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It has all happened to us that after a few months of leaving with someone we disappointed and the relationship ends. Sometimes, we even surprise us to have been wrong and concluded that the roads of true love are mysterious.
The truth is that they are not so mysterious, if we keep your eyes open. Sometimes, because of the enthusiasm of falling in love we see only what we want to see and not reality, and that is why we ended up disappointing later. However, if in your next appointment you keep alert before these signs, you will be able to know from the beginning how compatible that boy and you are, and if it is your twin soul.

1. Try you with respect
At this point there are no stockings or justifications. If the boy with whom you are starting to leave is not kind, attentive and respectful, not even on the first date, it is a clear sign that he does not suit you.
Respect is the foundation of a healthy and harmonious relationship.

2. They have the same sense of humor
Culture, education and even gender can determine differences in the sense of humor, but in general terms, they must be able to laugh together. Several studies have revealed that couples who share laughter between them, more often, last longer.
It is also important that you do not confuse humor with teasing, especially if you make you. That's not humor, it's aggression.


3. You know how to listen
The quality of a relationship is determined to a large extent by the depth of it, and the only way to get there is really knowing, through conversation and observation.
If from the beginning it is more pending your mobile phone than your words, it does not suit you. And on the contrary, if you notice that recalls details of what you have told you in past conversations, it is a sign that he really listens to you and is interested in meeting you.


4. Share basic values
While it is true that a happy couple should not necessarily have the same interests, hobbies or tastes, they should share the same values, on topics such as fidelity, life projects, family, health, ethics, integrity, love, loyalty.
To investigate this on the first date, do not ask direct questions. It is better to share anecdotes that explore these topics indirectly, and get attentive to their opinions and reactions. Those casual comments will reveal you a lot about him.

5. He is kind with strangers
A hostile or violent boy, can pretend to be nice to you in the first appointments, but he can not pretend with everyone. If you notice that projects that negative attitude towards others, it is a sign that sooner or later he will treat you the same.
If the boy is friendly and respectful of the waiter, for example, you are there for a very good way.


6. They have chemistry
Chemistry can not be pretended or manufactured. It's there or it's not. During this first meeting you can notice if the attraction is felt in the air, in the environment, in the looks and in the smiles. The attraction is a spinal piece in a relationship, you can not force it just because the boy is good on paper.
Remember that sexual chemistry is the difference between a potential relationship of love and a friendship relationship.


7. It is a positive influence for you
A key quality that the man of your life must have is that he inspires you, motivates you and supports you. And for that he must be a positive influence for you, someone in turn motivated, with dreams, with goals, and who worked day by day for them.
Do not fall into the mistake of establishing a relationship with a boy without plans, aimless, because sooner or later he will make you lose the way to you too.
A couple where both have goals and values, can grow, develop and share successes and failures, leaning each other.


8. You can be yourself
Being with him makes you feel good. You feel comfortable on your own skin, relaxed, without that pressure we often feel, to have to meet a role or with certain expectations.
Being with this guy you can even feel like you already know it on time ago.
This feeling of trust is indispensable in a long-term relationship. Simply, the energy and treatment of him give you a feeling of well-being.