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Be deceived the heart and is devastating. It is a sad reality that we can not control - we simply can not monitor what our other halves do when we are not there. Each relationship requires a lot of confidence and security in your loved one. Trust another person your feelings is something overwhelming but beautiful. There is no cure or special potion that protects us from being deceived, but we gather several reasons why couples tend to cheat.

1. Routine day by day
There are people who say they enjoy a 'boring life' but when it comes to a relationship, nobody likes to get bored. The simple means routine and something so ordinary that there seems to be exit. Many people stay in a relationship despite being unhappy and not satisfied, so they run from a cut life with a cookie cutter to something exciting and exciting.

2. Fearful
The commitment (just like love) is something big to process. Do you remember those guys at the school that I was doing very well in class but almost reproached the exam? Yes, as in high school some people still can not handle the pressure of having everything resolved. Unfortunately, self-sabotage is one of the main reasons why people cheat.


3. Unresolved feelings
Sometimes we entered a relationship without realizing the power that our past has about us. People try to pretend that it is not there but there is no escape. When time passes, it becomes more and clearer that all unresolved feelings of the past are still there. As humans, we tend to run by consolation. Sometimes, we run towards the hands of our EXES.


4. Curiosity
Not all deceivers are emotionally involved in the act. Some only look for something new and exciting. Whether it's a new sexual encounter or an emotional connection, finding it in someone else's arms look like a good place to start. We are going to face it: All are children in the heart and the prospect of a new shiny toy still lights up at some inside.


5. Emotional validation
We all want to be appreciated, especially for the people we love. Search emotional validation from others gives us a special boost and fill out that need. For some, the validation of one ignites the need for approval of others, therefore pushing them on an exploration trip of other options.


6. Fear of commitment
The monogamous relationships are not for everyone. It is difficult to go to have 'options' to compromise your life and love only one person. Low self-esteem and insecurity are usually added to fear, making it difficult to resist the temptations of the outside world.


7. They are no longer in love
Confronting your own feelings and you will realize that love is no longer in your heart is a challenger. Accept the death of a detonated relationship intact feelings. If you feel an adventure is the only way out, there is not much you can do to stop it. Sadly, some people see this as a necessary step to get ahead.