21 things that every child should hear
These words can mean a lot and change the life of a child for a better, so he tries to say them from time to time and you will be teaching something of future wisdom in their own minds.
Raising children can be a wild trip, and there is not a single way to do it. Even so, there are certain phrases that no child should live without hearing. These words can mean a lot and change the life of a child for a better, so he tries to say them from time to time and you will be teaching something of future wisdom in their own minds.
1. Sorry
Often, this is something that children tell their parents. But it should be a double-meaning street. Excuse them by their actions when justified, and they will learn to model this behavior.
2. I love you
This seems to logical, but sometimes as parents we do not say it enough. Especially when it comes to parents and children. Expressing your love regularly strengthens its links.
3. I am proud of you
Children always seek validation, and impress their parents means a lot. So showing them that their achievements mean something, telling them how proud you are, it is a great motivator.
4. I made a mistake
Recognizing your own mistakes will help your children do the same, and also realize that mistakes are inevitable in life.
5. I will always be here for you
The support is everything. Some aspects of childhood, such as school, can be very insulating. It is important to know that they have a parent as a defender at their corner.
6. You are beautiful as you are
We have so many strange beauty standards around the world who can make children feel as if they had not been born beautiful. When challenging these standards and reminding your child her beauty, confidence will flourish.
7. I was wrong
Some children think that adults do not make mistakes. We know that this is not true. Confessing that you are wrong makes you know that you are not perfect, and that it is okay to make mistakes. We are all committed!
8. Let's talk about it
Communication is essential to build a good relationship with your child, as well as to teach them communication skills and how to express themselves. It also teaches them to assess talking above violence.
9. I will not judge you
We all face judgments throughout our lives, whether from within or from other people. Knowing that a parent will not notice judgments help a child to feel safer being vulnerable and honest about her experiences.
10. These things happen
Sometimes, life throws you lemons, and you need to make lemonade whenever possible. Teaching your child This is vital, sometimes, things do not agree on the plan, and we have to follow the current.
11. I forgive you
Forgiveness is something very important in relationships, either with a father, a lover or a friend. The apologies are important, but it is also forgiveness. That frees someone from their own actions and gives them what they need to hear, even if they have followed ahead.
12. I believe in you
Sometimes you just need someone in your corner to support you and remind you that you have what you need to do anything, from a swimming lesson up to the science contest.
13. Do you need a hug?
Sometimes we suffocate our children with hugs when it is for our benefit instead of its. If you see that your child looks discouraged, ask him if a hug will improve it. There is nothing more comforting than a parent hug.
14. You are a very kind brother
Why are children sometimes monsters between them? Because we face them and put them in downtime or punish them when they fight. But congratulating positive moments is just as important to encourage the brothers to be kind among them.
15. We are together in this
Parents are the biggest defenders of children. Even if the boat in which they are sinking (they are being harassed, fighting with puberty or having problems with a teacher) telling them that you are on your side you can make a difference.
16. Tomorrow is a new day
The bad days stink, but the next day is a bronne and new account. Transmit this mentality to your children can be really useful to turn them into optimists, they will not be shocked in things, and they will see a new dawn as a new opportunity to do better.
17. What can I do?
Parents often impose so much pressure on children without having a mental health check. Doing this simple question can help you know a little better your offspring, and at the end you will get closer.
18. You do not have to be perfect
Perfection is something that many parents teach their children, but it is a unrealistic standard. Nobody is perfect and as soon as possible, they are taught, the faster they will develop their own identity.
19. It's okay to be different
When you are a child, it seems that the most important thing is to fit. But the different being must be celebrated. When your parents approve that, they make their child less insecure, and he feels proud of the uniqueness of him.
20. Mereces Respect
Teaching our children The foundations of respect is important to teach them that it is important to receive respect for relationships, as well as acting with respect for all those around you.
21. I'm here to listen
Parents talk with their children all the time, but how often do they really listen? The counselors are not enough, listen to the joys and struggles of your children, and do it with passion.