly into the universe, it is impossible to imagine that, so why not try visualization? Join a few cosmic space events, explore the night sky through the telescope, visit a large angle to be inspired as much as possible. Then, who knows, where some changes will appear? Don't give up dreams just because it is unrealistic, because that's the only really important thing in life!

"I'm not good enough "

This is one of the most harmful lies, because it holds you from things that make you really happy. When you think I'm not smart enough, not beautiful enough, generally not good enough, you won't dare to do things that the heart is desirable because of fear of failure. A cute guy "drop hearing" you? But you think you are not good enough for that guy. A great job opportunity appeared? But again, you are afraid I'm not good enough for that job. Surely someone once said this with you, maybe when you were young. And the false awareness is deep in your mind, but you should realize it as soon as possible. Don't escape after those words that brave up - you are the only one who can change your life and live the most completely.