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Quarantines could be a fairly recent development in Europe and the United States, but China has been dealing since last year and people have been blocked at home for a while. Many thought it would mean a baby boom for the country since you can not leave the house, you could also be busy and use your free time to make babies. But reality seems to be really less optimistic.

Many twinish couples and married couples are considering giving a divorce as soon as they can. Be stuck at home with your 24-hour partner and 7 days a week for more than a month is not an easy thing for many. With as much time on your hands and some distractions, people started revealing their darker sides, bad habits and even secrets were discovered.

It turns out that you can live with someone for years, but as you are both at work most of the time and you only see you for part of the day means you have to keep you for you Keep for most of the time. But once you are really stuck together for days, your real colors come out.

Some women have discovered that their partner delicated, others have found irreconcilible differences that they have deemed manageable. You could say that people just spent a little natural time in neighborhoods with their partner and go a little to stir all cooked at home, but on the other hand - can you really spend years with a person if You can even get along for a month?

There have been a lot of discussion on Chinese forums on the hearing of the neighbors who quarreled, fighting and crying, but at the same time, some of the people complained that even if they stayed at home with their Partner for a month, they hardly spoke for 10 seconds day. Self-isolation is difficult, no matter how you look at it. If you are stuck alone, you might feel alone and missing human contact, on the other hand, you hardly realize to your partner and you feel alone when you are stuck together for even more depressing weeks.

Some people say that for them, quarantine has been described as living in a pressure cook. You are just locked up in a small space, with all your demons and inner thoughts and another person with their own emotional baggage and strange habits. At first, you think it's going to go, then you start to be annoyed by some things, but you do not want to let it turn into an argument. After all, you have no way out of this situation, so it's better not to start a conflict, so that the pressure builds up to one day that you lose both patience and you come from to explode in the biggest fight in the history of your relationship. And this is how the cities of China have seen a massive increase in divorce applications.

A wedding agency in Dazhou, Sichuan Province of Southwestern China has had more than 300 divorce applications over the last two months. Other cities had to limit the amount of claims for divorce they will give per day, possibly discourage people from making such drastic decisions, but it did not slow the public at all. They just wait for the next available date, people queues to have a divorce.

Is it something we can learn from the future or is it just an experience that proves the futility of marriage and the dark side of isolation? It's hard to say for the moment. Some say that the tip of the divorces could be simply because people are stressed and want an easy way out of the situation, others say that quarantine was an awakening to the real needs of people and the objectives of the lives of people's life. . That's then? Only time will say.