10 biggest appointments for guys
You may not notice it, but there are things that can turn a guy in seconds. It will not shout, of course, but there is a good chance that it will never contact you. Here are 10 biggest dating outings for guys.
So you finally landed the date of your dreams with a guy who seems to be perfect. And after? It's now time to take a moment and look back to all your dates that have turned wrong. It's good when people do not match and mutually decide not to see each other, but more often, we, girls, end up wondering what went wrong and why Mr. Perfe has just disappeared from the face of Earth. Well, there are some reasons for that, some of which are obvious, while others are fewer. You may not notice it, but there are things that can turn a guy in seconds. It will not shout, of course, but there is a good chance that it will never contact you. Here are 10 biggest dating outings for guys.
Do not look at your phone
It's pretty obvious, but we want to remind you nevertheless - you have decided to spend quality time with a real human being, not your gadget. The more you get nervous, the more likely you are to find refuge in this simple escape. To avoid temptation, try turning it out completely and see where it gets you. The guy will be pleasantly surprised, that's for sure.
Do not ask too much questions
Dates are supposed to be effortless and easy. The questions must appear naturally, so do not turn your appointment interrogation. It is not a criminal and you will not make any more you happier if you bomb the questions of its finances to exes, family and the meaning of life. It takes time to get to know a person, but if it is not your cup of tea, it will become very obvious soon.
Do not go to the front of things
Girls tend to rush into things because when relationships feel good, they just want to feel more. For most men, it takes time to get used to being with someone. If you are already at the stage of your stay at his house from time to time, do not go out to leave your things without discussing with him. The guys are very territorial and when he is ready to have your business at home, he will probably tell him. Otherwise, just ask if everything is fine.
Do not take selfies all the time
Guys do not really like selfies, many, at least not like most girls do it. Girls can go to the sea with selfies and take them literally everywhere. Guys value all these intimate moments with you and most of the time are not comfortable to share them with the world. If you are really eager to take selfies with your BF, be sure to ask him first. In case!
Do not play games
Most times guys understand what's happening even if you feel that you are cunning and intellectual in your manipulations. If you really like the guy, drop all that nonsense and be sincere about who you are and what you want. Do not try to make it flirting jealous with other guys - these things never lead to anything good.
Do not be sticky
At some stage of the relationship, you naturally want to spend more time together. It can be difficult to say if you go to the sea with that or not. Pay attention to your boyfriend and do not hesitate to ask if something feels gone. In general, men like their space and frankly, you should also. Do not be afraid to spend a little time away - it will only add a certain spark to your relationship!
Do not talk about you all the time
If you have just started going out, it's important to be able to listen to what he has to say. One of the biggest digging for guys is when a girl is concentrated only on herself and does everything he says about him, not him. Listen to another person is a skill you should master before even starting out with other people. Listen to your friends, family, people who just need someone to talk. You will see how interesting it is!
Do not be too serious
You may think that it is this one and start planning your future together, but it's something that will certainly turn your guy or even scare it. Let yourself be the relationship unfolding in its natural way and simply enjoy being with the guy you love. It is not necessary to start planning a marriage after the second date.
Do not try too hard
It's good that you love the guy, but I'm trying too hard, I'm just going to make it squeaked. How do they know? Guys can always say! None of us is perfect, trying too difficult to show that only your best side seems a little non-natural. This happens maybe on a first date, but you should relax more as your relationship develops.
Do not take it for granted
If he is creepy - show him that you care! It does not get it a certain reaction, but guys like the feeling of being appreciated and it's really not so difficult to do since you love all these little things it does for you. Smile, say 'thank you' and let it know you are happy.