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Not even the boys can not always say why interest has gone suddenly. Was it just an adventure? Was it even there first? Psychologists spend years studying relationships with all their pros and cons, so for now they have more than a few ideas about why a man can do becoming colder and colder. We, ladies, we also have our conjectures, but it is still difficult to say safely. Do boys get bored or is something that women say (or do not say, for example, when a conversation does not seem to go anywhere)? Here are some things that may be responsible for him to lose interest in you.

You can not take a conversation
Relationships are not built only in physical attraction. They have to have something in common, otherwise, they will soon tire each other. If you like rock and he is a country fan, travel from him by road will soon become hell on earth, since you want to get out of the car as soon as possible. And if he voted for Trump and you are totally against him, it will also be difficult for you to build something good together. If you are in a dead end with a boy, try some icebreakers as questions about him's favorite sports team (if you have one yourself) or ask about him. But if you stay stuck there - just relax and let it go. It was not meant to be.

He has other priorities
There is something really seductive about the ambitious guys who know what they want in life and how to get it. Unfortunately, this means that most of your time will be dedicated to work and studies. Building successful relationships is not on your list of what needs to be done at this time, and it will not be for a long time. Men like this may be available for one or two nights, but do not expect them to sacrifice their goals for love and affection.


He found another girl
As banal as I can sound, sometimes the boys only find someone more beautiful. If what he wants from a relationship, however fleeting, is mostly passion and freshness, then he will not stay with you for a long time. Types like this will jump from an attractive female to another to not get bored, never. If something like this happens to you, simply accept this experience and try to better understand this type of boy to avoid it in the future.

Something serious happened
Life is full of surprises, and not all are welcome. Whether they are problems with the health, the death of a relative or the need to go live to another city, a man can suddenly decide to tie loose ends and disappear from the scene of the appointments. There are times when people need to be alone - to redefine yourself and think what to do next. If your relationships suddenly ended up this, just talk with the guy sincerely to know where the two are. If it's over, then it's better for you to move on with your life.


Physical chemistry was a bit wrong
You may not feel it, but it certainly does. If chemistry is there, it's there and it can not be confused with something else. But if he has the doubts of him and he does not feel as passionate as he should, then his relationship is in trouble. It is always a great insult for women, as they think that something is wrong with them, but it is not anyone's fault, actually. You two are not so compatible, that's all. And although the physical aspect is not the only thing that helps build successful relationships, you certainly do not ignore this part. Once you find a boy with whom you have a perfect chemistry, you will be happy to have spent some time looking for "the good".

He gave you for granted
Relationships are all about balance and if you feel that you are giving much more than you are receiving - then it is time to re-think the whole thing. If a guy gets everything he wants with little or no effort, he could get too comfortable. It is good to take care of a person you love, but it is also important to be at times at the receiving end. If most of the time cares about itself and expect you to do all hard work, you are better without him. Relationships are a game that is played by two, and if one side is being indifferent taking all the good things for done, then it is a game that will soon end.


He has not surpassed his ex
There is one more reason why your relationships do not go as well as you would like them to be - he keeps thinking about his ex. If a man often talks about him (even with you!) And he stays in touch with the friends and relatives of him, it is a definitive sign that he has not yet overcome it and there are possibilities that they return to be again together. It is better to talk to him about this matter, and maybe give the other girl a call, too! In this way you will avoid an unnecessary drama in your life.


He is leaving you in the friend area
You can go through heaven and hell with him and remain no more than friends. Why does that happen? Being friends is not bad, in fact, friendships often last longer than any other kind of relationships between people. It is also comfortable to have a girl who is also a friend, and nothing else. You can talk about anything! But if they like to spend time together and from time to time they end up in a bed, then it's something totally different. "Friends with benefits" seems to be a pretty popular tendency these days and is especially useful for those people who do not want to commit to something more serious. But be careful, since it is easy to get hurt in this type of relationship.

He already got what he wanted from you
For some guys, lying up at once is enough. They just want to spend a night (maybe two) with a woman, without any commitment. If you are looking for something more serious than that, it would be prudent to avoid intimate too early in the game. Get to get to know a little better and if you feel that everything he wants is to get into bed with you - then go find someone else. Unless, of course, do not bother you, but then get ready to let it go sooner than late.


He is a womanizer
For some children - how many more women lie with him, the better. It is especially true for younger college children in their 20s who still like to experiment and do not want to commit to long-term relationships (or any relationship at all). No matter how cool, intelligent or beautiful you are, he is still going to look for something better, just because he is a freedom fighter who does not want to settle, not in the nearest future. These types are usually quite simple about the goals of it in the relationships (or rather, the total lack of them) so if a boy tells you that he does not want relationships, I do not think it will be easy to change his mind. You will probably spend some time fighting, but in the end you will follow your separate paths.