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Spring is approaching soon, which means that the wedding season is also. People have a lot of strong opinions when it comes to getting married, but there are many myths on this union that we would like to rest. Some of these myths come from pop culture, while others come from our parents. Ignore all this conflict and pay attention to these marriage myths.

1. No combat

If you think that matrimonial happiness means never entering arguments, you are sorely mistaken. In discussion does not make bad marriage - disagreements occur at the best of us and even from time to time your angelic partner can have your nerves. Simply make sure you communicate with each other instead of letting resentment or grudge go - it's the key.

2. Your soulmate is exactly like you

You should probably have something in common with your romantic partner, but you do not need to find someone who is almost double you. In fact, the opposites often attract! Having similar basic morals is what is needed, and that's about a lot. It's about compromising and seeing things from the other person's point of view.

3. Everyone has "the one" there

There is no chance that in this world of billions of people, there is only one person for you. The idea of ​​a "soulmate" is soft but obsolete and adds a lot of pressure to a relationship. The notion gives people an excuse for not working hard on their marriage, but all weddings need work. Even the perfect match is not delivered in love on a tray.

4. Do not go crazy

Although it was not a bad general rule of having (going asleep angry will certainly lead to a boost and turn), go to the angry bed is not a perifier. Even if it's hard to sleep if you know someone is upset with you, a break may be necessary to ode to treat thoughts and have some distance from the situation. Sleep can provide that. Do not stay at the top of the night - it will not do anything better. See it with fresh eyes the next day.

5. An identical plan of life

Just as your partner does not need to be a mirror of you, they do not need to have exactly the same plan of life as you. Similar values ​​are essential, such as getting married or wanting children, but requirements, like being a stay at home or to live near your family are something to talk about. Discuss what you are ready to compromise with your partner and the rest? You can handle it as it happens.

6. Intimacy becomes boring or happening less

You are totally in control of this - singles are often scared of marriage because they think that sleeping together will be less ardent. Things are only stale if you leave them, and each relationship requires a little pin after a long time together.

7. You lose your independence

You may not have as much freedom as you have returned to your newspapers, but that does not mean that you lose your independence and your sense of self. You and your husband still have separate lives and can have separate hobby and groups of friends. Otherwise, things are sure to become boring - still maintain this freedom, but with borders of course!

8. You get used to all the boring habits of your partner

As much as you like your spouse and all the luggage that come with them, the things that annoy you will not be transformed by attaching over time. The bad things do not disappear only and could actually get under your skin more, then find a long-term adaptation mechanism and communication with your partner is essential.

9. Children prosper a marriage

Children can not do or break a wedding - it's up to you and your partner. However, adding children to an unstable wedding is a safe shortcut of the divorce. Many studies show that children can reduce joy in a wedding, but that sounds especially true when you have children trying to repair a bad marriage in the first place. Children are not a dressing!

10. Your spouse can intui exactly what you need and warm to make you happy

Just as if there was nothing like "the one", there is no telepathic partner who may want to read all your problems. Like most things on this list, everything comes down to communication. Do not let your resentment grow while hoping secretly BAE will understand it. Never think that what bothers you is so obvious, you do not have to say it. Once you vocalize, the door of healing is open. The conversation is the solution, not the silence in the hope that it will lead to a magical revelation.