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The spring is coming, also means the wedding season is near. When mentioning marriage, many people show very harsh views, but there are many things about marriage that they should not be too concerned. Some comments can come from mass culture, some come from our parents. Ignore conflicting tips and don't believe in the following things about marriage.

Do not argue

If you think that happy marriage is never quarreling, then you are so confused! The argument does not make the marriage worse - disagreement can also happen among the best wives, husbands, and sometimes the most perfect partner can make you angry. The key point is: Chat, share honestly together instead of having an overwhelming anger.

My partner is the same

Of course among mates will have a few common points, but they are never identical. In fact, the marker is sucked! Just having similar basic qualities is enough, no more. The remaining depends on the yield, listen and understand each other's views.

Everyone has a "authentic half" dedicated to themselves

It is hard to believe that in the world there are billions of people, but only one person is for you. The idea of ​​"authentic half" sounds sweet but has already obsolete, and it causes more pressure on a relationship. It makes couples with reason to not try in their marriage, but every marriage needs attempts from both sides. Even the love of the perfect couple is not as easy as a cake that can be eaten.

Don't be angry when going to bed

Although this may be a good advice (angry when going to bed will make you bare), but this is not what makes a blamed relationship. Although you will be very difficult to sleep if there is a person who is angry like you, but that will be the time to take a break and think more safely. Sleep can help you do it. Don't wake up all night to quarrel - like that will not solve anything. Sleep ahead to the next day to consider the problem more alert.

The same life plan

Because your partner is not your own copy, your life plans cannot be identical. Of course, it is necessary to have similar values ​​that are similar, such as marriage or want to have children, but conditions like home to housewife or living near families may need further exchange. Discuss and agree in advance with your husband and wife. So what about the rest? You can handle when it comes.

To be together for too long causing the relationship to become boring

You can fully control this - Single people who are often afraid to marry because they think living together will make love less passionate. Everything will become tedious if you allow that to happen, and all relationships need a little "spice" after a long time together.

You will lose freedom

Surely you will not be freely self-like as a single, like that doesn't mean you will completely lose freedom and sense of ego. You and your spouse can still have your own life, with different interests and groups of friends. Otherwise everything will be extremely boring - always keep the freedom, but of course within certain limits!

You will get used to the bad habits of the other half

Even if you love their mate and their bad habits, the time does not do things that make you uncomfortable more lovely. Bad habits will not lose, which will make you more uncomfortable. So you should find a long-term response and exchange more with your partner.

Children will help happy marriage

Children cannot create or break a marriage, but it depends on you and your spouse. However, tie the children into a precarious marriage certainly the shortcut led to divorce. Many studies show that children can reduce happiness in marriage, and this is especially true if you use children to try to heal a bad marriage from the beginning. Please remember, the child is not a life buoy!

Wife / husband can know exactly what you need to be happy

Like the opinion on "the other half", this world does not have a wife and husband who has the ability to spontaneously, reading all your thoughts. Similar to the above mentioned things, all are thanks to communication. Don't let the gnawence and hope your husband / wife can understand you without saying it. Never think your anxiety is obvious and you don't need to say anything. Once you say my thoughts, the welding door mounted relationship will open. The solution here is the communication, not silence and hopefully, the miracle will come.