Good Lifestyle

Marry is a difficult decision, your life changes in every way and the most important thing is that you must develop certain characteristics so that life as a couple stays for years happily, it is not about you feeling bad, it is about sharing with the person Chosen until death separates them.
We leave you 5 points for analyzes and see if they are part of your way or you must change so that your marriage lasts as you proposed it:

1. Tolerance: This is perhaps one of the most important qualities, it is about respecting the opinions and attitudes of your partner so do not agree with them. You have to start from the idea that every human relationship to last at time should be based on respect. Do not expect your husband to do or say everything you expect. But you must have something present, tolerate does not mean to endure disrespects, as long as those actions or words do not affect your physical and emotional integrity you can accept them.


2. Patience: When you start your life as a couple you will realize actions that you do not like, such as bad mood, disorder, repetition of phrases and customs like to leave the toothpaste open or leave the clothes dirty on the ground, for all this have patience, remember May the change arrives little by little and with patience the wait will be more pleasant.


3. Work together: It is very important that the responsibilities at home are shared and both participate, in this way it develops the sense of belonging and both will notice their partner's concern to help. When children arrive, this work must be more coordinated, remember that if only the woman does everything (as it usually happens) she will inevitably always be tired and you will feel little understood what she will cool the relationship.


4. Keep the space: It is logical that once married you want to always be together, but it is healthy that occasionally everyone has its space to go out with family and friends. Let your husband comply with the goals he had when boyfriends, help them to achieve them so that personal improvement is part of the success of the couple.


5. Speak: Do not miss problems under the table, of course it's not about discussing by everything or looking for it why to each of the words or actions. But when there is something you really do not like you, you must speak calmly and with arguments. Preferably seeks a neutral site, such as a square, a restaurant, the beach or a park to talk and reach an agreement. Be always present that screaming only makes the listener block and bad words hurt without need.